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Post by Brownie on Aug 6, 2017 12:59:21 GMT -5
I need help how do you break it to someone that you just can't come to their game night because I'm already stressed and the people there put more stress on me and I don't want to have to take being around them when I have a big event tomorrow? But I still want to be nice and not feel like I'm making excuses because they're a nice person and mean well in inviting me
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Post by Brownie on Aug 6, 2017 13:01:08 GMT -5
&& it's kinda stressing me out that if I did go, I wouldn't be home until 11 at least and I have to wake up at 5 for an interview at 7 and I don't think five/six hours of sleep is good enough for an early morning interview???
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Post by vakarian on Aug 6, 2017 13:04:53 GMT -5
you can tell them exactly that - you have to prepare for an early morning interview that's really stressing you out and you want to make sure you're prepared. hopefully they'll understand and you don't have to bring the people at the party into the issue.
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Post by Brownie on Aug 6, 2017 13:08:54 GMT -5
you can tell them exactly that - you have to prepare for an early morning interview that's really stressing you out and you want to make sure you're prepared. hopefully they'll understand and you don't have to bring the people at the party into the issue. Hopefully they don't think I'm making excuses or something. I mean it's true just not all true I guess? thank you ;-; I needed help
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Post by KittyClearsight on Aug 6, 2017 13:14:51 GMT -5
I agree with Vakarian. Might not be the entire truth, but they don't need to know every detail.
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Post by vakarian on Aug 6, 2017 13:20:55 GMT -5
you can tell them exactly that - you have to prepare for an early morning interview that's really stressing you out and you want to make sure you're prepared. hopefully they'll understand and you don't have to bring the people at the party into the issue. Hopefully they don't think I'm making excuses or something. I mean it's true just not all true I guess? thank you ;-; I needed help don't worry dude! i have issues like this all the time what w social anxiety an all that. i'm sure they don't think you're making excuses - it is something important after all. not to say that not wanting to go to a function bc of people stress isn't important, of course. if theyre your friends they should understand and have no hard feelings. :>
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Post by 🎃❅❖.Şp໐໐kฯຟiຖ໓.❖❅🎃 on Aug 6, 2017 13:34:48 GMT -5
If they're your friend, they'd understand. You just have some things to do, it's sad but it's true and hey. You can go to their next game day! Honesty with friends on these types of things is important.
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Post by Brownie on Aug 6, 2017 13:45:30 GMT -5
thanks guys <3
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Post by Tawnyfire on Aug 6, 2017 13:49:31 GMT -5
I think you should just tell them why you can't come.
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Post by sand dollar on Aug 6, 2017 14:33:44 GMT -5
just explain to them that you need to conserve your energy for the interview. as a fellow introvert i've had to explain to extroverted friends that i'm too tired to come to their parties and events and need time to recharge and they've all been really understanding. and if they get upset by you telling them, they aren't worth your time imo. it's best to surround yourself with people who understand you and accept all facets of your personality. best of luck
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