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Post by Deleted on Nov 1, 2016 10:53:35 GMT -5
I hate school work. I haven't felt helpless in a long time but here I am trying to rush it all to be done by class tomorrow and the thought crossed my mind. I don't have any intentions to actually do it but like... I just want it to stop. One and a half more year of school doesn't seem like that much but even trying to get through the next three weeks is making me feel really really bad. I hate it and I feel so useless right now because I'm not even trying to do my homework; I'm just throwing down random answers.
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Post by Deleted on Nov 1, 2016 11:04:50 GMT -5
I'm in highschool and I can't go to tutoring. I tried it once but nearly started crying within the first two minutes because of all the people. My school is p much homeschooling. We have a single one hour math class and everything else is done online. This means our homework is usually a total of around 600 questions, not counting anything extra like essays. I don't have the motivation for the other classes, which is really sad considering all of the answers are literally RIGHT THERE. idk I think this is all dumb self pity and whining on my part
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Post by Deleted on Nov 1, 2016 11:25:13 GMT -5
School gets really rough and I know theres no denying that. Its not worth what you’re suggesting (I know you said you aren't going to but I wanted to say it again). I didn’t do any of my homework for most of freshman year and I put off a lot of work. Its hard to step back up from that, it really is. You have to keep on going cause even when life and school gets hard it makes it all the more worth it when you’re done.
I understand that you’re frustrated and I know it sounds dumb to say but it gets better. I know saying it gets easier sounds like a lie because there's a lot of chaos after school, but it will be a good feeling knowing that you got through that and made it out. Its not whining because you have every reason to be upset and frustrated. Doing all that work is really hard, not gonna lie. You really aren’t alone and there are a lot of people having the same problems as you.
Don’t put yourself down because it seems like you can’t do it right now cause you can. I have talked to you before and there is no doubt you are an intelligent person. There is a very big difference between school work and how smart you are; don’t ever mix those up. You are a very clever person (and there are a lot of people that aren’t so much). Don’t let anything make you think otherwise. Keep doing what you can (even if that's just math) and you’ll get better and things will get easier. Push for the help you need even if its difficult to do so. I know you have it in you. Just keep on working. Even if its only little bits at a time that still helps a lot.
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Post by qυeeɴ oғ ɢнoѕтlιɴɢѕ on Nov 1, 2016 11:33:26 GMT -5
School can be hard and it really adds unneeded stress on a person. I'm sorry you feel like this and have school work that's overwhelming you. If I could help I would. If you need to talk to anyone or anything feel free to pm me. I get not being motivated and stressed out. I have virtual hugs and cookies if you need them. I'm sorry I cannot be much more help but the others said what I would have. I can give support though
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Post by Deleted on Nov 1, 2016 11:42:43 GMT -5
First of all, take a deep breath. Calm your nerves, and just breathe. Yes, one and a half years of school feels like a long time, but it will be over soon. Things WILL get better, I promise you. Maybe not today, maybe not tomorrow. Heck, maybe not even a year from now! But it WILL get better. I'm waiting for things to get better too. For me, everything feels like crap, but one thing I'm holding onto is HOPE. HOPE that things will get better, HOPE that I won't feel worthless anymore. And yes, it's OKAY to have bad days. It's OKAY to have moments of feeling worthless. Because you know what? When you start feeling like a winner once more, you'll feel all the more better. And just because you FEEL worthless, doesn't mean you ARE. Go ahead, cry your heart out if you need to, punch and kick and scream into a pillow. Get all that negativity out, because bottling up your emotions won't do you any favors. Eventually that bottle will overflow, and if you try to contain it longer, it'll explode. If you need anybody to talk to, or vent to, just message me. Even if you don't want to actually talk about it, I'll still be listening, because one thing that helps me is a listening ear. Even if they have no words of comfort to give, a listening ear is often all I ever need.
I hope that was solid advice ^.^; Not the best but I hope it still helped <3
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