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Post by Brindlebriar on Nov 30, 2019 12:56:04 GMT -5
Stressed as usual, but thats whatever
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Post by ~ωιηтєя'ѕ ℓιℓу✬ on Nov 30, 2019 13:18:29 GMT -5
Brindle: Hello again!
Dov: College is really overwhelming, but it'll be great when it's all over and you're off for break! I'm off in two more weeks.
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Post by dovviexx on Nov 30, 2019 13:52:20 GMT -5
brindle - yeah, me as well. do you want to talk about it?
lil - yeah. and honestly, first semester flew by. i can only imagine how quickly 4 years will go by. yeah, i'm off in about the same time too. my last day of classes was yesterday. now exam period.
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Post by Brindlebriar on Nov 30, 2019 13:54:37 GMT -5
Just relationship issues that i can never seem to resolve.
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Post by ~ωιηтєя'ѕ ℓιℓу✬ on Dec 1, 2019 13:30:05 GMT -5
Dov: I hope it goes by fast for you! I'm just here hanging on because I can finally see the end. :') I still have a week of classes I think.
Brindle: If you ever need to vent or anything, feel free to PM me. I'm always open to be a listening ear.
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Post by mintedstar/fur🦇 on Dec 1, 2019 14:40:47 GMT -5
Brindle: Hey! Dov: Considering I listened to those I'm fairly sure, I agree. XD As I said, I tend to listen to whats on the radio too, so I've heard the more ... modern country. I honestly couldn't name a single artist or song title from it though. Older ones? Yes. Hum. Should be in Canadian Netflix? Should is the key word here. Ye. You hear his name a lot in English. And thank you! How have you been? Winter: How have you been, too?
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Post by ~ωιηтєя'ѕ ℓιℓу✬ on Dec 1, 2019 16:14:18 GMT -5
Tired from school and NaNo but alright. c: How about you?
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Post by mintedstar/fur🦇 on Dec 3, 2019 2:17:21 GMT -5
Sick again. @.@ Different head cold. Annoying as it may be.
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Post by Brindlebriar on Dec 3, 2019 12:46:05 GMT -5
When was the last time yall read The New Prophecy in the warrior series? I wanna know yalls thoughts on it. I recently started to re read the whole series again and this is where I am rn
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Post by ~ωιηтєя'ѕ ℓιℓу✬ on Dec 3, 2019 15:29:32 GMT -5
Mint: Aw :c Feel better soon!
Brindle: Oh gosh I haven't touched a Warriors book in years.
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Post by mintedstar/fur🦇 on Dec 3, 2019 16:20:18 GMT -5
Winter: Thanks!
Brindle: Wow. Been ages since I reread. Well, correction. I reread Sunset about as often as I reread Power of Three/Omen of the Stars. So I suppose last time I reread Sunset was 2-3 years ago. AKA when college stole all my free time.
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Post by dovviexx on Dec 3, 2019 16:58:47 GMT -5
brindle - oh, i hope they can be resolved. ;-; i haven't read the books in a long, long time. but recently i've uncovered a huge bin my boyfriend hasn't unpacked yet that has most(if not all) of the warriors series books in it. so maybe i'll start reading them again c:
lil - thank you! and you as well. my hardest exam is in... 17 hours !! AACK
mint - yeah, old country is easily recognizable by name, but newer country, more by the sound of it. hmm... still haven't checked it out, but soon i will ive been.... stressed, simply put. but soon it'll be christmas and exams will be over and i'll be able to breathe again.
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Post by ~ωιηтєя'ѕ ℓιℓу✬ on Dec 4, 2019 14:29:40 GMT -5
Mint: No problem. c:
Dov: I hope you did alright on it. c:
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Post by dovviexx on Dec 4, 2019 15:22:33 GMT -5
i hope it did too! i feel alright about it, not overly confident but there were things on there where i knew exactly how to answer. one down, four exams to go ;-;
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Post by Brindlebriar on Dec 4, 2019 17:52:45 GMT -5
LOL i started re reading them because I was bored
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Post by dovviexx on Dec 5, 2019 7:55:06 GMT -5
oh boy... i wish i could be bored. i'm so busy, it's not even funny anymore ;c
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Post by Brindlebriar on Dec 5, 2019 12:24:52 GMT -5
with how crappy work has been, i sadly have had a lot of down time :\
I'd give anything to be busy everyday with a job that actually paid me decently.
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Post by ~ωιηтєя'ѕ ℓιℓу✬ on Dec 5, 2019 13:10:48 GMT -5
Dov: You can do it!
Brindle: I wish I could be not busy too. I've been struggling to get three hours of sleep at night because of schoolwork. >.<
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Post by mintedstar/fur🦇 on Dec 5, 2019 18:54:40 GMT -5
Dov: Feel better soon! Heeeeello! I hit my leg against a chair today, so that hurts. Anyone want to hear about how work-kitten-for-a-day is doing? I believe I mentioned her to Winter and Brinble before, but I can always tell the tale again plus add the update on how she is.
