|
Post by Deleted on Aug 15, 2016 23:19:06 GMT -5
so w some stuff going on rn i suddenly became like absolutely 100% sure i had to tell a friend something Important or else i'd never get to tell it to her and i was rlly scared that like she'd die or i'd die or something w/o me saying this bc i was thinking about a friend of mine who died in Nov so i texted her this last night and felt v stupid and i was so worried like man that was stupid af and such a corny thing to say but i got this back and honestly my heart is mush rn i'm so happy idk exactly what i'm getting at but pls tell your friends you love them
|
|
|
Post by ❧Ɠσℓ∂єηƝυggєт☙ on Aug 15, 2016 23:22:44 GMT -5
Yay! I'm glad she finally replied! It's always a great feeling! And you're right, don't assume that your friends know they love you! Make sure they hear it from you!! c:
|
|
|
Post by Deleted on Aug 15, 2016 23:26:31 GMT -5
Yay! I'm glad she finally replied! It's always a great feeling! And you're right, don't assume that your friends know they love you! Make sure they hear it from you!! c: i'm v v glad she replied too. i just wanted her to know that a lot for some reason last night ?? and yes pls do tell your friends that. it's one thing to assume something and another to be told it
|
|
|
Post by ❧Ɠσℓ∂єηƝυggєт☙ on Aug 15, 2016 23:31:03 GMT -5
It makes complete sense. One of my friends sent me a long rambley text the other night and ended off with "Love you so much Netty and I am so thankful to have a friend like you". It's just so nice to hear and it goes both ways! c: I mean, we're not promised a tomorrow and anything could happen, planned or not, so why hesitate?
|
|
|
Post by Deleted on Aug 15, 2016 23:33:00 GMT -5
It makes complete sense. One of my friends sent me a long rambley text the other night and ended off with "Love you so much Netty and I am so thankful to have a friend like you". It's just so nice to hear and it goes both ways! c: I mean, we're not promised a tomorrow and anything could happen, planned or not, so why hesitate? aw that's so nice c: yeah i've gotten more idk how rlly to phrase it ?? but i'm more prone to telling friends i love them ever since one died in Nov and i never told him that ever that i can remember
|
|
|
Post by ❧Ɠσℓ∂єηƝυggєт☙ on Aug 15, 2016 23:36:52 GMT -5
It makes complete sense. One of my friends sent me a long rambley text the other night and ended off with "Love you so much Netty and I am so thankful to have a friend like you". It's just so nice to hear and it goes both ways! c: I mean, we're not promised a tomorrow and anything could happen, planned or not, so why hesitate? aw that's so nice c: yeah i've gotten more idk how rlly to phrase it ?? but i'm more prone to telling friends i love them ever since one died in Nov and i never told him that ever that i can remember One of my favorite things is waking up to long texts. Haha. I told her "Love you so so much and I always want the best for you. Thankful for you today and everyday!" But I get it. You lose someone and worry that you're going to lose more people and you just have to tell them how you feel before it's too late. That's how I felt after the loss of a family member and I've been trying to be better about my familial relationship and attitude. But it's so important to express yourself, that's for sure!
|
|
|
Post by Deleted on Aug 15, 2016 23:39:26 GMT -5
aw that's so nice c: yeah i've gotten more idk how rlly to phrase it ?? but i'm more prone to telling friends i love them ever since one died in Nov and i never told him that ever that i can remember One of my favorite things is waking up to long texts. Haha. I told her "Love you so so much and I always want the best for you. Thankful for you today and everyday!" But I get it. You lose someone and worry that you're going to lose more people and you just have to tell them how you feel before it's too late. That's how I felt after the loss of a family member and I've been trying to be better about my familial relationship and attitude. But it's so important to express yourself, that's for sure!
same same. and that's so nice !! i bet she'll appreciate hearing that a lot yeah it wasn't a good time. like on October 7th of last year my great grandfather died. literally 1 month later on November 7th a friend of mine, Jacob, died at just 18 years old. and it was weird bc like. he was my age (actually a little bit older; i wasn't 18 until June, but the point stands). and it was weird. so i gotta tell everyone i love em now
|
|
|
Post by ❧Ɠσℓ∂єηƝυggєт☙ on Aug 15, 2016 23:43:08 GMT -5
One of my favorite things is waking up to long texts. Haha. I told her "Love you so so much and I always want the best for you. Thankful for you today and everyday!" But I get it. You lose someone and worry that you're going to lose more people and you just have to tell them how you feel before it's too late. That's how I felt after the loss of a family member and I've been trying to be better about my familial relationship and attitude. But it's so important to express yourself, that's for sure!
