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Post by Deleted on Oct 19, 2016 19:01:29 GMT -5
Im sick and tired of this place being so lukewarm about the huge pile of garbage we all are and im tired of havng to go through the same thing every other day on here. You guys say things are going to change, and for a good long while i thought so to, and i stayed calm and i tried detatching myself from arguments the most i could, and if i oarticipated in them i tried to be tame. I really tried. but theres a breaking point and im really tired of compromizing my mental health by daily seeing people so easily parading the fact they hate LGBT people, im tired that they say to gain our respect we have to respect them, but they never resoect us. And when we call them out they use it as a reason to hate LGBT people more. we cant win. its just like real life and every moment im here i want to die. JUST LIKE REAL LIFE CONGRATS !!!
you call yourself christians but you all are the evilest vile people ive had the displeasure of talking with on here, and every pitiful excuse that comes out of your awful mouths is nothing but hate speech coeverly disguised as religion! Then try and defend it by saying you dont hate us and sying that you hate us doesnt hurt us but @spottedstar3137@blubberywhales Both if you have drive me into literally beating in my own skull until it was scabbed, bloody, and was too painful to even comb or touch my hair.
The christian thread group has literally given me panic attacks into not sleeping at night and dissociating so hard that ive lost memory for hours of my life.
you guys want me to be calm and civil and The Perfect Good LGBT Guy who doesnt call out you poor poor christians for your active homophobia.
im not going to be calm when all of you are destroying my mental health and constantly saying you hate me and billions of other people who JUST WANT THE RIGHT TO LIVE LIKE EVERYONE ELSE
and im ESPECIALLY tired of every mod coming to these threads and telling me to drop it and calm down and that we dont need too fight or that it could have been avoided. NO!!! IM NOT GOING TO BE CALM AND CIVIL WITH PEOPLE WHO ARE HURTING ME. I DONT CARE IF ITS THEIR OPINION OR THEIR RIGHT, ITS SICK AND DISGUSTING AND THEY ARE SICK AND DISGUSTING PEOPLE THAT CONSTANTLY HURT AND MAKE PEOPLE UNCOMFORTABLE WHO ARENT IN THEIR PRECIOUS HOMOPHOBE CIRCLE.
THEY SHOULD HAVE BEEN BANNED A LONG TIME AGO
OR. LOL MAYBE I SHOULD BE BANNED BECAUSE IM ACTUALLY DARING TO SPEAK UP BUT TBH I THINK IM JUST GONNA MAKE IT EASY ON YALL AND DELETE MY ACCOUNT INSTEAD
because im tired of feeling consistantly suicidal because of this place, and i hate having to pretend im buddy buddy with everyone on here even if they are disgusting bigots just to people will ACTUALLY RESPECT ME
i was almost out of a deoressive episode before i joined here but its brought me nothing but misery and self harm
i was usimg this place as a crutch to get over the fact that all my IRL friends are away in college and ill hardly ever get to see them for the next 4-6 years, but instead i literally signed up for a poison that promised to be good to me but is slowly leading me to kill myself and i just cant do this anymore
my boyfriend is flying in tomorrow and i should be excited but instead you guys have reminded me why my existence is dangerous to my health and that ill probably never be treated equally in this life time. screw you guys I hope you are happy on what youve created here. I should have left with the others when otd closed down i guess it was pretty goddamn foolish of me for thinking it would ever change
ill make a goodbye thread linking my social media but after that im gone. you guys are literally killing me i cant take this anymore
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Post by Sanders on Oct 19, 2016 19:05:11 GMT -5
like i just said this place is not a safe space for lgbt people and never will be.
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Post by Deleted on Oct 19, 2016 19:05:21 GMT -5
@redx Sand 🎃any ideas when the mini mods will be implemented? any rule revisions? etc? ): it's been quite a while
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Post by Sour Candy on Oct 19, 2016 19:05:36 GMT -5
Probably not a good idea to stay here then???
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Post by Sanders on Oct 19, 2016 19:06:55 GMT -5
@redx Sand 🎃 any ideas when the mini mods will be implemented? any rule revisions? etc? ): it's been quite a while nothing's going to happen because nobody cares tbh. doesn't matter and i don't care if they come here and say anything will change. ive lost all faith that anything will change
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Post by Deleted on Oct 19, 2016 19:08:01 GMT -5
Idk we were waiting on tomo but he was supposed to be on by now, he hasn't been on since September I'll talk to Roswell to have them make the thread, or something?
