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Post by Deleted on Aug 2, 2017 22:24:44 GMT -5
the topic of possibly being a parent one day came up somehow and my aunt just. like. publicly told her kids to not end up like me lmao cool
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Post by Deleted on Aug 2, 2017 22:33:12 GMT -5
mmmm to explain i guess i don't want kids my aunt is very much "it's my kids' job to make me a grandparent" and i just. don't want kids. not out of disliking kids tho i'm not v fond of them. i like kids but i like w someone else's kid i can just give them back when i'm done w them. like. i'm a bio major. undergrad rn. in order to get a good job, i rlly need at least a masters. i might do a phd. but then i'm currently v interested in going the medical route. why would i do all that school to have kids?? i'd feel bad having a partner (if i do have one tbh) and asking them to be the stay-at-home bc i sure as hell don't wanna be it if i do all this school. i couldn't make someone else stop doing what they want to do just bc we have kids and someone needs to be home. and i'd be an awful parent.
yeah so my aunt just told her kids to never ever end up like me which,,
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Post by Deleted on Aug 2, 2017 22:44:18 GMT -5
that's... wth it's so frustrating when people think they are, like, entitled to other people's kids/lives? it's very uh bad parenting in my opinion tbh to put the expectation on your kids that they themselves should also have kids i'm glad my parents seem to get from me even tho i'm currently only 19 to not expect kids from me
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Post by falconfire on Aug 2, 2017 22:49:26 GMT -5
that's... wth it's so frustrating when people think they are, like, entitled to other people's kids/lives? it's very uh bad parenting in my opinion tbh to put the expectation on your kids that they themselves should also have kids i'm glad my parents seem to get from me even tho i'm currently only 19 to not expect kids from me definitely yeah like... you should maybe, like, expect your kids to be good people and try in school/work/whatever and care for you in your old age if you cared well for them when they were young... beyond that, like, it's the kid's life, not their parents'... smh that's good your parents seem understanding i think i'm lucky enough to have a family that's similarly okay with me not 'settling down' or whatever
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lmao nice
Aug 2, 2017 23:24:22 GMT -5
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Post by Katanaheart on Aug 2, 2017 23:24:22 GMT -5
My mother has told me and my brother that we failed as children because we do not want to give her grandchildren.
I don't dislike children, I just don't want to do anything with them. (Might also be that I don't find them cute...?)
My mother has also tried to convince me on several occasions to have them. (Dad.... I don't think he cares too much on the subject.) She's given me the whole "When you're older or when you meet a man," conversation plenty of times and my response is an adamant, no.
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lmao nice
Aug 3, 2017 1:01:56 GMT -5
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Post by 🎃❅❖.Şp໐໐kฯຟiຖ໓.❖❅🎃 on Aug 3, 2017 1:01:56 GMT -5
😬 that's actually bad. Like WOW. I'm sorry. Of all things to say. , why are people so insensitive?? Aiee
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