|
Post by I Am In Your Walls on Nov 14, 2018 16:25:18 GMT -5
The Noble Dragon If i can be completely honest i think there's quite a few nb and trans people who have a genderfluid stage of their lives where they either fluctuate or don't know just yet cause i used to identify as fluid before and i know of a couple other people who used to as well before finally settling anxi0us oh geez. are you still going to be friends with them?
|
|
|
Post by The Noble Dragon on Nov 14, 2018 16:27:11 GMT -5
ew that sucks. Maybe you could change their mind about it.... if you want to tho
|
|
|
Post by The Noble Dragon on Nov 14, 2018 16:28:25 GMT -5
The Noble Dragon If i can be completely honest i think there's quite a few nb and trans people who have a genderfluid stage of their lives where they either fluctuate or don't know just yet cause i used to identify as fluid before and i know of a couple other people who used to as well before finally settling anxi0us oh geez. are you still going to be friends with them? yeah i figured. If anything I feel more nb these day than anything but I still like being refered to with he/him pronouns if someone doesn't use they/them or doesn't know. I just hate she/her for me
|
|
|
Post by I Am In Your Walls on Nov 14, 2018 16:31:26 GMT -5
I remember i was having a really nice convo with this dude on some chat app for like 3 days that was just about science and theory concepts and we had the same sense of humor and then the topic of dating came up and how difficult it was and he was like "do you have a girlfriend" and i was like "no but i have a boyfriend"
chat dropped. blocked. could no longer respond to messages.
Like tf? how can someone genuinely be that homophobic lol.
|
|
|
Post by ғewp|leaf🍁 on Nov 14, 2018 16:34:11 GMT -5
That's bad! I dont care if someone is trans
|
|
|
Post by The Noble Dragon on Nov 14, 2018 16:35:30 GMT -5
i don't know, it's really bothersome tbh. Like i remember back in high school before I realized I was the complete opposite of straight I was talking to my Aunt about my friend who was a Lesbian and my Aunt got very quiet and said "Well you know Sam... you gotta be careful around those kinds of people...." And i was like "Ooooooh yeah right wrong person to talk to about this stuff :/" Idk how i'm gonna invite her and her 3 kids and my uncle to mine and Rose's wedding bc I think my cousins would be great as flower kids or something..... but i feel they won't even wanna let their kids come to the wedding..... :/
|
|
|
Post by I Am In Your Walls on Nov 14, 2018 16:37:36 GMT -5
The Noble Dragon If i can be completely honest i think there's quite a few nb and trans people who have a genderfluid stage of their lives where they either fluctuate or don't know just yet cause i used to identify as fluid before and i know of a couple other people who used to as well before finally settling anxi0us oh geez. are you still going to be friends with them? yeah i figured. If anything I feel more nb these day than anything but I still like being refered to with he/him pronouns if someone doesn't use they/them or doesn't know. I just hate she/her for me BIG mood. big big mood. I honestly struggled with some internalized nonbinary phobia(???) not too long ago because i figured you could just be one or the other and nbs just didn't know yet etc etc like you have to be 100% one or the other and i was pretty aggressive about being a man but i've figured out i'm just agender masculine. which doesn't change anything as far as still starting T and getting top surgery and i'm not changing my name a second time. the only thing claiming my label has done is help me accept myself and not be so militant in beating myself up over not feeling like a man enough so it's pretty irrelevant for literally anyone else to even care about.
|
|
|
Post by I Am In Your Walls on Nov 14, 2018 16:40:01 GMT -5
i don't know, it's really bothersome tbh. Like i remember back in high school before I realized I was the complete opposite of straight I was talking to my Aunt about my friend who was a Lesbian and my Aunt got very quiet and said "Well you know Sam... you gotta be careful around those kinds of people...." And i was like "Ooooooh yeah right wrong person to talk to about this stuff :/" Idk how i'm gonna invite her and her 3 kids and my uncle to mine and Rose's wedding bc I think my cousins would be great as flower kids or something..... but i feel they won't even wanna let their kids come to the wedding..... :/ Inviting them and still being welcoming could start to open her up and change her mind? Or on the other hand it could close her off more but at least then you will know that she cares more about traditional things should be instead of about you as part of her family. Which is a sad alternative so I hope the first one happens instead.
