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Post by Deleted on Aug 24, 2016 23:28:53 GMT -5
thanks to my grandma, as usual.
she got a new mailbox and wanted me to write on it because my "handwriting is so perfect". so i wrote EXACTLY what she told me to, and she threw a fit. I wrote it the exact way I write everything else, which she apparently thinks is perfect. But apparently tonight I did a bad job and now she's pissed at me. I didn't even do anything wrong.
And she's yelling at me, saying I'm a disappointment. That just makes me even angerier, because it's so stupid of her to be making a big deal out of HANDWRITING. Out of all the things to be mad about, she's mad at me because of handwriting. And she keeps insulting me and making me feel bad for something so stupid.
I feel like I'm going to start crying now and I'm so upset. I can't believe she's doing this.
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Post by 🍁Searipple101🍁 on Aug 24, 2016 23:32:40 GMT -5
All I can say is that I am so sorry you have to go through that, and that I'll listen if you wanna talk about it some more.
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Post by Sanders on Aug 24, 2016 23:32:40 GMT -5
my mom does this all the time tbh i just don't care anymore. honestly if we don't do one chore we're horrible children and ungrateful and it's like okay chill. idk your grandma is being unreasonable and i don't think you should let it get to you too deeply. sometimes adults are just rude but that doesn't make them right.
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Post by Deleted on Aug 24, 2016 23:42:10 GMT -5
i try to ignore it, but after a while it just gets too much for me. nothing i do is ever good enough for anyone in my family, and it feels like the only time they talk to me is when they want something from me or to insult me. and it just really hurts. i dont have anyone in real life who appreciates me and after a while i just get sick of it. and then they wonder why i feel like no one likes me.
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Post by Sanders on Aug 24, 2016 23:50:33 GMT -5
ah hmm :/ im sorry abt that. i don't have much advice for that besides trying to build a support system. but even online friends are better than no one
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Post by Deleted on Aug 25, 2016 0:12:19 GMT -5
well i just told my grandma she hurt my feelings, and she told me she didn't care. :/ and then she said that it's all my fault anyways so i should be upset
what a great night :/
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Post by Deleted on Aug 25, 2016 0:27:11 GMT -5
My grandma does that too. Although my handwriting has never been perfect to her. She nitpicks at every single little thing that I do. She always finds something to rag on me about. I'm getting sick of it. She kept some of my mom's old schoolwork from elementary school. She kept it all this time, and then a few weeks ago she dropped by and left them on our doorstep. Looking at my moms handwriting, it was almost identical to mine back then. My grandma's response to that was, "Well, she learned how to write properly." My handwriting might be somewhat sloppy, but it's legible abd hard to copy. I don't see an issue with it, and neither does anyone else. They always say to respect your elders, but it's kind of hard to do that when your elders are overly critical of every single little thing that you do.
Rant over.
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Post by rizen on Aug 25, 2016 0:51:38 GMT -5
My grandma's always trying to pick fights.
I'm glad I'm not the only one
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Post by Lórien on Aug 25, 2016 7:30:26 GMT -5
You're not alone Bleak, I always get showered with love from my grandparents (Well, at least the side that I know of. My mom's family lives in France.)
But one of my friends gets yelled at and hated by her grandmother for the stupidest reason. She hates my friend because she has a different eye color than the rest of the family. *sighs*
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Post by Deleted on Aug 25, 2016 8:50:10 GMT -5
That's amazing. The reasons for someone to get screamed at are getting more peculiar by the day.
