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IMAGINE MOWING YOUR LAWN AT 7 IN THE MORNING ONG-

I hate periods with all my heart because I'm sitting here with a heating pad, drinking hot chocolate, and dying on the inside.

when you"re drinking hot chocloate and it burns your tongue so now that part of your tongue cant taste it >:(

jesus are the one the dirt level now?

Is funny how a warrior cats forum has a lot of dog dislikers. I’m on the same boat honestly, I’m not a fan of dogs, more neutral. I even have to work with them but I rather not. They are pretty loud, smelly, and gross. Nothing like getting peed on and smelling like dog urine all day.

I don’t really mind other people’s dogs if they aren’t aggressive. It’s like children, they’re cool in small doses. As long as I don’t have to take care of them full time, I’m fine with them.

all animals are living things so unfortunately its in their biology to pee, Excretion is elimination of metabolic waste, which is an essential process in all organisms. so do we and if your family/yourself have worked in a nursing home you will hear on how old people work since their body (kidneys) slowly decline, animals aren't for everyone but you cant hate them for something everyone does..

I do understand that but my grandma has like 28 inside cats and their pee is rotting the whole house, its everywhere, I cannot go inside that house without puking, most animals pee on you because they see you as Territory, that's also how warriors mark their borders, scents usually pee. 

That’s difficult that your grandma lives in those conditions. It must make visiting her hard for you. I am glad to say that my exposure to animal waste is mostly at my workplace and I don’t have to experience it at home. I work in biology so I handle literally 100s to 1000s of animals almost every day dealing with all the biohazards the animals have to offer, so I rather not go home to that. I’m not one to judge people that live in that kind of filth because there could be many reasons why they are like that. Like mental health or with older people, it’s just hard for them to keep up with cleaning.

I hate that I'm the fill-in friend.

"Oh, x can't make it and we need a fourth, you want to come?"
"Hey, we have an extra ticket because x had something come up."
"I know this is last minute, but we really need another driver for everyone to get to x and wondered if you'd be available to join us"

I feel like I'm only ever invited if I'm needed, or if a preferred friend leaves a spot open. I'm never anyone's first choice, just there in the background, an extra on a rainy day. I'm never allowed in any group chats, excuses made to kick me after an event is over so I never know what's going on. Then they have the gall to say that if I wanted to be invited more I should join more events.... that I have no way of knowing are happening. It's frustrating.

I know this is awful. I know that they're not true friends if they treat me this way. I know I should "get new friends"

But this is my experience with every group I try to join for the last 6+ years. I've tried so hard to be personable, to be friendly. A lot of these people are super cool and I genuinely want to help them and hang out. I go out of my way to be there for people when they need help, often at great pain or discomfort to my own needs. I still get called selfish behind my back.

I get blanket invites to large parties, sure. But for once I want to be invited to something that is less than 50 people, where everyone on the host's contact list gets a courtesy invite because they want the party to be big and don't care who attends, where I only go to be an extra in party games and where I hardly know anyone in the room.

Pros of having a job that doesn't care what breaks you take or when:
-I'm on lunch and only have an hour left of work when I'm done
-8 hour shift feels like 2
-When I finally quit this shit hole my next job will feel like a piece of cake, heaven on earth, etc

Cons:
Ow my hips. Also a slowly building rage towards my superiors who don't care if the workload is so high we can't even take our 10s unless we want to fall behind and screw over the closing people. I have so much ammo against them if they ever piss me off too bad (they already have but I'm trying not to get people in trouble if they don't deserve it but god.... It really feels like they deserve it)

Last week I worked 8.5 hours without a SINGLE break. You'd think they'd see that shit on payroll and be like "uhhhh whats going on that's not ethical " but nope. Also I pay 10$ a week to a union in order to work here. Lawl

virtually hugging you rn because i’ve gone through a similar thing very recently and it’s not fun…i hope things get better for you. you are more than just a “backup” friend <3

color: white

when you realize the person you would have trusted with your whole life at one point now hates you and talks shit about you behind your back👍👍

...not me hitting this thread with another dog-themed rant

i love dogs so much like. i cannot put it into words. I am the number 1 dog fan.

But i hate dog owners so much. There's this one specific woman i have beef with- she's a dog trainer, always has 5-6 big dogs with her, and trains them in public spaces (fields or dog parks) which is fine i guess, but these dogs are all super aggressive. 3 of them tried to maul my dog (maltipoo) the other day and this woman??? didn't even call the dog back??? my dog was fine thankfully but its a huge **** move to stop other people from using spaces thanks to your aggressive animals. There have also been incidents where dog's broke away from dog walkers/trainers in my area (and in one very recent case, mauled a much smaller dog to the extent it needed several surgeries) ((dw the small dog is stable))

Also, it seems like a lot of people simply can't control their dogs??? Like there was this guy who had a giant black dog that was tugging him around, going up to other dogs and people, and he couldn't control it. Like. I don't care if he's friendly, my dog isn't. If you physically cannot control your dog, do not get a big dog

ALSO PEOPLE WHO GET SMALL DOGS AND DON'T TRAIN THEM. Idc if their pulling on the leash or barking is tolerable to you, TRAIN YOUR DOG. physically being able to handle your dog isn't an excuse to let them do whatever.

AND FOR THE LOVE OF GOD!!! STOP LETTING YOUR DOGS OFF!!! IN DOG ON LEASH ZONES!!! There is a hill where everyone likes to let their dog off thats right next to a dog park (as in. right on the other side of the fence) AND also right next to a 2km dog off leash zone??? like come on, you couldn't have used either of those places?

Also also anyone who gets a dog like a pug because its cute is my opp.

That is exactly what I was talking about that annoys me, oh the irony.

Pugs are an abomination bred to suffer for human enjoyment and that isn't okay. We need to start forcing them to support the health of the breed and making the faces longer or just mutually agree to only adopt and neuter all existing ones and let it fade out. Same with persian cats.

That's spectacular to hear. I knew they were doing a similar thing with bulldogs but i wasn't so sure for pugs