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Post by 🆉🅴🅻🅳🆁🅸🆂 on Jul 21, 2017 10:45:10 GMT -5
so when i was a freshman i had the hugest crush on this girl. it wasnt just her looks. it was her personality. the way she carried herself. her voice, and those eyes...to this day i still have that really butterfly feeling when i see her or curse myself for not making a move on her. she was interested in guys though...
and so since ive moved i havent seen another girl that ive liked, only guys. i dont know if this is because im scared to like come out or if theres just not a girl im interested in at the moment. i dunno. does this make me bi or what im so confused
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Post by Deleted on Jul 21, 2017 10:50:29 GMT -5
Don't try to stick a label on it too fast. Just because you like one person of the same/opposite gender won't mean you're automatically bisexual.
I have a friend IRL who identifies as lesbian and she ended up having this thing with a guy for a few weeks in the spring. It was very no-strings-attached and she's never liked a guy before or since. Sometimes you're just attracted to people and you can't help it. I only started identifying as bi AFTER having had numerous attractions to women over the course of probably 5-ish years, and even dating one.
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Post by 🆉🅴🅻🅳🆁🅸🆂 on Jul 21, 2017 11:06:29 GMT -5
Ohhh okay
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Post by December on Jul 21, 2017 12:55:57 GMT -5
Some things to keep in mind:
1.) It's okay to be bi and still have preferences. Not all bi people experience attraction as fifty-fifty, you know? It's possible that you're just more into guys than girls, but that doesn't necessarily diminish your attraction to girls.
2.) It could just be that you haven't met another girl who fits the idea of what you're into yet. That doesn't mean you won't in the future! I like girls, and I know I like girls, but I haven't had a serious crush on one in forever. It happens. Attraction isn't 24/7; it just depends on who you're exposed to and how you feel about them.
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Post by Deleted on Jul 21, 2017 16:27:30 GMT -5
it could've been a one-off thing that you happened to like this one girl and that's cool
but also being bi isn't a 50/50 thing ya know. everyone i know who's bi (myself included) still have a preference. you could just be more into guys
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