Bleak
FINAL SEMESTER, LET'S GOOOOOO
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Post by Bleak on Aug 15, 2016 12:03:34 GMT -5
Bleak - I'm not sure your age, but maybe one day soon, a current friendship you have deepens to that level. I'll admit I'm one of the slightly older/ median ages of 19. I think I have a candidate, but I'm not sure. I'm a pretty weird person to put up with constantly
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Post by ❧Ɠσℓ∂єηƝυggєт☙ on Aug 15, 2016 12:21:19 GMT -5
Bleak - I'm not sure your age, but maybe one day soon, a current friendship you have deepens to that level. I'll admit I'm one of the slightly older/ median ages of 19. I think I have a candidate, but I'm not sure. I'm a pretty weird person to put up with constantly Ah. I see. Well no matter your personality or if you're a "pretty weird person", if you find your person, they won't care. One of my best friends and I always joke about how odd we are and no matter what we would never leave each other. I'm sure if you have one candidate, you'll be able to maybe deepen the friendship/conversations.
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Post by capnwednesday on Aug 15, 2016 12:29:59 GMT -5
i honestly thought long and hard about this... And i really don't have a person
i am lots of people's person, but none of them are my person
i guess i am my own person ? not in a narcissistic way, i just don't really go to people when something is wrong. i have trust issues ?? and issues just being dependent on people...
yup yup ^^'
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Post by ❧Ɠσℓ∂єηƝυggєт☙ on Aug 15, 2016 12:35:55 GMT -5
i honestly thought long and hard about this... And i really don't have a person i am lots of people's person, but none of them are my person i guess i am my own person ? not in a narcissistic way, i just don't really go to people when something is wrong. i have trust issues ?? and issues just being dependent on people... yup yup ^^' I don't think that's a problem at all. I think I'm the same way. I'm a lot of people's person, but there are only a few people where it's mutual, I'd say. And I don't think you're being narcissistic to say that you're your own person - everyone's different. But I don't think that having a person means that you're dependent on them? However, I completely value your take on it and can see where you're coming from!
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Post by cσηsтεℓℓαтισηs on Aug 15, 2016 16:45:32 GMT -5
i've gone through a couple of best friends but my irl friend haley is the person that has always stuck with me.
i've known her since sixth grade and in the past two years we've grown a lot closer. she's one of the people in my life that i can depend on to always be there and never hurt me. i can talk to her about anything and she understands me. she gets who i am and i get who she is.
she's told me that i'm her person before and i know i'm hers. she's my weirdo and i'm her dofus <3
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Post by ❧Ɠσℓ∂єηƝυggєт☙ on Aug 15, 2016 17:19:21 GMT -5
So... I have a few people who are my "person" individually. I've known them for a long time or a short time, but each has a sort of understanding of who I am and what I'm like. I think I'll share, as everyone has. This is going to make me seem like I have a lot of friends, but that's not the case; as pretentious as it sounds, I'm pretty picky about who I am friends with and I like to think that once we're good enough friends, you're stuck with me forever. I think here, I'll just my offline people, in no particular order.
Shannae - I met her after our junior year of high school on a summer swim team. At first we were just friends, didn't talk too much, hung out at meets, whatever. But we got closer and started talking about a lot of different things. And now, 6+ years later, we're still close friends and I tell her a bunch of stuff, she tells me a bunch of stuff and even if we've been out of touch like the past two years because of life, we're still able to pick right back up where we left off, almost like nothing has changed. She knows me well enough to understand exactly where I am coming from when I make particular decisions and I know what she wants out of life and we're so much better together than we are apart. She knows how to pick me up and tells me exactly what I need to hear when I need to hear it.
Hannah - We met when we were in 1st grade. In circle time, because little Nugz sat in little Hannah's lap. I don't know what was going on in my little head at that time, but hey, we're best friends and still best friends to this day. We've been through thick and thin and she's the first person I tell anything to, basically. She was the first one to find out that I needed surgery and made sure that everything I needed was covered. She's my person and no matter how life changes we've been together through a lot of it and I cannot see that changing now. She's the one I love going on adventures with and always knows the balance of making sure I'm not getting myself in trouble while having a blast with me. I mean, we made a pact as seniors in high school not to have boyfriends that year, you can't get a "person" more than that.
Carolyn - another friend I've had since elementary school. We used to have so many similar interests and while that has changed a bit over time, one thing hasn't and that's our friendship. We hadn't really been in touch because of how busy everything's been with school and moving halfway across the country (and now to the other side of the country)but as soon as we get back together, it's like we just press play again. I love hearing about everything she's got to say and she loves hearing about the things I've got to say. It's been impressive watching our friendship grow and being able to talk about anything and everything with her when we go out. She understands my choices and completely respects them, never pushing me past what I am comfortable with.
Mallika - This girl... I met her in my program, winter quarter of our Junior year, so I haven't known her for all that long, but it feels like I have. We clicked when we first met at the welcoming "party" for the majors. We started out as study buddies, but eventually conversations turned to future plans, and future plans turned into life in general. We are able to communicate with simple noises and not even speaking to each other. Stickers are generally our mode of conversation and even if our conversations are brief, we always know exactly what is going on and even if we aren't in the same situations, we're always feeling for each other. She knows that she's my person and I know that I am hers. The night before she left for school, I told her as such. I miss her and know that she's super busy, but no matter what we'll always be there for each other, even if we're on a three hour time difference.
