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Post by dovviexx on Dec 13, 2019 21:55:45 GMT -5
sorry for mini hiatus! crazy times lately. i worked 7 days in a row... 47 hours total ;o;... i'm exhausted to say the least. two exams down, one online exam/final paper handed in on time(today at 6pm)... two more exams to go! (history 122 on monday and philosophy 111 on tuesday) AND THEN CHRISTMAS BREAK lol
brindle - i understand what you mean by "in one ear and out the other". this actually happened last night with me and noah(my boyfriend). i was in our hometown, and he was still in the city where we live now, and i mentioned late last night that i wanted to talk. i tend to overthink during nighttime and when i'm in bed, and then my anxiety gets bad and i spiral. i told him some things about how i was feeling and it seemed like he wasn't even bothering to listen. i mean, we've worked it out now but it IS frustrating. i've never really had to worry about noah cheating on me, because our history is so complicated and he worked so hard to win me over in the past, but i do feel uncomfortable a bit when he goes and smokes with his girl best friend, who lives in the city we now live in. unfortunately, people can do whatever they want. just because i don't feel 100% comfortable with it and might not like it, doesn't mean he can't go ahead and do it. he's his own person and i won't hold him against his own happiness. you know? sometimes in relationships we as the females with the over-worrying and all have to make sacrifices in order to better the happiness of our partner. for instance: i'm moving out of residence on campus in june, and signing onto the lease of the house noah is currently in; thus moving in. he mentioned he wanted to have separate rooms. at first, this really upset me and caught me off guard. but in the end it seems beneficial. he likes his space a lot... and sometimes when we see each other day in and day out for the whole day we get a bit short and snippy with each other. so if this decision of separate rooms will make him happier, i'll suck it up. but the more i think about it, this is smart. i have my own study space. not saying it will happen, and god i hope it doesn't, but what if we break up? nothing is guaranteed, unfortunately. what if he works at 6am and i have to be up all night finishing assignments? what if i have class at 8:30am and he wants to stay up all night playing video games? what if we fight? sometimes the decision we might not like is actually better in the end run, once you think about it. i didn't mean to rant like that... owo feel free to pm me and i can give you an easier more private means of contact if you'd like to discuss relationship issues further. i'm happy to help a fellow girlfriend.
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Post by ~ωιηтєя'ѕ ℓιℓу✬ on Dec 14, 2019 13:30:11 GMT -5
Mint: Oh noooo you might be doomed. :c
Dov: Break is so close! I'm on break now and it's so relaxing.
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Post by Eveningbrook on Dec 14, 2019 21:31:19 GMT -5
*casually floats in* How long is your break, Winter?
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Post by mintedstar/fur🦇 on Dec 14, 2019 22:17:08 GMT -5
Winter: I think I might be. How are you?
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Post by dovviexx on Dec 14, 2019 23:13:28 GMT -5
lil - i mean, i'm kind of slacking off already. break is so close, but i just feel like it already. i came back to the city i go to school in, and noah went back to our hometown for the weekend so all day i spent cleaning, doing laundry, cooking, and watching the office on netflix, lol. (its so much easier to clean and do whatever when he isn't home hahha) how do you think you did on finals?
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Post by mintedstar/fur🦇 on Dec 15, 2019 6:56:51 GMT -5
How are you, Dov?
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Post by ~ωιηтєя'ѕ ℓιℓу✬ on Dec 15, 2019 18:13:38 GMT -5
Evening: Hi! Three or four weeks I think. I haven't looked at the exact day when we start up again.
Mint: I'm doing alright! Glad to be on break. c:
Dov: One class went great, the other two not good but eh.
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Post by mintedstar/fur🦇 on Dec 16, 2019 15:23:59 GMT -5
I've gotten to that point where I'm staying up too late and I know that I'm heading for a crash. So I'm going to have a 'class' at 10 in the morning and I'm going to make sure that I get in bed by 12 so I can be ready for it. This is totally a real class.
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Post by mintedstar/fur🦇 on Dec 16, 2019 15:24:11 GMT -5
I've gotten to that point where I'm staying up too late and I know that I'm heading for a crash. So I'm going to have a 'class' at 10 in the morning and I'm going to make sure that I get in bed by 12 so I can be ready for it. This is totally a real class.
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Post by ~ωιηтєя'ѕ ℓιℓу✬ on Dec 17, 2019 13:33:27 GMT -5
I've been sleeping at three for the longest time; I'm still waiting for my crash. Hope you made it for your totally real class!
