Post by Deleted on Aug 13, 2017 20:14:56 GMT -5
so my aunt, grandma, and cousins are all visiting me.
important point: my mom did not invite them over.
my aunt, who feels she does so much and is yet so unappreciated (which may be true. i don't know my uncle well but i wouldn't be surprised if this was true tbh), decided to arrange a trip. but instead of being like a normal person and asking "hey can four people hang out with you for a few days?", she sends an email that p much says "oh btw we're coming ok?". which. my mom is not ok with as you can imagine. she had a major surgery (she's ok tho!! it wasn't bc there was Something Wrong. she's recovering well but is still sore n stuff) in june and is still not 100%. i have many doctor's appointments to do (maxillofacial to go over an MRI of my brain, i have to get a lesion-possibly-tumor on my tongue looked at, i have a freckle in my eye that needs to get scanned) all before i leave to move back in at college. one of my brothers does football. the other does marching band. the other does nothing. but. the point is we're busy and normal people ask first.
(grandma would have been coming anyway to take me up to school bc mom's not up for the drive since she's recovering still. but the aunt and cousins were not expected or invited).
with my own health issues, i've been having an awful time. my jaw feels awful and heavy. my face feels swollen. my nerves are on fire. i can't really speak because it hurts so much. i'm having all kinds of facial muscle spasms. i'm tired and not sleeping well. i don't feel well. i don't want 3 extra people (cousins and aunt) hanging around the house, constantly needing to be entertained.
not to add, we live in the rural middle of nowhere. there's really nothing to do. and then my aunt and cousins and grandma get kinda mad about it. is if it's our fault we live here. it's really not.
but specifically tonight at dinner, everyone (as in my aunt, grandma, cousins, and three brothers; mom wasn't there) was making jokes. my oldest younger brother went out with a girl friend on saturday (i think she's a girlfriend, but i don't wanna pry ya feel). but the ""joke"" was that he went out with his boyfriend. yeah. that's the "joke." one of my brothers knows i'm a trans guy and i'm some-sort-of-not-straight. far as my grandma knows, i'm a lesbian. my other two brothers probably know Something is up but not what exactly; i'm not super subtle. so when i tried to explain that this was, in fact, not funny at all, i'm suddenly a kill-joy, i hate fun, i have no sense of humor, etc.
so i am understandably not feeling very well rn
lmao
i hate it when relatives visit
important point: my mom did not invite them over.
my aunt, who feels she does so much and is yet so unappreciated (which may be true. i don't know my uncle well but i wouldn't be surprised if this was true tbh), decided to arrange a trip. but instead of being like a normal person and asking "hey can four people hang out with you for a few days?", she sends an email that p much says "oh btw we're coming ok?". which. my mom is not ok with as you can imagine. she had a major surgery (she's ok tho!! it wasn't bc there was Something Wrong. she's recovering well but is still sore n stuff) in june and is still not 100%. i have many doctor's appointments to do (maxillofacial to go over an MRI of my brain, i have to get a lesion-possibly-tumor on my tongue looked at, i have a freckle in my eye that needs to get scanned) all before i leave to move back in at college. one of my brothers does football. the other does marching band. the other does nothing. but. the point is we're busy and normal people ask first.
(grandma would have been coming anyway to take me up to school bc mom's not up for the drive since she's recovering still. but the aunt and cousins were not expected or invited).
with my own health issues, i've been having an awful time. my jaw feels awful and heavy. my face feels swollen. my nerves are on fire. i can't really speak because it hurts so much. i'm having all kinds of facial muscle spasms. i'm tired and not sleeping well. i don't feel well. i don't want 3 extra people (cousins and aunt) hanging around the house, constantly needing to be entertained.
not to add, we live in the rural middle of nowhere. there's really nothing to do. and then my aunt and cousins and grandma get kinda mad about it. is if it's our fault we live here. it's really not.
but specifically tonight at dinner, everyone (as in my aunt, grandma, cousins, and three brothers; mom wasn't there) was making jokes. my oldest younger brother went out with a girl friend on saturday (i think she's a girlfriend, but i don't wanna pry ya feel). but the ""joke"" was that he went out with his boyfriend. yeah. that's the "joke." one of my brothers knows i'm a trans guy and i'm some-sort-of-not-straight. far as my grandma knows, i'm a lesbian. my other two brothers probably know Something is up but not what exactly; i'm not super subtle. so when i tried to explain that this was, in fact, not funny at all, i'm suddenly a kill-joy, i hate fun, i have no sense of humor, etc.
so i am understandably not feeling very well rn
lmao
i hate it when relatives visit