Joshua - Actually my best guy friend. He teases me and knows that while I hate it, at the same time I love it and it's just what we do. We met probably sophomore year of high school but didn't properly become friends until our junior year when we actually had classes together. We're at the point in our lives where whatever is happening to our friends from high school, it doesn't affect our relationship. He's the one guy that I've always consistently met up with throughout college. We would always get together once a quarter and he's always there for me. He's like a brother, but someone I can tell more to and he will always understand. He gives me advice and is always looking out for me. He, while teasing me, is completely okay with my life choices and is one of my biggest cheerleaders, as I am his. I love our friendship and know that just as much as he teases me, I get to tease him back and we're almost always all laughter.
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Post by ❧Ɠσℓ∂єηƝυggєт☙ on Aug 15, 2016 17:20:30 GMT -5
i've gone through a couple of best friends but my irl friend haley is the person that has always stuck with me. i've known her since sixth grade and in the past two years we've grown a lot closer. she's one of the people in my life that i can depend on to always be there and never hurt me. i can talk to her about anything and she understands me. she gets who i am and i get who she is. she's told me that i'm her person before and i know i'm hers. she's my weirdo and i'm her dofus <3 That's awesome! I love having that kind of relationship with a person and know exactly what that is like! c: I'm glad you've got someone like that in your life!
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Post by Jas on Aug 15, 2016 17:25:14 GMT -5
I don't have one rip
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Post by ๖ۣۜCrossroads on Aug 15, 2016 17:27:44 GMT -5
My person is pretty odd. Whenever my girlfriend and I are in a tough spot, I can always talk to her sister, and I do so on a daily basis even when there's no problem. Then there's my buds Ryan and Noah, we're like the really dumb three musketeers.
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Post by ❧Ɠσℓ∂єηƝυggєт☙ on Aug 15, 2016 17:35:25 GMT -5
Jas - I'm really sorry to hear that. Even online? ๖ۣۜCrossroads - That is a little bit odd, but at the same time I think it's pretty cool! That's awesome that you've got all those people in your life! c:
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sablestar
too shiny
Pronouns: she/her/they/them
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Post by sablestar on Aug 15, 2016 17:52:47 GMT -5
my best friend alannah. we've been best friends since preschool.
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Post by Jas on Aug 15, 2016 17:57:01 GMT -5
no
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Post by ❧Ɠσℓ∂єηƝυggєт☙ on Aug 15, 2016 18:10:01 GMT -5
sablestar - awesome! Long lasting friendships like that usually do result in "you're my person" conversations.
Jas - I'm sorry, then.
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Post by tiger beetle on Aug 15, 2016 19:03:11 GMT -5
Adderbite
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Post by ~Absol~Wolf~Scribe~ on Aug 15, 2016 21:05:22 GMT -5
Of course! I really hope you do tell her- it's 100% worth it, whatever happens! And I know it'll go amazingly!
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Post by ❧Ɠσℓ∂єηƝυggєт☙ on Aug 15, 2016 23:44:59 GMT -5
Of course! I really hope you do tell her- it's 100% worth it, whatever happens! And I know it'll go amazingly! @thewolfsshadow This is so true! Tell them and you'll feel absolutely better about it! Maybe she's in the same situation where she doesn't know exactly how you feel about her! I can only see good coming from it! tiger beetle - I'm glad there's someone there for you too! c:
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Post by Merzi - Moderator on Aug 15, 2016 23:50:33 GMT -5
My love, Nicole Moderator.
Signed, Merzi - Moderator
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Post by ❧Ɠσℓ∂єηƝυggєт☙ on Aug 15, 2016 23:52:16 GMT -5
My love, Nicole Moderator. Signed, Merzi - Moderator Nice nice
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Post by Jοe S - Mοderatοr on Aug 16, 2016 0:13:25 GMT -5
Everyone except Matt. Matt, I want you to step on a pile of lego bricks barefoot.
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Post by thepineappleincident on Aug 16, 2016 0:16:37 GMT -5
My brother p much always has my back. No matter what I can always go to him for help
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Post by ❧Ɠσℓ∂єηƝυggєт☙ on Aug 16, 2016 1:19:03 GMT -5
Everyone except Matt. Matt, I want you to step on a pile of lego bricks barefoot. Now that's not very nice is it?
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Post by ❧Ɠσℓ∂єηƝυggєт☙ on Aug 16, 2016 1:19:43 GMT -5
My brother p much always has my back. No matter what I can always go to him for help That's an awesome relationship to have with your brother! So glad he has your back!
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Post by ❧Ɠσℓ∂єηƝυggєт☙ on Aug 16, 2016 1:20:20 GMT -5
Awh! That's awesome!! Glad for you to have your person!
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Post by cutechem on Aug 16, 2016 2:09:56 GMT -5
@anonymous
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Post by cσηsтεℓℓαтισηs on Aug 16, 2016 14:41:36 GMT -5
i've gone through a couple of best friends but my irl friend haley is the person that has always stuck with me. i've known her since sixth grade and in the past two years we've grown a lot closer. she's one of the people in my life that i can depend on to always be there and never hurt me. i can talk to her about anything and she understands me. she gets who i am and i get who she is. she's told me that i'm her person before and i know i'm hers. she's my weirdo and i'm her dofus <3 That's awesome! I love having that kind of relationship with a person and know exactly what that is like! c: I'm glad you've got someone like that in your life!thank you! (: i'm glad that you have your people in your life, they sound amazing <3
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Post by Deleted on Aug 16, 2016 15:39:12 GMT -5
my online friends lolita and ria ( they're on here ), and my sister sam :]
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Post by Deleted on Aug 16, 2016 18:37:21 GMT -5
My friend who I will call Key. She has my back. I actually used to like her romantically.
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Post by Deleted on Aug 16, 2016 18:39:18 GMT -5
Prestley
she's like my twin
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Post by Deleted on Aug 16, 2016 18:49:57 GMT -5
My friend Devin we've known each other ever since we were 4
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