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Post by Deleted on Oct 16, 2016 16:22:24 GMT -5
My dad got really drunk and got in a violent fight with one of our neighbors, then he came inside and harassed my mom and called her vulgar names. Point being, we are all now on negative terms, my dad and I especially (I'm not speaking with or even looking at him.) My sister is really my only true ally right now.
The thing is, my mom is denying that my dad was ever so violent and failing to even get angry about it, and my dad seems to be buttering my mom up (even though he seems too cowardly to apologize directly). I wish I had called the police on him. He can act apologetic and shameful all he wants, but he's not convincing me. He is lowly scum to me now, and he has officially lost my trust. Plus, he's been like this before, though each of these cases was less severe. He was even sober in some of them.
I want to talk to my mom, but I'm afraid I'll send her spiraling into even deeper depression, and that's not what I want. I love her and appreciate her, and think she deserves a much better life than this. She is a much better person than my dad.
As for my dad, I wish he would just disappear. Even though he was drunk when he did all those things, the fact that he got so drunk in the first place is inexcusable, not to mention disgusting. He has a family. I don't want to talk to him about it, because the only thing he'll say is "I'm sorry," but insincerely. Anyway, he is officially below me now.
I feel alone and estranged, not to mention sickened. I need friendship right now.
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Post by Deleted on Oct 16, 2016 16:30:41 GMT -5
u have every right to be angry. my dad did similar stuff (years ago) and i still cant look him in the eye. u dont have to talk to him about it and anyone who says ur wrong for not liking ur dad doesn't get it. im sorry that happened 2 u.
unfortunately just cause he got drunk doesn't mean hes gonna leave, so unless ur mom plans on getting a divorce ur gonna have to learn how to live w it, and if calling the cops is the only way to stop those things when they happen, then thats whats u gotta do. i wish u werent put in that situation but sometimes its all u can do. but i wish u luck. i also recommend talking to ur mom. talking wont send her further in depression, and who knows, she may need the talk. u just gotta hope she doesnt get mad honestly
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Post by Deleted on Oct 16, 2016 17:13:34 GMT -5
Sounds like cops might need to be involved soon. I don't know your age of the age of your siblings, but it might be for the better. Seriously, something need to be done. Your dad cannot get away with this I was tempted to call the police the first time, but I was too scared. If he does it again I will definitely call the police. My sister and I are both fairly young, so we can't move out or drive off or anything. My mom isn't planning on getting a divorce, by the looks of it. My dad has one beer per each meal, so I'm sure my mom isn't very surprised—if anything, it's normal for her. He's never actually gotten that intoxicated, though. My mom talked to one of our other neighbors earlier today, probably telling her nothing much happened, even though my dad was yelling and cursing up a storm. He and the neighbor skirmished for like, an hour, in my lawn for some of the time. I don't even know how it happened.
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