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Post by Deleted on Oct 19, 2016 19:08:28 GMT -5
Probably not a good idea to stay here then??? That's kinda rude, Sour. ): And they have already deleted their account.
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Post by Sour Candy on Oct 19, 2016 19:09:28 GMT -5
Probably not a good idea to stay here then??? That's kinda rude, Sour. ): And they have already deleted their account. Well since clearly this website is causing so many problems with them, they shouldn't have stayed here that long....plus I posted that before I realized the account was gone.
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Post by Deleted on Oct 19, 2016 19:09:42 GMT -5
Idk we were waiting on tomo but he was supposed to be on by now, he hasn't been on since September I'll talk to Roswell to have them make the thread, or something? Thank you! That would be really nice. Something needs to happen, for sure.
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Post by Deleted on Oct 19, 2016 19:09:51 GMT -5
Probably not a good idea to stay here then???
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Post by Haleigh on Oct 19, 2016 19:10:15 GMT -5
Is this happening on the Christian thread?
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Post by Deleted on Oct 19, 2016 19:11:18 GMT -5
Idk we were waiting on tomo but he was supposed to be on by now, he hasn't been on since September I'll talk to Roswell to have them make the thread, or something? Why is tomo even considered an admin? Literally all they've done is click "create forum" and Roswell did everything else. All tomo done is piss people off
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Post by Deleted on Oct 19, 2016 19:12:01 GMT -5
That's kinda rude, Sour. ): And they have already deleted their account. Well since clearly this website is causing so many problems with them, they shouldn't have stayed here that long....plus I posted that before I realized the account was gone. I understand what you meant. It's good advice in general. Your delivery was kinda harsh though, especially when they are having so many problems - especially self-harm. "Sugar coating" might be a good idea sometimes. Like candy.
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Post by Sand 🎃 on Oct 19, 2016 19:12:14 GMT -5
Idk we were waiting on tomo but he was supposed to be on by now, he hasn't been on since September I'll talk to Roswell to have them make the thread, or something? or you and I can try to do it at this point, I'm desperate as you know what
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Post by greene on Oct 19, 2016 19:12:20 GMT -5
if it's taking that much of a toll on your mental health that it's causing you physical and emotional anguish, this is probably the best decision to make.
i'm sorry people are like this. i'm sorry that people still think in the year 2016 that it's okay to say some of the things which have been said here. you deserve so much better, and i sincerely hope you find it.
i'm about to yeet this place myself honestly. i think i've outgrown it aside from a couple good friends i'll stay beside, but otherwise it just causes me all kinds of frustration which it really really shouldn't lmao
props to speaking out, and best of luck.
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Post by Sanders on Oct 19, 2016 19:12:32 GMT -5
like i said nothing is going to change LOL roswell cares kind of and tries their best. but only after the last time we had a little uprising did i see more activity, which i appreciate. but i never see tomo and from what i hear they're never on either. or at least weren't for a while. i don't keep tabs on tomo. so like. i have so little faith that anyone on this site that's in the power to do so will change anything because if it hasn't yet after multiple times of this happening, i doubt it will now.
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Post by Deleted on Oct 19, 2016 19:12:39 GMT -5
I don't even have anything to add because you said it all, but ily and I got your back.
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Post by Sour Candy on Oct 19, 2016 19:13:12 GMT -5
Well since clearly this website is causing so many problems with them, they shouldn't have stayed here that long....plus I posted that before I realized the account was gone. I understand what you meant. It's good advice in general. Your delivery was kinda harsh though, especially when they are having so many problems - especially self-harm. "Sugar coating" might be a good idea sometimes. Like candy. Yeah...me and them never got along so I tend to accidentally come off as rude a lot of the time.
