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Post by mango on Aug 31, 2017 17:51:11 GMT -5
aye so i am feeling lame today and kind of cheesy, but I just wanted to say to any1 who is trans or trying to be that you got this. and despite a lot of cruel people. and misunderstanding parents. and unsupportive "friends", you just gotta do what'll make you happy because that's all that matters in life. depression sucks. and it sucks to hate yourself. so just keep going yanno. be kind to others despite what they may say or do to you. remember what really matters. keep fighting for yourself because if you give in then thats just another depressed person on this planet and I am so sick of people killing themselves ): I can't handle it anymore.
also, this goes for anyone really. cause we're all just trying to be happy.
I dealt with dysphoria from 12-16, and nearly took my life cause of it. luckily I don't have to deal with that anymore, and I'm happy with myself now, but I get a lot of crap from my family because they have this idea of what "real" happiness is. and they think being all successful will make you happy. and I'm not saying successful people can't be happy, but they're not the only ones. I'm not capable of being super accomplished. and all I want is a cute family with a little house in the woods and a 9-5 job and a dog and a cat. like seriously. that would make me the happiest person in the whole world ,but all I get is crap from people saying nah, you want a career. you want a REAL job. you want a big house in a nice neighborhood and all the money in the world to give to your family and others. and that kind of pressure has nearly pushed me over the edge. and I keep thinking that I'm a failure. and that I'm worthless and never going anywhere in life. but you know what? thats not true. everybody's got a different idea of happiness and we need to be there. because the world is sad. not everything in it is saad, but there is a lot of sad. and I don't want to be sad anymore. and I don't want others to be sad anymore. so despite differences in beliefs or whatever, can't we all just be happy? yanno? I just want to be happy gosh dangit because those little things in life are what really matters to me.
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Post by Deleted on Aug 31, 2017 20:08:58 GMT -5
bump
this is honestly really important!
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Post by Deleted on Aug 31, 2017 20:26:00 GMT -5
wait what does that even mean
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Post by Deleted on Aug 31, 2017 20:26:53 GMT -5
not trans but this is great !
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Post by Deleted on Aug 31, 2017 20:39:17 GMT -5
wait what does that even mean I get that this is supposed to help and all but like.. seriously. It's kind of not helping. You can't "try" to be trans. If you are trans you are trans. (IMO) It doesn't matter what you were assigned as, what you are now, what you will be, you are trans and "trying" to be trans implies that you won't be trans until you get surgery. Also, not all trans people are dysmorphic. Though, tbf "hating urself sucks" is a broad statement. Just thought I'd point it out since it was a part of the trans paragraph. oh
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