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Post by tiger beetle on Jul 21, 2017 21:21:06 GMT -5
I'm sorry to crawl back here for Advice you procablh can't give but
my friend is in a hotel in the middle of nowhere (her family wants to go to wine places but she's not able to drink (age) so she's just doing nothing for several days) and they won't let her have a bed or even share with anyone
if I could drive I would 100% drive and get her by I can't drive I waited so long I've just starte dl learning I can't do it and it wouldn't be appropriate to have my parent go gr her
I don't know there's probably not anything to do anyway sorry I just needed to talk about it I know it's not my thing she's the one who's hurt not me I'm sorry does anyone know what I can do
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Post by sand dollar on Jul 21, 2017 21:25:03 GMT -5
do you think your parents would mind going to get her with you? do you think she's in danger or is it just that she's uncomfortable?
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Post by tiger beetle on Jul 21, 2017 21:28:20 GMT -5
spoiler for mention of suicide nothing is going to happen to her unless she does it to herself but the thing is she has been suicidal for many years and her family has told her to kill herself before
but they won't physically hurt her
my parents wouldn't let me call the police when I thought she was about to kill herself (she ha made a list of reasons to live and reasons to die that day) there is no chance they would go to get her from vacation because she was upset
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Post by tiger beetle on Jul 21, 2017 21:39:02 GMT -5
sorry I shouldn't have made this thread
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Post by 𝘨𝘰𝘭𝘥𝘦𝘯 𝘴𝘶𝘯 on Jul 21, 2017 21:46:34 GMT -5
could you keep her company online/via the phone or something?
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Post by sand dollar on Jul 21, 2017 21:48:31 GMT -5
if you can't physically help her i guess continuing to message her with support is your best option. when is she returning?
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Post by tiger beetle on Jul 21, 2017 22:05:58 GMT -5
she might come here on Monday but she doesn't live with her parents anymore (she lives with slightly less bad family) so no guarantee I'll even see her (last time she came to my house at 10 P.M. after spending the day doing things for her family)
I am still texting her right now thogh
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Post by Deleted on Jul 21, 2017 22:07:18 GMT -5
if you can't physically go to you and you can't physically go to her, just keep in contact with her somehow. whether it's by text, or whatever sort of messaging app/system you guys use, FaceTime, skype, phone call, etc., just keep talking to her
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Post by tiger beetle on Jul 21, 2017 22:11:09 GMT -5
she keeps apologizing for "being a Debbie downer"
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