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Post by mintedstar/fur🦇 on Dec 17, 2019 21:38:16 GMT -5
I know that. XD Today I made it, but the professor is moving the time to earlier, so looks like I will really, very seriously HAVE to get to bed by 1.
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Post by ~ωιηтєя'ѕ ℓιℓу✬ on Dec 18, 2019 3:00:20 GMT -5
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Post by mintedstar/fur🦇 on Dec 18, 2019 14:45:07 GMT -5
Indeed. I did it.
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Post by ~ωιηтєя'ѕ ℓιℓу✬ on Dec 18, 2019 14:53:27 GMT -5
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Post by dovviexx on Dec 19, 2019 9:59:11 GMT -5
lil - eh, you win some you lose some, right? i'm finally home and it feels so NICE happy holidays omg
mint - i'm well, not that finals are over, thank heavens. how are you?
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Post by ~ωιηтєя'ѕ ℓιℓу✬ on Dec 19, 2019 14:59:05 GMT -5
Yeah. At least I can finally see the end of college. That's good that you're home! And happy holidays to you too. c:
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Post by Brindlebriar on Dec 19, 2019 16:13:51 GMT -5
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Post by mintedstar/fur🦇 on Dec 19, 2019 18:24:27 GMT -5
Ho ho ho!
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Post by mintedstar/fur🦇 on Dec 19, 2019 18:25:17 GMT -5
Dov: Doing well! I worked at my library yesterday - moving the teen section - and that was really fun. I want to do it again today but my back is killing me.
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Post by dovviexx on Dec 19, 2019 19:44:37 GMT -5
mint - omg that stinks! sorry about your back but the library seems fun! i've always wanted to work in one. it's just such a peaceful and quiet environment. instead, i work in fast food. ;-;
lil - yeah. it's crazy that i'm already halfway through my first year. i can only imagine what 4 years will feel like. what year are you in?
brindle - heya!
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Post by ~ωιηтєя'ѕ ℓιℓу✬ on Dec 20, 2019 14:46:06 GMT -5
Hi friends!
Dov: This is my third year.
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Post by mintedstar/fur🦇 on Dec 21, 2019 1:43:49 GMT -5
Dov: Ouch. Yeah, I'm sorry to hear that. *pats* Technically I'm just a volunteer there. I've been trying to get hired for ages now. (Need to submit my application again. SHOOT I keep forgetting.) And my actual job is just being employed by my school. But I'm active (kinda less now) as a volunteer at my library.
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Post by ~ωιηтєя'ѕ ℓιℓу✬ on Dec 23, 2019 2:36:30 GMT -5
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Post by mintedstar/fur🦇 on Dec 23, 2019 16:09:31 GMT -5
o.o One of the game companies I follow finally - finally - came out with their new game. So many mixed reviews but I stay positive.
Now to get it and play it, woop woop.
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Post by dovviexx on Dec 23, 2019 19:15:26 GMT -5
lil - holy guacamole... i wish. your program is 4 yrs? the college vs university scene in america is a bit different than in canada. colleges in canada are only 2 year programs... maybe 3 or 4 for specialized fields.
mint - especially the location i work at... which is installed IN a walmart supercentre. and during the holidays... all i can say is yikes. thats still fun as a volunteer activity! maybe they'll hire you if you finally get that application in
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Post by Eveningbrook on Dec 23, 2019 23:54:45 GMT -5
*floats* *releases mysterious balloon*
3 or 4 weeks...I wish I had a break that long. D: I think one time I got three weeks but usually it was only two. Since I’m working now I only get one. I do hope you’re enjoying your break though! ^^
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Post by ~ωιηтєя'ѕ ℓιℓу✬ on Dec 24, 2019 14:48:16 GMT -5
Mint: Yay! I hope you get it and have fun playing it!
Dov: Yeah I forgot there's a difference. >.<
Evening: Ooh a mysterious balloon. : O I am! And I hope you enjoyed your week off!
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Post by mintedstar/fur🦇 on Dec 24, 2019 14:57:53 GMT -5
Dov: Hopefully! Come to think of it I'm going to go do that now, heh. Cross your fingers for me.
Evening: What are you going to do with your limited break? Sometimes even if it's small you can do something cool with it.
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Post by mintedstar/fur🦇 on Dec 24, 2019 15:01:03 GMT -5
Winter: Whoops! Missed your reply! I hope so too!
How are you all doing today?
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Post by ~ωιηтєя'ѕ ℓιℓу✬ on Dec 25, 2019 19:38:26 GMT -5
It's all good. c: I'm doing alright! I hope you are too!
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