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Post by wadevvilson on Aug 11, 2017 1:32:59 GMT -5
Since it's no doubt time for somebody, somewhere to make some weirdly personal thread once again, have any of you ever had a crush that you couldn't act upon for some reason? Would rather you not put creepy examples. Guess this is just a thread to vent about relationship troubles if you like doing that.
I've had like 1. Only reason I didn't act on it/am still not acting on it is because the person in question is several years younger than me, and as much as I sarcastically joke, the power imbalance would be disturbing.
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Post by Dawnwing on Aug 11, 2017 1:57:04 GMT -5
Yes, because he's in a relationship of almost two years now. He's one of my best friends (who I know from online and have met in person despite living on different continents), and when he told me he was starting to go out with her was when I realized the extent of my feelings. She's a sweet girl (I've met her in person too) and I'm happy she makes him happy, but I really wish it was me.
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Post by 🎃❅❖.Şp໐໐kฯຟiຖ໓.❖❅🎃 on Aug 11, 2017 4:02:40 GMT -5
I had a crush on this dude from grade 5 up to grade 8. I didn't act on it bc my self esteem is so bad and I knew I didn't have a chance at much of anything involving romance/dating
Tbh that was the last time I ever had a crush. Now I literally do not care about dating at all.
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Post by Deleted on Aug 11, 2017 5:46:38 GMT -5
I've had crushes on a number of attractive people in the past few months/people have told me about others who are "available/want to meet me" and stuff. But I've declined the opportunities because A) My last relationship was a set-up/blind date situation and it actually went so poorly? Like I feel if I had gotten to know the guy a little better before being forced to jump right into things I prob wouldn't have dated him, I would've just chosen to be friends I'm trying to take a romantic break rn because of it being my last year of a degree/I really want to be able to focus on school, but ALSO because I'm 95% sure I'll be moving to a new province as of next year, and I'm sick of long distance relationships crashing and burning. So unless they really want to keep things casual, or unless they really want to make an effort to move with me when I do relocate, they're out of the question for the time being
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Post by Deleted on Aug 11, 2017 8:31:22 GMT -5
My crush right now is a selective mute, who's uncomfortable talking to me. And I'm gay so there's that too
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Post by tiger beetle on Aug 11, 2017 9:20:22 GMT -5
I have never acted on any of my crushes
partly because I don't think I want a relationship and partly because I don't want to subject someone else to a relationship with me but other reasons:
1. "Light" - initially I refused to acknowledge that I could like girls and then later two reasons; we drifted further apart, and as far as I know she's straight 2. "Night" it's kind of inconvenient how they rhyme - he's gay and also probably too intense of a person for me 3. "Jagged" - I knew he liked someone else, and I didn't want to ruin our friendship; then he stopped talking to me 4. "Killdeer" - he's a terrible person and I'm 99% sure that I only developed a crush on him because I was trying so hard not to fall for his twin (whoops) 5. "Myotis" - we were only going to know each other for five weeks and I only even managed to keep up the crush (for my own entertainment) for two weeks in the first place 6. "Brindle" because honestly who didn't have a crush on her - uhhh as far as I know she's straight and also despite being in quite a few classes with her we very rarely actually spoke
and finally the crush I've been trying to get over for so long: if I ever tell her I like her the entire dynamic of friendship will go away!!! she's not homophobic it's not like that it's just that I feel like I'd be betraying her if I made that part important
I know I've been really selfish about this whole thing which of course is one of the ways it would be bad...I mean, any relationship would be very unhealthy, and I think I'm already hurting the friendship even without her knowing
she has her own stuff to deal with, even if we could have a healthy relationship I'm not her type, she's cut off all her other friends and I'm so scared that it's my fault but she still needs someone to be there for her and I don't want to just abandon her
I mean we've gone on vacation together, we like(d) to drive around at night together (once until four in the morning) (she doesn't live here anymore which I guess is yet another reason), I know things about her that I didn't need to know, that kind of thing, it's too far now, some people from school think we're already dating because sometimes we would get ice cream or doughnuts together
so basically it would be a really bad idea
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