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Post by Deleted on Aug 11, 2017 14:27:23 GMT -5
one of my friends is a vegetarian but she's the "everyone should be a vegetarian" kind and i kinda Hate eating w her she invited me out for next sunday w/o saying what she wants to do and i said yes bc i am free that day we even picked a time to meet up and then she just texted that she wants to go to lunch on sunday and i ?????? would it be rude of me to cancel
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Post by Deleted on Aug 11, 2017 14:31:39 GMT -5
have you ever managed to mention how like...... you respect her decisions re:food, but how she should respect yours?
honestly her text was pretty short notice???? idk i'd make an excuse, say i got called into work or something. i mean, i don't know if that's the right thing to do though ¯\_(ツ)_/¯
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Post by Deleted on Aug 11, 2017 14:35:59 GMT -5
have you ever managed to mention how like...... you respect her decisions re:food, but how she should respect yours? honestly her text was pretty short notice???? idk i'd make an excuse, say i got called into work or something. i mean, i don't know if that's the right thing to do though ¯\_(ツ)_/¯ i've made it v clear how i feel but she's really persistent and doesn't have many friends so she's v clingy ((tbh the way she is about food like this is like. 50% of the reason she doesn't have many friends) tbh that's the approach i'm thinking of taking. idk. maybe i have to mow the lawn or take a brother to a fake appointment that day or something
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Post by Deleted on Aug 11, 2017 14:41:28 GMT -5
this sounds harsh, but it's not your fault that she doesn't have many friends.
and tbh i can understand not wanting to do certain activities with certain friends while still liking them. if she makes your lunch get-togethers a terrible experience for you, and knows it, why should she expect you to do the same thing that you don't like doing with her?
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Post by Deleted on Aug 11, 2017 15:08:53 GMT -5
this sounds harsh, but it's not your fault that she doesn't have many friends. and tbh i can understand not wanting to do certain activities with certain friends while still liking them. if she makes your lunch get-togethers a terrible experience for you, and knows it, why should she expect you to do the same thing that you don't like doing with her? she very much holds out on the idea i'll eventually warm up be being a vegetarian. which. as of now is not going to happen. eating w her is just terrible and it's honestly not fun for anyone but her because she's the kind of person who puts up a fight about going to places that aren't specifically vegetarian places and trying to find something meatless on the menu. which i get is annoying but when you're with a group of like 5+ people and you're the only vegetarian and you're really really preachy about it to the point where people only agree to eat out w you if it's not a vegetarian place, you have to deal with it
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