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Post by 🎃❅❖.Şp໐໐kฯຟiຖ໓.❖❅🎃 on Aug 11, 2017 2:33:45 GMT -5
We'll def talk it over more when the time comes ^^ Anyway I should sleep soon too. I need to be up in 7 hours!! ]
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Post by rose on Aug 11, 2017 9:31:54 GMT -5
{ I don't rp any of these cats so these are definitely just suggestions, but Sharpfang, Greenmeadow, and Thistleheart (icr what his new name's gonna be) are some brown tabbies I can think of off the top of my head. Idk if you guys would be up for that but it's an idea. ♡ Bun ♡ Joker *Spottedpelt* ^.^ Also as a side note, I'd prefer if Lark and Sparrow were the only two in her litter? But it would be totally fine with me if they had older or younger siblings too. Does that work for you Fireh? } Yeah that'd be fine! Tbh I wasn't thinking of any potential siblings you had in mind being all from 1 litter. That would def be a lot haha. Thank you for the suggestions too. I'm liking the feeling of developing these characters more, even if they're dead. ] Is it bad that I only just realized that Hawk, Lark, and Sparrow are all bird names ))
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Post by 🎃❅❖.Şp໐໐kฯຟiຖ໓.❖❅🎃 on Aug 11, 2017 9:46:54 GMT -5
Yeah that'd be fine! Tbh I wasn't thinking of any potential siblings you had in mind being all from 1 litter. That would def be a lot haha. Thank you for the suggestions too. I'm liking the feeling of developing these characters more, even if they're dead. ] Is it bad that I only just realized that Hawk, Lark, and Sparrow are all bird names )) FFFF LMAO I DIDNT EVEN THINK ABOUT THAT]
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Post by 🎃❅❖.Şp໐໐kฯຟiຖ໓.❖❅🎃 on Aug 11, 2017 10:41:14 GMT -5
Going to the con today. My friend who had the incident is going as well. I think we're very good for now. I'll talk to you guys later!]
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noble.
a damn fine cup of coffee
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Post by noble. on Aug 11, 2017 10:58:46 GMT -5
Going to the con today. My friend who had the incident is going as well. I think we're very good for now. I'll talk to you guys later!] have fun !!!!!!!!!!
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She needed a hero, so that's what she became.
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Post by <-•Ryse•-> on Aug 11, 2017 12:33:13 GMT -5
( Have a good time 🎃❅❖.Şp໐໐kฯຟiຖ໓.❖❅🎃 ! I love cons <3 Also regarding the tvtrope thing, I have actually never heard of that website so I wouldn't mind if Aetherclan was on there or not, so if either of you are uncomfortable with it I totally support not putting Aether on there even though I have no idea what it is, I trust your opinions xP Ðᴏʟᴄᴇ 🎃❅❖.Şp໐໐kฯຟiຖ໓.❖❅🎃 )
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Post by *Spottedpelt* on Aug 11, 2017 19:32:05 GMT -5
(Hey there everyone, how's it going?)
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Post by Sparrowstep on Aug 11, 2017 22:53:31 GMT -5
I'm alive! Hey guys c: It's been a long few days but it's finally the weekend. I hope everyone's doing well!]
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Post by 🎃❅❖.Şp໐໐kฯຟiຖ໓.❖❅🎃 on Aug 12, 2017 2:35:03 GMT -5
Turns out my friend was not good and had to go home. Other than that incident, it was a fun time. I've chosen to throw together my old cosplay for the time being. The Yuno one I was stressing over last year haha.
I am excited to get back into rp by late Sunday / Monday. I know I'll be too busy and tired to rp right now. Low key it's 1:30 and I have to go to this one 24 shop to grab something. I need to be up by 7 am too 😬 YIKES]
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Post by ♡ Bun ♡ on Aug 12, 2017 2:49:51 GMT -5
[ Ooc: ] I think i just heard gun shots
[ Rp: ]
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Post by ♡ Bun ♡ on Aug 12, 2017 13:36:43 GMT -5
[ Ooc: ] I got a new tattoo everyone!!
[ Rp: ]
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Post by ѕρσσкуѕку on Aug 12, 2017 15:00:30 GMT -5
{ Wow lol life in Alaska seems crazy. Heard gunshots then got a tattoo. }
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Post by *Spottedpelt* on Aug 12, 2017 16:42:08 GMT -5
(Hey there everyone, just a little heads up but I won't be very active today, I'll be going to the fair and rodeo with a friend tonight!)
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Post by ♡ Bun ♡ on Aug 12, 2017 18:55:39 GMT -5
[ Ooc: ] actually i got the tattoo before the gun shots... but it was at a tattoo convention called the ink masters show.
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Post by 🎃❅❖.Şp໐໐kฯຟiຖ໓.❖❅🎃 on Aug 13, 2017 12:07:58 GMT -5
Congrats on your tattoo bun!
Anyway yesterday was so awful at the CON. NOT THE CONS FAULT BUT I don't think I'm going today. What a waste of an event pass >_>
So because of that. I'll probably be active today on here. Who knows. Good morning anyway!]
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Post by ♡ Bun ♡ on Aug 13, 2017 12:42:22 GMT -5
[ Ooc: ] what happened?