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Bleak
FINAL SEMESTER, LET'S GOOOOOO
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Post by Bleak on Aug 25, 2016 8:50:36 GMT -5
You're not alone Bleak, I always get showered with love from my grandparents (Well, at least the side that I know of. My mom's family lives in France.) But one of my friends gets yelled at and hated by her grandmother for the stupidest reason. She hates my friend because she has a different eye color than the rest of the family. *sighs* You're kidding. She's only hated for that reason? Or is that the main reason? Does that Grandma know that some eye colors are recessive? (Well, at least we're loved. And I try to show love to other members of these forums)
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Post by Deleted on Aug 25, 2016 8:54:26 GMT -5
lmao same man my grandma hates me let's see she's spanked me (tried to spank me now at the age of 16 like tf), hit me with a rolled up newspaper, denied it when i told people she was emotionally manipulative (no one believed her cause she IS), makes fun of everything i do to piss me off, told me i won't be able to get a good job DESPITE THE FACT I HAD A 4.9 GPA, mocks my gay friends, mocks my trans friends, mocks my non-white friends... the list goes on
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Post by Deleted on Aug 25, 2016 8:57:19 GMT -5
lmao same man my grandma hates me let's see she's spanked me (tried to spank me now at the age of 16 like tf), hit me with a rolled up newspaper, denied it when i told people she was emotionally manipulative (no one believed her cause she IS), makes fun of everything i do to piss me off, told me i won't be able to get a good job DESPITE THE FACT I HAD A 4.9 GPA, mocks my gay friends, mocks my trans friends, mocks my non-white friends... the list goes on Yikes. You must hate your grandmother.
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Post by Deleted on Aug 25, 2016 9:33:39 GMT -5
lmao same man my grandma hates me let's see she's spanked me (tried to spank me now at the age of 16 like tf), hit me with a rolled up newspaper, denied it when i told people she was emotionally manipulative (no one believed her cause she IS), makes fun of everything i do to piss me off, told me i won't be able to get a good job DESPITE THE FACT I HAD A 4.9 GPA, mocks my gay friends, mocks my trans friends, mocks my non-white friends... the list goes on Yikes. You must hate your grandmother. oh trust me i do (:
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Post by Lórien on Aug 25, 2016 12:46:34 GMT -5
You're not alone Bleak, I always get showered with love from my grandparents (Well, at least the side that I know of. My mom's family lives in France.) But one of my friends gets yelled at and hated by her grandmother for the stupidest reason. She hates my friend because she has a different eye color than the rest of the family. *sighs* You're kidding. She's only hated for that reason? Or is that the main reason? Does that Grandma know that some eye colors are recessive? (Well, at least we're loved. And I try to show love to other members of these forums) Well, that's what she has told me... There might be another small reason, which I don't know about.
(Yes... but currently I feel so abandoned, hated... *Sighs again.* )
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Bleak
FINAL SEMESTER, LET'S GOOOOOO
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Post by Bleak on Aug 25, 2016 12:59:12 GMT -5
You're kidding. She's only hated for that reason? Or is that the main reason? Does that Grandma know that some eye colors are recessive? (Well, at least we're loved. And I try to show love to other members of these forums) Well, that's what she has told me... There might be another small reason, which I don't know about.
(Yes... but currently I feel so abandoned, hated... *Sighs again.* )
The whole eye color thing is weird in the way that it is being treated like a terrible thing. Me, my siblings and mom all have the same eye color. My dad doesn't, so I know cases like this happen. (Bleaky loves you, not to sound creepy or anything 0.o)
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Post by Lórien on Aug 25, 2016 13:04:44 GMT -5
Well, that's what she has told me... There might be another small reason, which I don't know about.
(Yes... but currently I feel so abandoned, hated... *Sighs again.* )
The whole eye color thing is weird in the way that it is being treated like a terrible thing. Me, my siblings and mom all have the same eye color. My dad doesn't, so I know cases like this happen. (Bleaky loves you, not to sound creepy or anything 0.o) Yah, her grandma sounds really mean. (I've never seen her.) (Hm, I'm not used to people I don't really know saying that. 0.o Sounds a tiny bit creepy, but eh, I don't care.)
