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Post by tiger beetle on Nov 12, 2016 7:21:25 GMT -5
I'm just not sure
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Post by tiger beetle on Nov 12, 2016 18:33:38 GMT -5
I didn't tell her
but we're going somewhere tonight should I tell her now
what if she thinks I wanted her to go because I wanted to pretend it was a date…that isn't what's happening but what if she thinks it is
she won't be mad at me but what if she's upset
but then maybe I should tell her so that this situation can never happen again? so at least she knows? but what if instead of understanding she just gets guilty???
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Post by tiger beetle on Nov 13, 2016 0:25:41 GMT -5
we're driving around should I tell her
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Post by Uмвяᴀ on Nov 13, 2016 1:53:24 GMT -5
Has she gotten help for her depression and anxiety? If not, I would focus on that before your crush on her.
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Post by tiger beetle on Nov 13, 2016 1:59:04 GMT -5
her parents took her to a therapist who doesn't have confidentiality; I'm taking her to my psychiatrist the next time I have a meeting...
I know that my crush doesn't take priority, but it is definitely a problem in the way I interact with her, and I want to get rid of it so that it won't hurt her further, if that makes sense
it's probably worth mentioning that I also have depression and anxiety...which doesn't mean much to the situation but I really feel like getting rid of this unnecessary stress would be good for both of us
and I'm a clingy and terrible person so me learning to let go (WITHOUT dropping her) would also help her
other than that...we talk a lot...I'm not good at helping people because I don't know how they work but I hope that I am helping a little...
I know it's selfish to think about my part in this but I think it's hurting her too...
maybe it's not I'm sorry for all of this
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