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Post by Deleted on Oct 19, 2016 19:14:14 GMT -5
Sand 🎃, Sure. We can do it
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Post by Yoshimi on Oct 19, 2016 19:14:18 GMT -5
Goodbye, sweet prince
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Post by Splintercat on Oct 19, 2016 19:14:22 GMT -5
I know I'm the least qualified person to respond to this, and I pray I don't stir up more drama, but you don't know how sorry I am that we've made you feel this way. I don't hate you, nor do I hate anybody else on this site. My intention was never to make you feel bad about yourself or hurt you, and neither, I don't think, was anyone else's- I was just trying to defend my faith's position, not tell you that you should or shouldn't live your life however you want. And I should have just stopped that after the first big fight I was involved in, especially since I don't often have the best control over my tongue. Again, I'm incredibly sorry that you feel this way, and I know you won't forgive me, but I must say it. I hope and pray that you find happiness and peace, wherever you go. Best of luck ❤️
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Post by Deleted on Oct 19, 2016 19:15:11 GMT -5
It's sad because the people they mentioned probably don't care...
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Post by Deleted on Oct 19, 2016 19:15:43 GMT -5
Idk we were waiting on tomo but he was supposed to be on by now, he hasn't been on since September I'll talk to Roswell to have them make the thread, or something? or you and I can try to do it at this point, I'm desperate as you know what
i know it's not my place but i hope you're open to suggestions like you were when the idea was introduced: If Tomo comes back for the review process, he should be able to help then, but it needs to be moved forward before then. Roswell doing the thread has pros and cons. Pros: Shows continued authority and support of an admin, which is important. Basically a bunch of other things related to that first option Cons: Ros isn't as popular with people as you and Toothless are. Ros might prefer you two do it due to their busy life (I suggest asking for this one). Things like that.
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Post by Deleted on Oct 19, 2016 19:16:00 GMT -5
Also, the mods. I want you to understand that these issues are driving the forum's LGBT population away. I can't name a single conservative/homophobe you permanently left, but I can name like five LGBT people who just couldn't take it any more. And you know what? The only thing keeping me here is fear of leaving the others alone with the homophobes, who are never going to walk away, because why should they? They get to feel safe here.
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Post by Sanders on Oct 19, 2016 19:17:07 GMT -5
It's sad because the people they mentioned probably don't care...
im sure that they don't lol
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Post by Deleted on Oct 19, 2016 19:17:16 GMT -5
Also, the mods. I want you to understand that these issues are driving the forum's LGBT population away. I can't name a single conservative/homophobe you permanently left, but I can name like five LGBT people who just couldn't take it any more. And you know what? The only thing keeping me here is fear of leaving the others alone with the homophobes, who are never going to walk away, because why should they? They get to feel safe here.
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Post by Deleted on Oct 19, 2016 19:19:21 GMT -5
I understand what you meant. It's good advice in general. Your delivery was kinda harsh though, especially when they are having so many problems - especially self-harm. "Sugar coating" might be a good idea sometimes. Like candy. Yeah...me and them never got along so I tend to accidentally come off as rude a lot of the time. I've seen some of your disagreements ): I can see why you'd be a bit wary of them. It'd still be nice if you could consider things a little more thoroughly, though. Remember not to contribute to a problem and things like that. Especially when it's self-harm related. If I'm coming off poorly on this subject, I'm sorry. I dealt with self-harm for multiple years and a few suicide attempts, so I'm sensitive to the subject. I hope you understand ):
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Post by mickle on Oct 19, 2016 19:19:52 GMT -5
"...discrimination which is NOT condoned on these forums"
would we allow a racist to have their words out in the open for everybody? i don't think so. i don't see how hatred against people based on their orientation is any different from hatred based on skin color.
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Post by Sanders on Oct 19, 2016 19:20:26 GMT -5
Also, the mods. I want you to understand that these issues are driving the forum's LGBT population away. I can't name a single conservative/homophobe you permanently left, but I can name like five LGBT people who just couldn't take it any more. And you know what? The only thing keeping me here is fear of leaving the others alone with the homophobes, who are never going to walk away, because why should they? They get to feel safe here. this is so much. like i am very open about my identity on here and im just constantly waiting for someone to come on and spew some total bs about how their religion doesn't see my gender identity as real and im a girl through and through even though im not. like the only bonus about this site is that people can't see me! because all the gross transphobes on here would misgender me 100% of the time lol and maybe they do and i just don't look hard enough to find it. so like there is no safety ever for me.
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Post by Sand 🎃 on Oct 19, 2016 19:20:33 GMT -5
@embersanja - at this point, Tomo is basically AWOL. I haven't heard from the guy in quite some time and the same someone I know that is close to him. He up and ditched this, unfortunately.
I'm thinking of what to do with the homophobic people, I'll probably release something on it tonight. I'll talk it out with Sav.
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