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Bleak
FINAL SEMESTER, LET'S GOOOOOO
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Post by Bleak on Aug 25, 2016 13:08:03 GMT -5
The whole eye color thing is weird in the way that it is being treated like a terrible thing. Me, my siblings and mom all have the same eye color. My dad doesn't, so I know cases like this happen. (Bleaky loves you, not to sound creepy or anything 0.o) Yah, her grandma sounds really mean. (I've never seen her.) (Hm, I'm not used to people I don't really know saying that. 0.o Sounds a tiny bit creepy, but eh, I don't care.) I do have school and homework, but when I don't, I'm usually on here or sleeping. I love this site. If you ever feel like you need to chat, PM me and I'll try my best to get in as soon as possible
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Post by Lórien on Aug 25, 2016 13:15:00 GMT -5
Yah, her grandma sounds really mean. (I've never seen her.) (Hm, I'm not used to people I don't really know saying that. 0.o Sounds a tiny bit creepy, but eh, I don't care.) I do have school and homework, but when I don't, I'm usually on here or sleeping. I love this site. If you ever feel like you need to chat, PM me and I'll try my best to get in as soon as possible Thanks. I feel like this is going to be a harsh school year, so I might have to talk to you at one point or another. (I'm used to being home schooled, and I'm totally not used to so many kids, teachers, and all that.)
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Bleak
FINAL SEMESTER, LET'S GOOOOOO
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Post by Bleak on Aug 25, 2016 13:19:20 GMT -5
I do have school and homework, but when I don't, I'm usually on here or sleeping. I love this site. If you ever feel like you need to chat, PM me and I'll try my best to get in as soon as possible Thanks. I feel like this is going to be a harsh school year, so I might have to talk to you at one point or another. (I'm used to being home schooled, and I'm totally not used to so many kids, teachers, and all that.) I was homeschooled as well. K-12. Personally, I'm not used to so many deadlines and they are stressing me out. But I have my trash, emo music on, and a rbf expression. It's my only true defence against the lusty men.
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Post by Lórien on Aug 25, 2016 13:22:21 GMT -5
Thanks. I feel like this is going to be a harsh school year, so I might have to talk to you at one point or another. (I'm used to being home schooled, and I'm totally not used to so many kids, teachers, and all that.) I was homeschooled as well. K-12. Personally, I'm not used to so many deadlines and they are stressing me out. But I have my trash, emo music on, and a rbf expression. It's my only true defence against the lusty men. Yes, the deadlines... Ugh. I'm so glad one person introduced me to her music. All those depressing and morbid songs cheer me up for some reason.
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Bleak
FINAL SEMESTER, LET'S GOOOOOO
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Post by Bleak on Aug 25, 2016 13:24:42 GMT -5
I was homeschooled as well. K-12. Personally, I'm not used to so many deadlines and they are stressing me out. But I have my trash, emo music on, and a rbf expression. It's my only true defence against the lusty men. Yes, the deadlines... Ugh. I'm so glad one person introduced me to her music. All those depressing and morbid songs cheer me up for some reason. You want morbid? Try Hollywood Undead's Bullet. A ton of their songs are great.
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Post by Lórien on Aug 25, 2016 13:28:40 GMT -5
Yes, the deadlines... Ugh. I'm so glad one person introduced me to her music. All those depressing and morbid songs cheer me up for some reason. You want morbid? Try Hollywood Undead's Bullet. A ton of their songs are great. I'll take those songs a look!
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Bleak
FINAL SEMESTER, LET'S GOOOOOO
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Post by Bleak on Aug 25, 2016 13:30:39 GMT -5
You want morbid? Try Hollywood Undead's Bullet. A ton of their songs are great. I'll take those songs a look! The guy in my siggie and avatar? That's the current front man. His voice is amazing
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Post by Lórien on Aug 25, 2016 13:32:33 GMT -5
I'll take those songs a look! The guy in my siggie and avatar? That's the current front man. He voice is amazing Cool! One of the more cheery bands I listen to is Pentatonix, and I might see them in concert in November!!
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