She can leave

Or ya know Night is trying to keep their family together for her son's sake.

Breezepelt doesn't need his parents to be together anymore though. He's senior warrior aged now so he doesn't really need them to be together anymore for the sake of raising him. They can split up but still be his parents, or at least Nightcloud can be. She doesn't need Crowfeather in order to be apart of Breezepelt's life anymore.

And she only cared about forcing someone to love her and having kits.

If anything, they're abusive towards each other. But if she honestly has that much of a problem to get mad when he's talking to his ex, then she should take the step to get out. She got what she wanted, but he still has something to prove. I don't understand why people are putting the abuse on one side. Crowfeather is solely receiving the abuse, nor is just Nightcloud. They're doing it to each other.

"Force".

It was Crowfeather who came to her with the offer of being mates. So I guess Nightcloud wanting to "woo" her mate is apparently "forcing" him to love her. Right? I'm pretty sure she was literally doing what was supposed to come natural to ya know...being mates.

Also talking with his ex after all the drama going on, was just not even a good idea. There's a time and place, and that was definitely not the time. Tensions were high, and Lion and Breeze were just beating the crap out of one another, so how is anyone seriously expected to keep calm in a situation like that and handle it in a proper manner?

You make it sound like literally all she only wanted from the start to the end was just kits. If that was the case, literally her trying to be romantic with Crowfeather was pointless. Vicky said that Nightcloud did love Crowfeather, but he never once felt the same and was just using her. It's not until later on that Nightcloud realizes this and that's when any real animosity began between them. And it's mostly for Breezepelt's sake, because they tended to argue over him. If anything, the only reason they were still together around the time, was for his sake, and or because Crowfeather still needed them to prove his loyalty.

I personally think that some of the guidebooks did a pretty bad job wording their relationship. "Force" with Crowfeather, imo, seems more like "desperate". He was desperate to get his clan to trust him again, so he chose Nightcloud, and offered to her mate under false pretenses. He was using her. On the other hand, it can be said that Nightcloud probably didn't like Crowfeather much, I'm going off of theorizing for this one, but I think this stems over the whole Mudclaw revolt. Nightcloud was one of Mudclaw's stronger supporters, on the other hand Crowfeather supported Onestar, and his mother even became deputy. So I think them not getting along at first, before the whole mate incident makes sense. But you also need to take into account that feelings can change. Squirreflight and Bramblestar didn't get along at first, neither did, (SPOILERS) Pebbleshine and Hawkwing. My guess is that Nightcloud eventually did fall in love with Crowfeather, like Vicky said, and because of this, wanted to try and make the relationship work. So she tried to make him fall for her, like any mate would want, it just didn't work, and she didn't realize this until later on.

I'll agree with you on that, I don't think it was the right thing, but I do think it was understandable, considering the circumstances. It's also pretty ironic, because a moment before she was demanding to know if Crowfeather even cared that his son got hurt. And he says nothing. Then along comes Leafpool, saying something similar, and Crowfeather actually does react, when she's hurt, not Breezepelt, and Nightcloud got defensive about it. So, imo, I can understand her actions, even if I don't approve of them, let alone Crowfeather's.

I personally would like to see an e-book on Nightcloud, her or Silverstream and Half-Moon. Would be more interesting than the content the Erins are dishing out now.

And again, personally, I'd like to see that, more like I would have preferred to see that instead. Independent mother Nightcloud. It's rather ironic, considering that was more or less what we actually did got since Crowfeather was barely involved in his son's life unless he was forced into it.

Nightcloud is awful, but she wasn't the abuser. In fact, Crowfeather's behavior seemed to have brought out the worst in her. The way she raised Breezepelt was probably an act of retaliation against Crowfeather. Both are at fault, but Crowfeather acted as the main abuser.

Did you forget when Breezepaw got hurt, and Leafpool treated him, and Nightcloud was down right grateful for her help? Nightcloud wasn't ALWAYS the way she was now. It's because of her relationship with Crowfeather, and the family's reputation thanks to him, that things pretty much went down hill.