[ Rp: ]
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Post by 🎃❅❖.Şp໐໐kฯຟiຖ໓.❖❅🎃 on Aug 13, 2017 14:07:37 GMT -5
subbed bc of length, MMM i chose to cosplay yesterday and I did feel good about it, but like the ppl i was going with i just no.
it's kind of been like this ever since my best friend started inviting her friends to the con and you know, great. Fun times for her. more ppl at the con. But i'm not very good with others and needless to say, one of her friends was rly rude to me and she said nothing about it. There was only one friend of hers that I liked. And since her sister had the complications on the first day and couldn't go for the rest of the con, I couldn't hang out with her like I really wanted to. Since she's like, not really comfortable with my best friend's friends either... We planned on going just on our own because it's something we're used to. Also, bc it's a big group, I really can't do things I want to do myself. it always has to be a group thing. Couldn't split up bc my best friend didn't want that to happen either =_=
Plus i got spammed and made to feel really bad because it was THEIR idea to wait for me to come to the con at a restaurant. We did plan to go there at some point, but i really made it clear that I didn't know what time i'd be there because getting ready to cosplay is not easy if you can't do ur own make up and need help fixing a wig lol and also need a ride. it seriously just stressed me out more than I was and needed to be. Her friend seriously said to me "Do you even know how to be at a restaurant?" Once I ACCIDENTALLY flipped the menu a bit too far.
Just. A bad time. I wanted to cry so bad and did shed a single tear but forced myself to swallow it back because my friend did my make up sooooo good. And I wouldn't let that go to waste. I really hope she doesn't bring her friends next year but i know she will so maybe I just won't go to the con anymore :/ ]
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Post by <-•Ryse•-> on Aug 13, 2017 14:42:44 GMT -5
( oh my god 🎃❅❖.Şp໐໐kฯຟiຖ໓.❖❅🎃, that sounds really disappointing and upsetting. Have you ever talked to your best friend about that? Told them that it bothers you when they bring all their other friends. I think they might understand if you tell them something along the lines of what you just told us, at least I would hope they would! Alright I have to go find all the patrols I need to respond to xD )
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Post by 🎃❅❖.Şp໐໐kฯຟiຖ໓.❖❅🎃 on Aug 13, 2017 15:09:53 GMT -5
I've tried talking to her about it but it's like. It's just wrong to say you don't want someone's friends with you. Its really selfish. It's kind of why I don't think I will be going unless it's with my sister again.]
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Post by 🎃❅❖.Şp໐໐kฯຟiຖ໓.❖❅🎃 on Aug 13, 2017 17:49:09 GMT -5
Well, I did some deliberation and I'm an adult. I can talk about things like this. But it's just going to be hard to explain to her why I just like, can't go with her if she's going to have those people there. It sucks too because I love to hang out with her. I love to do things with her. I just, I love her, right? it's bad because I shouldn't be able to limit who she hangs out with but at the same time, is it right to value a group of friends over your best friend? Is it right to tell your friends you can't go with them next year because one person out of a seven-man group doesn't like being with the others? I don't really want to feel like a liability. I don't want to ruin her fun. She really considered asking her friends to stay back for sunday/today a month ago when i low-key expressed that I don't like the idea of going with all her friends. She really thought about it, that made me happy. But at the same time I couldn't help but feel bad for having to make her think about that, and for thinking that my own comforts are more important than letting some other people go to this thing.
Though I can't help but miss when it was only me and her going. That year when it was just us was easily the best year I had going there. ]
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Post by rose on Aug 13, 2017 18:39:27 GMT -5
Well, I'm not too great at advice, but here's mine, Fi. We all (if not, most of us) have our best friends. Then we have a few friend groups that we're apart of. And sometimes our best friends or friends from other friend groups, just don't fit in with another friend group. But we all knew that. But because of that I think we all just need our 'things' that we do with certain people. If this con is yours and her thing, and you feel fairly strongly that it should just be a you and her thing, speak up, say it. It seems that she actually is a good friend based on the fact that she really considered it. I feel like those other friends and her could do something else together? Like, you two go to the con and then those friends do something else with her. I mean, in the end, I don't know what she'll decide, but I do have to tell you - don't feel bad for at least bringing it up. You feel more left out, and if she's your best friend, I'm sure she wouldn't want that, and maybe just think of a compromise?
- Advice from ya gurl Rosie ))
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Post by ѕρσσкуѕку on Aug 13, 2017 19:29:56 GMT -5
{ Well I'm a bit late to the discussion, but everything I wanted to say was already said by Ryse and Rose. I was going to say that I definitely recommend talking to your friend about it. If she really cares about your comfort and happiness, she should at least try to make things better for you. Friendship is a give and take. There needs to be compromise on both sides. But anyway I'm sorry your day was so sucky Fireh. <3 }
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Post by 🎃❅❖.Şp໐໐kฯຟiຖ໓.❖❅🎃 on Aug 13, 2017 19:47:13 GMT -5
Thank you guys. I have considered saying that her friends should just go on their own since they're an ample group and all, but at the same time, it's just the whole "i feel bad for even having to say it" type of thing. Plus, she's the one they have to get a ride from as they live an hour out of the city. It doesn't make sense that she'd have to split from them after they get a ride with her. Like honestly I wanted to stay over at her house for this weekend so we could go together and stuff but there would be no room in their vehicle for me to even stay because of that fact alone.
I will mention this though. I compromise a lot of things for her all the time and I am considerate. I know this. It's just a matter of how much I can deal with. I didn't think going with these people would be that bad but I was severely mistaken. I don't think i'll ever get over what her friend said to me, how rude he was, and how my best friend just... didn't say anything? Like..
Any of my friends ever be that rude to someone you know i'll be in their face about it. Especially if they consistently do it. Cons are usually so fun but this one was just.. went down hill fast. I swear my only highlight yesterday was that we went to two panels. ]
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