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Post by ~ωιηтєя'ѕ ℓιℓу✬ on Dec 6, 2019 13:17:25 GMT -5
Oh no. Hope your leg is better now! And yes, tell the tale again. c:
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Post by Brindlebriar on Dec 6, 2019 18:19:06 GMT -5
okay so i gotta let this out to someone i totally understand if you don't want to read it or reply or whatever, but I need to get it out. Earlier my boyfriend butt-facetimed me and i called him back because it hung up almost immediately. He said he didn't call and sent me a screenshot of his call list and I sent him a screenshot of my Facetime thing to show that he did. On my facetime thing there was two dudes (Two who I have been friends with for years) and David asked why I had facetimed them, and I told him - tommy called when me and david had our big relationship thing where neither of us knew if we were going to be together and he just wanted to make sure I was alright. Ben called on sunday because he has this toy drive thing hes doing and he asked if i had any old toys or stuffed animals I could donate and I told him that I had gotten rid of all of my stuffed animal and stuff when I moved, and then we talked for a few minutes because I hadnt talkedto him in months and he just wanted to see how I was doing. So, i told david that, because i dont have anything to hide, if I did I would not have even sent him a screenshot of my call list -_- Like, I get that me talking to other guys makes him uncomfy, and I unadded a lot of people from sna because he was super uncomfortable, but ANY guy i talk to he makes a huge deal and always brings up his exs and how he was cheated on. I get that its scary, but we've been dating for almost two years now and I have never given him one reason to think that I've done something to put our relationship in harms way. I cant just STOP talking to every guy... Its not right for him to ask me to do that. Its like me saying he isnt allowed to ever talk to another female. What is a relationship if there is no trust. I've tried talking to him about it, but we never get anywhere with it. i always just end up deleting people off social media without explanation, and they in turn think im mad at them and then I lose a friend. He never really does anything but cry about it and make me feel like shit- i just dont know what to do.
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Post by dovviexx on Dec 6, 2019 21:36:54 GMT -5
lil - ah... finally i'm home for a bit and then other exams. it feels soooo nice c:
mint - thank you! and ouch about your leg! o:
brindle - hold on i'm gonna reply to your thing in a separate post
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Post by dovviexx on Dec 6, 2019 21:45:09 GMT -5
okay, i read it all. honestly, my boyfriend has trust issues due to his past and just upbringing so i understand what you feel like. it's hard to just drop all your friends. i had this problem when me and my boyfriend first got together, just over a year ago. i have a guy best friend, and we all knew that this guy(we'll call him T) had a HUGE crush on my best friend(we'll call her B ). T, B, and i were inseparable and constantly hung out, but it couldn't stop my boyfriend, noah, from being so insecure and thinking that i was hanging around another guy. and this isn't the only guy friend i have who i spend a considerable amount of time with. but; enough about me. i know you've tried to talk to him about it, and in turn is upsetting for your sake and his. i don't want to say that you need to corner him about it... but say exactly what you said there. give him an ultimatum. what is a relationship if there isn't trust? that's what a relationship IS. or, even better, write out how you feel in a letter and slip it into his car, in his room, somewhere where he will find it but read it in private, so you don't have to be there for him to ignore everything. then, a few days later, approach him about it. if he really loves you, and cares about how you feel, he will have read the thing and realized how he's making you feel. (this same thing also happened to me when i moved into university and a guy from my FROSH group was hanging around me- because we were in the same FROSH group).
it sounds dumb, but i know love makes everyone do dumb things. like, dealing with an asshole boyfriend and looking past it and getting over it instead of dealing with the issue. i do it time and time again, and i dealt with someone who really didn't love me in my previous relationship.
if you'd like my private contact i can pm you and send you something... i'm always here to talk about this cause i was/am in some sort of the same situation
side note --communication is key in a relationship, along with trust so if he keeps brushing your feelings to the side, you may need approach him with that as well--
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Post by Brindlebriar on Dec 6, 2019 21:54:02 GMT -5
I really appreciate that. I've talked to him and sometimes i feel like it just goes in one ear and the other, and it REALLY bothers me, and then when a problem comes up for him, he'll (sometimes) talk to me about it and how it made him feel, and if i responded the way he did most of the time he would be so upset. Me and him have had a lot of issues recently, and i like, had a mental breakdown one night and called my aunt who lives on the other side of the state and ended up driving four and a half hours and stayed with her for a week and a half to step back and assess the whole situation from a distance and get some advice from someone who was more experienced, you know? She gave me some really good "mother" like talks, and gave me a few book to read about relationships and how men and women are different.
Like, I know my boyfriend loves me, and I love him, I just hate that in this day and age were almost taught by society to think they're cheating on us when they dont text back or are upset when their texts are short. I have a lot to learn, and being 21 I sometimes feel like im just behind
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Post by ~ωιηтєя'ѕ ℓιℓу✬ on Dec 7, 2019 13:35:52 GMT -5
Dov: I'm glad you're home and finals are done! I still have a week to go.
Brindle: Heyy twenty-one group I agree with Dov in that you should just figure out a way to tell him how you feel. Trust is so important in a relationship and if you can't talk to each other about something, that makes it kind of hard to be together, yeah? It makes sense for him to be a little wary because of his history of being cheated on and sure men and women can think of relationships differently, but it's important to get that common ground and reach an agreement. Feel free not to listen to me as well because I have no experience with relationships and I am forever alone.
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Post by mintedstar/fur🦇 on Dec 8, 2019 19:25:40 GMT -5
Brindle: I second what everyone else said! <3 Wish I can contribute more then well wishes!!
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Post by ~ωιηтєя'ѕ ℓιℓу✬ on Dec 11, 2019 14:14:27 GMT -5
I'm almost on break yayyy
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Post by mintedstar/fur🦇 on Dec 11, 2019 21:13:58 GMT -5
I am! As of yesterday!
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Post by ~ωιηтєя'ѕ ℓιℓу✬ on Dec 12, 2019 20:52:48 GMT -5
Yay! I'm done as of now. c:
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Post by mintedstar/fur🦇 on Dec 13, 2019 15:41:21 GMT -5
Saaaaaaaaaave me. I'm being sucked into playing video games!
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