same same. and that's so nice !! i bet she'll appreciate hearing that a lot yeah it wasn't a good time. like on October 7th of last year my great grandfather died. literally 1 month later on November 7th a friend of mine, Jacob, died at just 18 years old. and it was weird bc like. he was my age (actually a little bit older; i wasn't 18 until June, but the point stands). and it was weird. so i gotta tell everyone i love em now I posted about her in my other thread. But compared to some of my other friends, I haven't known her for very long, but we clicked easily when we met and no matter how busy we are, we always pick up right where we left off, so I definitely know the feeling is mutual- but like we were discussing, so important to hear from time to time. Oh no! I am so so sorry about that! One loss right after another could not have been easy to handle. You never really imagine something like that happening at your age, but when it does, it really is a stunning thing. Tell them now and tell them again, from time to time. You never know when someone is going to need that reminder or a pick me up!
|
|
|
Post by Deleted on Aug 15, 2016 23:46:09 GMT -5
same same. and that's so nice !! i bet she'll appreciate hearing that a lot yeah it wasn't a good time. like on October 7th of last year my great grandfather died. literally 1 month later on November 7th a friend of mine, Jacob, died at just 18 years old. and it was weird bc like. he was my age (actually a little bit older; i wasn't 18 until June, but the point stands). and it was weird. so i gotta tell everyone i love em now I posted about her in my other thread. But compared to some of my other friends, I haven't known her for very long, but we clicked easily when we met and no matter how busy we are, we always pick up right where we left off, so I definitely know the feeling is mutual- but like we were discussing, so important to hear from time to time. Oh no! I am so so sorry about that! One loss right after another could not have been easy to handle. You never really imagine something like that happening at your age, but when it does, it really is a stunning thing. Tell them now and tell them again, from time to time. You never know when someone is going to need that reminder or a pick me up!
those are v v v nice friendships sometimes !! i'm p used to befriending ppl quickly bc military parent and idk how long i'll live somewhere. but yes those can be v good friends it was p tough at a time. and ngl i was rlly scared when Dec 7th rolled around if there was gonna be a 3rd death. but there wasn't. i've noticed tho that the entire group who knew Jacob, including the entire senior class, became a lot more prone to complimenting each other a lot afterwards tho even for little things, which was nice. but i wish it hadn't taken a death
|
|
|
Post by ❧Ɠσℓ∂єηƝυggєт☙ on Aug 15, 2016 23:49:26 GMT -5
I posted about her in my other thread. But compared to some of my other friends, I haven't known her for very long, but we clicked easily when we met and no matter how busy we are, we always pick up right where we left off, so I definitely know the feeling is mutual- but like we were discussing, so important to hear from time to time. Oh no! I am so so sorry about that! One loss right after another could not have been easy to handle. You never really imagine something like that happening at your age, but when it does, it really is a stunning thing. Tell them now and tell them again, from time to time. You never know when someone is going to need that reminder or a pick me up!
those are v v v nice friendships sometimes !! i'm p used to befriending ppl quickly bc military parent and idk how long i'll live somewhere. but yes those can be v good friends it was p tough at a time. and ngl i was rlly scared when Dec 7th rolled around if there was gonna be a 3rd death. but there wasn't. i've noticed tho that the entire group who knew Jacob, including the entire senior class, became a lot more prone to complimenting each other a lot afterwards tho even for little things, which was nice. but i wish it hadn't taken a death It's true and I'm not complaining! I mean, I'm used to making friends fairly easily, but I'm pretty picky about who I open up to and let in as deeply into my life. But it's an amazing feeling, especially after these past two years to have her back in my life and catching up and making plans and hearing about everything that she has planned. Great friendships. I'm absolutely sure it was! I'm glad that there wasn't another death, though! I know, when something like that happens, people change, but you're right, it shouldn't have to take a tragedy to initiate it.
|
|
|
Post by Deleted on Aug 16, 2016 0:47:35 GMT -5
Aww that's so nice! Glad that worked out for you and that you guys have a great friendship. c:
|
|