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Post by Deleted on Jun 18, 2017 21:44:44 GMT -5
Title.
Personally, I don't know. Like I would like to have my own biological children, but the birthing process scares me after watching too many Lifetime movies. So maybe adoption? But at the same time, kids are a lot of responsibility that take up a lot of time and money. Plus I generally view kids as snotty, disgusting demons. So...I dunno.
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Post by Snappppppppppppp on Jun 18, 2017 21:45:52 GMT -5
So far being a 21 year old, no. Not at all. I am not a fan of children and they just annoy me a lot, so I don't know how I'd have the patience to deal with them.
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Post by Northstar3213 on Jun 18, 2017 21:48:05 GMT -5
One day, if I can find an exceptional mate that meets all (or most of) my expectations.
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Post by Deleted on Jun 18, 2017 21:48:42 GMT -5
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Post by Pantherstar on Jun 18, 2017 21:50:02 GMT -5
Nope. The concept of pregnancy disgusts me, I hate children, and I'd make a terrible mother.
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Post by Cheyenne on Jun 18, 2017 21:50:36 GMT -5
I put yes, but only adopted because I want Fur Babbies (cats and dogs)
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Post by Salted Squid on Jun 18, 2017 21:53:26 GMT -5
I do at some point, though I'd have to adopt bc I don't think I'd ever be able to safely carry a child
It's better to give an orphan a good home rather than risk my own life and an unborn child's life for a biological child imo
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Post by Deleted on Jun 18, 2017 21:54:01 GMT -5
No. Never. I am NOT putting my body through it. I do NOT have patience for babies and small children. JUST NO.
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Post by Sour Candy on Jun 18, 2017 21:58:52 GMT -5
Kittens are better
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Post by ʀᴀɪɴʟᴇᴀғ 🍁 on Jun 18, 2017 21:59:17 GMT -5
Yeah, I want kids but not at the moment.
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Post by tiger beetle on Jun 18, 2017 21:59:29 GMT -5
no; I like the sentiment of adopting but I couldn't raise them I'd be a terrible parent
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Post by Deleted on Jun 18, 2017 22:01:01 GMT -5
ask me again in 10 years
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Post by Deleted on Jun 18, 2017 22:02:15 GMT -5
tbh it'd probably depend on my SO lol
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Post by 𝓣𝓲𝓷𝓾𝓿𝓲𝓮𝓵 on Jun 18, 2017 22:02:44 GMT -5
I'd definitely would never want to have my own kids, but maybe I'd at least adopt depending on how old the child is. That said though, I still think pets are better. XD
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Post by Deleted on Jun 18, 2017 22:28:16 GMT -5
I can't have kids because of medical issues and medications for those medical issues. I'm infertile. If I wanted kids, I'd adopt, but I would never want to have biological children. And considering how much I dislike kids, adoption probably won't happen.
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Post by Deleted on Jun 18, 2017 22:29:49 GMT -5
Absolutely not, for several reasons
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Post by Deleted on Jun 18, 2017 22:33:52 GMT -5
im most likely going to have to adopt
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Post by Deleted on Jun 18, 2017 22:35:59 GMT -5
Cats are better than people
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Post by Deleted on Jun 18, 2017 22:42:11 GMT -5
probably not but i dont have a s/o so i mean he might be able to convince me, it really depends so i guess ill see when i find the one
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Post by Sanders on Jun 18, 2017 22:49:03 GMT -5
i like the idea of children but i get tired of them very quickly. like i think children are cute. and the idea of like. raising a tiny human into a full grown adult would be pretty radical. however im not very good with kids. i tend to not be empathetic enough towards them which could come off as rude and/or distant. they also just kind of make me uncomfortable because they aren't Relatable Content,,, like kids don't even understand memes. im good with older children. like. 7 and up perhaps don't really know.
basically i don't want to put a child under my care when i know that i wouldn't be able to emotionally give them the love/care that they need. because i know that i am incapable of giving it to them. and i don't want to raise an emotionally distant child who becomes an emotionally distant adult because im a terrible parent and couldn't connect with my child.
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Post by ~●ℓєgσℓαѕ●~ on Jun 18, 2017 22:54:44 GMT -5
You need ovaries to have kids, so it's not really a possibility for me anymore. But I feel like even if somewhere down the line I did want to have kids (I don't currently), and had the possibility of adopting, I still wouldn't. It would be completely selfish because I know I would be a horrible parent. I have literally no patience for children, and I have pretty violent urges around them. That's why I have 17 cats.
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Post by Deleted on Jun 18, 2017 23:05:30 GMT -5
yeah, but adopted
honestly deep down i want bio kids, but i don't want to pass down all of the mental illnesses which were passed down to me. i'd love a kid with mental illness of course, but i don't want to be knowingly responsible for bringing someone like myself into this world.
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Post by Deleted on Jun 18, 2017 23:20:47 GMT -5
one day if I feel ready
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Post by pastelpills on Jun 19, 2017 5:41:23 GMT -5
Well, I'm ace, so probably not biological kids, and I don't like the idea of adopting a kid for some reason, so no thanks. Ask me again in about 10 to 15 years.
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Post by Deleted on Jun 19, 2017 5:42:21 GMT -5
I always say I have a biological limit of two. If my partner wants more kids than that, and we agree we have the means, I'd be willing to go through the adoption process.
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Post by Theblazepanzer24 on Jun 19, 2017 7:12:59 GMT -5
Well, as a guy, I wouldn't want to force my wife into having kids if she doesn't want to, and even then, given how both sides of the political system have messed this nation up, I don't think I could bring a child into this world and not feel over-worried about it.
But as for me having kids, assuming my wife wanted one, then yes, I do like the concept. There's just so many parameters that have to be met before I'd agree to bring a child into the world.
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Post by 𝘨𝘰𝘭𝘥𝘦𝘯 𝘴𝘶𝘯 on Jun 19, 2017 7:15:24 GMT -5
I definitely don't want biological children. the idea of pregnancy and later childbirth horrifies me - yes, yes, the miracle of life and all that but I don't want to put myself through it. my health would deteriorate so quickly and it's already not doing well at all. I could possibly consider adoption, depending on my future partner and how strongly they felt about children, but in that case I'd foster/adopt an older child or possibly even a teenager. I'm never going to raise a baby or toddler, that much I know.
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