Nightcloud used him too, though. She's no better than Crowfeather. I'm only giving Nightcloud a pass because it may be true that she did change because of what Crowfeather has done. However, she wanted to make him love her, which may also mean that she knew he never loved her and still loved Leafpool. Keep in mind that this also happened right after Leafpool dumped him, so Crowfeather was up for grabs. Of course he won't get over Leafpool in just a few days. He needs time, and I think Nightcloud may have known that since it was stated she tried to make him love her.

Crowfeather and Nightcloud's relationship and character reminds me exactly of my parents relationship. They seem to hate each other and all they do is argue, but for some odd reason they are still together. And since Nightcloud reminds me of my mother, I am biased to not feel sorry for her. I don't hate my mom, but she's seriously hard to get along with for the same reasons Nightcloud has been shown to be. That's why I could never end up feeling sorry for this character.

Crowfeather is worse than Nightcloud.

There is literal proof in the books of this. Breezepelt doesn't blame Nightcloud for anything, after all the drama came in the open. He blames Crowfeather, and rightfully so. Nightcloud was the only parent of the two to actually give him something at least resembling a type of love, Crwofeather gave nothing. Nadda, 0%. 

Nightcloud would argue with Crowfeather and it usually concerned Breezepelt, because he wouldn't put more faith in his son, let alone acnowledge him. He showed no pride or excitement when Breezepelt was born, nor in being mates with Nightcloud. Nightcloud's anger toward him, imo, is justifiable. Also saying that Nightcloud physically abused Crow possibly would be no different than saying the same when Crowfeather dragged Breezepelt off of Lionblaze, is that implied physical abuse then?

Crowfeather also "poisoned" Breezepelt's mind with blatant xenophobia, literally talking down on ThunderClan, and encouraging Breezepelt to hate cats with different blood. How is that any better if not worse? At least what Nightcloud was doing held of candle toward the truth, Crowfeather is a rotten father and mate, that's fact. Even if Nightcloud didn't have an influence there it doesn't change the fact that Crowfeather blatantly neglected his son, and was the source of the majority of arguments with Nightcloud.

I agree that Nightcloud can leave, but where would she go? I don't think she's young at this point in the books, so I'm not sure she would take another mate… And then she would just be alone…

And I think people are forgetting is that the person that's most responsible for Breezepelt’s actions is Breezepelt himself. Children may be influenced by the environment they are in, and their parents, but it is often times their conscious decision to follow a path.

For example, Crookedstar had his mother abandon him and his parents basically divorce when he was very young. He also found out later that he was part of a curse, and that it may have been his destiny to keep it going. Yet he chose to be an upstanding and loyal cat, enough to become leader of his clan. He could have become like Mapleshade and become bloodthirsty, but instead he chose not to.

Bluestar had a horrible past, with her father not paying attention to her and most of her family dying when she was very young. Yet she didn't turn on her Clan and was able to get over the grief enough to lead it, and save it from those who would cause it trouble. Even with the illness is the end of her life, she was still consciously choosing not to become bloodthirsty or violent, when she very well could have while she was mentally weak.

Even Tallstar, who lost his father at a young age and had a mother who did not care for him much, could have lost himself in revenge. Yet he didn't, and became leader of his clan.

Those characters chose to lead honest lives despite having bad parental relationships or just bad pasts in general. If they can do that, then there's no reason why Breezepelt could not have chosen to be loyal to his Clan… In fact, if you take this angle, Dovewing’s Silence makes a lot more sense, because the leaders are angry at the former Dark Forest allies because they had a choice in whether or not they could join…

New headcanon, Nightcloud and Breezepelt leave WindClan for SkyClan. That'll solve everything, since they both deserve better.

Bonus: Macgyver and Nightcloud become a thing, and Macgyver becomes a proper father role-model for Breezepelt.