|
|
|
Post by The Noble Dragon on Nov 14, 2018 16:42:50 GMT -5
yeah i'd probably go with that too. I want Top Surgery bc I wear masculine clothes way more and I just wanna walk around shirtless when i go swimming tbh. Like there are some points where i'm like "maybe i'm jsut a transguy...." and then I realize i REALLY like they/them pronouns and didn't realize i did till i started going by them. Only problem is my name tbh... like Sam isn't my birthname but I really like it.......... but my birthname is also really nice but i don't like to go by it really but it's all my family calls me which messes me up bc i have such mixed feelings about it
|
|
|
Post by The Noble Dragon on Nov 14, 2018 16:45:02 GMT -5
i don't know, it's really bothersome tbh. Like i remember back in high school before I realized I was the complete opposite of straight I was talking to my Aunt about my friend who was a Lesbian and my Aunt got very quiet and said "Well you know Sam... you gotta be careful around those kinds of people...." And i was like "Ooooooh yeah right wrong person to talk to about this stuff :/" Idk how i'm gonna invite her and her 3 kids and my uncle to mine and Rose's wedding bc I think my cousins would be great as flower kids or something..... but i feel they won't even wanna let their kids come to the wedding..... :/ Inviting them and still being welcoming could start to open her up and change her mind? Or on the other hand it could close her off more but at least then you will know that she cares more about traditional things should be instead of about you as part of her family. Which is a sad alternative so I hope the first one happens instead. yeah and i mean like her and my uncle KNOW that Rose and I are dating, even though I have never told them (I think my dad did? Which is fine bc i did not want to be the one to tell them lol) and we don't do anything with the cousins around even though I almost couldn't care less at this point...... the oldest kid who is like 12 keeps asking me if i have a boyfriend and the middle keeps asking if I believe in god and jsut..... kids..... no... you sweet children. I love you but shut up.
|
|
|
Post by I Am In Your Walls on Nov 14, 2018 17:33:07 GMT -5
Inviting them and still being welcoming could start to open her up and change her mind? Or on the other hand it could close her off more but at least then you will know that she cares more about traditional things should be instead of about you as part of her family. Which is a sad alternative so I hope the first one happens instead. yeah and i mean like her and my uncle KNOW that Rose and I are dating, even though I have never told them (I think my dad did? Which is fine bc i did not want to be the one to tell them lol) and we don't do anything with the cousins around even though I almost couldn't care less at this point...... the oldest kid who is like 12 keeps asking me if i have a boyfriend and the middle keeps asking if I believe in god and jsut..... kids..... no... you sweet children. I love you but shut up. That is a bit complicated but I see no harm in telling them that no, you have a girlfriend instead. It's not like you would be giving them "the talk" since that is their parents job but it could help them to be more open minded knowing that someone in the family is lgbt and they shouldn't think less of you or other lgbt people for it. As for god, i don't see the problem in believing in god because god(s) aren't the problem. biased religious nuts that try to overstep other peoples boundaries are.
|
|
|
Post by The Noble Dragon on Nov 14, 2018 17:35:55 GMT -5
no i know its just.... complicated
|
|
|
Post by ғewp|leaf🍁 on Nov 14, 2018 17:37:46 GMT -5
Im bisexual... I like boys sooo dont judge me.
|
|
|
Post by Sour Candy on Nov 14, 2018 18:24:47 GMT -5
I got off school early and napped for two hours when I got home So good afternoon all
|
|
|
Post by I Am In Your Walls on Nov 14, 2018 19:14:44 GMT -5
Im bisexual... I like boys sooo dont judge me. judging. but only because i hate competition. lol
|
|
|
|
Post by ғewp|leaf🍁 on Nov 14, 2018 19:38:57 GMT -5
Im bisexual... I like boys sooo dont judge me. Im Bi as well but I lean more toward boys. Lol I go for girls more but I still like guys ¯\_(ツ)_/¯
|
|
|
Post by Sour Candy on Nov 14, 2018 19:43:21 GMT -5
*sits in the "boring straightie" corner
|
|
|
Post by I Am In Your Walls on Nov 14, 2018 20:09:39 GMT -5
*sits in the "boring straightie" corneryou and i both know thats a lie
|
|
|
Post by Sour Candy on Nov 14, 2018 20:11:54 GMT -5
*sits in the "boring straightie" corneryou and i both know thats a lie It was a heckin one time period thing after a lotta thinkin' I can confirm I only exist in the first dimension
|
|
|
Post by ғewp|leaf🍁 on Nov 14, 2018 20:17:12 GMT -5
-sips coke put of wine glass-
|
|
|
Post by Sour Candy on Nov 14, 2018 20:26:17 GMT -5
*drinks a nuka cola then dies of radiation poisoning*
|
|
|
Post by ғewp|leaf🍁 on Nov 14, 2018 20:36:05 GMT -5
What- I thought it was safe to dink like in the game.
|
|
|
Post by Sour Candy on Nov 14, 2018 20:45:03 GMT -5
It is but at the end of the day it still contains radiation
|
|
|
Post by ғewp|leaf🍁 on Nov 14, 2018 21:17:52 GMT -5
Oh then -eats nupper burger/ whopper burger from burger king and dies
|
|
|
Post by ғewp|leaf🍁 on Nov 14, 2018 23:43:36 GMT -5
|
|
|
Post by ғewp|leaf🍁 on Nov 14, 2018 23:43:56 GMT -5
|
|
|
Post by Turin not Torino on Nov 15, 2018 8:07:00 GMT -5
Ice storm knocked my power out last night. Power came right back, but my cable and internet didn't. The good news is it forced me to not be lazy and mop my floors. Bad news is it's been over 4 hours with no end in sight. If it doesn't come back on by 10, I'm going to bingo.
|
|
|
Post by Turin not Torino on Nov 15, 2018 10:24:30 GMT -5
Bingo it is then
|
|
|
Post by Sour Candy on Nov 15, 2018 10:45:58 GMT -5
country roooooaaaaads
|
|