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Post by Lórien on Oct 14, 2016 17:16:58 GMT -5
I want to slap this person out of the planet.
She's my best friend, but gosh...
Today at lunch she randomly said
"You know, gender fluid people are just... fakes. They cant even legally be gender fluid. You have to be a girl or a boy. No in between. They just cant be gender fluid. They're not real humans." For people just skimming over quickly, THIS WAS NOT SAID BY ME!!
Let's just say... It took much restraint not to kill her right there. At the lunch table.
I know everyone has there own opinion... but... COME ON.
And she said all that in front of a trans person... good job.
And then later she started angering me on purpose to "test our friendship." And of course I automatically think of when my best friend turned on me and started bullying me, which of course made me freak out.
I beg everyone not to turn this into a flamewar. I just needed to rant, and I have no where else to go for that.
I'm not even sure if more then one or two people will post, but I guess that's okay...
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Post by tinybreeze on Oct 14, 2016 17:19:12 GMT -5
...*hugs*
But seriously
Why did she... ugh... To be honest, you need to have a talk with her. From what I'm seeing, she's not even acting like a friend.
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Post by Lórien on Oct 14, 2016 17:23:38 GMT -5
We should, but I cant bring myself to do that... (I'll just start sobbing and run away, trust me.)
Honestly today was a bit of a train wreck with her.
But this is the first time anything like this has happened, so I'm really confused...
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Post by Sour Candy on Oct 14, 2016 17:32:23 GMT -5
May I fight them with a rake
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Post by Deleted on Oct 14, 2016 17:32:54 GMT -5
I have a friend like that (but aggressive, controlling, and Trump-supporting) so I show my anger at her through my actions and writing. (So far, she hasn't figured it out yet.) She also tried to force me to admit I'm an atheist, and argued with every single little thing I said. She moved last summer, thank god for that, I was tired of having a pro-Trump speech shoved in my ear every morning
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Post by Lórien on Oct 14, 2016 17:33:14 GMT -5
May I fight them with a rake Yes, you may. *Hands over steel reinforced rake.*
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Post by Lórien on Oct 14, 2016 17:37:23 GMT -5
I have a friend like that (but aggressive, controlling, and Trump-supporting) so I show my anger at her through my actions and writing. (So far, she hasn't figured it out yet.) She also tried to force me to admit I'm an atheist, and argued with every single little thing I said. She moved last summer, thank god for that, I was tired of having a pro-Trump speech shoved in my ear every morning Ah, that stinks. That's good that she moved though. And about religion, that's where I'm freaking out about as well. She thinks that I'm a Christian... I'm not I believe in no higher being, and I'm afraid that if she ever learns that, she'll flip out... and I don't want that. In fact, everyone thinks I'm a Christian at my school. (My mom brings me to church, so that's why.)
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Post by Deleted on Oct 14, 2016 17:43:58 GMT -5
I have a friend like that (but aggressive, controlling, and Trump-supporting) so I show my anger at her through my actions and writing. (So far, she hasn't figured it out yet.) She also tried to force me to admit I'm an atheist, and argued with every single little thing I said. She moved last summer, thank god for that, I was tired of having a pro-Trump speech shoved in my ear every morning Ah, that stinks. That's good that she moved though. And about religion, that's where I'm freaking out about as well. She thinks that I'm a Christian... I'm not I believe in no higher being, and I'm afraid that if she ever learns that, she'll flip out... and I don't want that. In fact, everyone thinks I'm a Christian at my school. (My mom brings me to church, so that's why.) I figured out a while ago that while it's not best to just say that you're an atheist out of nowhere, if someone judges you because of religion or the lack of one, then they're clearly bigoted and don't really deserve to be your friend. I'm much more open about my atheism now because it's just part of who I am, sort of like what things I'm into and what clothes I wear. And if anyone else decides to act like a jerk or turn on me for it, it's not my problem. (Although I don't bring up my atheism that much anyways just in case.)
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Post by Lórien on Oct 14, 2016 17:50:04 GMT -5
Ah, that stinks. That's good that she moved though. And about religion, that's where I'm freaking out about as well. She thinks that I'm a Christian... I'm not I believe in no higher being, and I'm afraid that if she ever learns that, she'll flip out... and I don't want that. In fact, everyone thinks I'm a Christian at my school. (My mom brings me to church, so that's why.) I figured out a while ago that while it's not best to just say that you're an atheist out of nowhere, if someone judges you because of religion or the lack of one, then they're clearly bigoted and don't really deserve to be your friend. I'm much more open about my atheism now because it's just part of who I am, sort of like what things I'm into and what clothes I wear. And if anyone else decides to act like a jerk or turn on me for it, it's not my problem. (Although I don't bring up my atheism that much anyways just in case.) I mean, everything else about me and her is good, expect this possible problem and the stuff above. I should just tell her but I'm just to scared to. This is the first time I've ever talked about religion on here. Hopefully someone doesn't turn this into a flamewar somehow... *Looks around warily.*
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Post by Deleted on Oct 14, 2016 18:35:06 GMT -5
AHHHHHHHHHHHHHHH
I now want to hit this girl with a flamethrower...
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Post by feign on Oct 14, 2016 18:58:11 GMT -5
I figured out a while ago that while it's not best to just say that you're an atheist out of nowhere, if someone judges you because of religion or the lack of one, then they're clearly bigoted and don't really deserve to be your friend. I'm much more open about my atheism now because it's just part of who I am, sort of like what things I'm into and what clothes I wear. And if anyone else decides to act like a jerk or turn on me for it, it's not my problem. (Although I don't bring up my atheism that much anyways just in case.) I mean, everything else about me and her is good, expect this possible problem and the stuff above. I should just tell her but I'm just to scared to. This is the first time I've ever talked about religion on here. Hopefully someone doesn't turn this into a flamewar somehow... *Looks around warily.*nah, don't worry, religion is surprisingly chill on here unlike other topics
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Post by Lórien on Oct 15, 2016 6:16:19 GMT -5
AHHHHHHHHHHHHHHH I now want to hit this girl with a flamethrower... *Throws her in front of you.* Go ahead. I'm so glad it's the weekend and I'm going to out of town. If I was in school, eeeep.
I would be storming around the school in my anger, and I don't even now how I would express my anger to her yet.
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Post by Lórien on Oct 15, 2016 6:19:30 GMT -5
I mean, everything else about me and her is good, expect this possible problem and the stuff above. I should just tell her but I'm just to scared to. This is the first time I've ever talked about religion on here. Hopefully someone doesn't turn this into a flamewar somehow... *Looks around warily.*nah, don't worry, religion is surprisingly chill on here unlike other topicsWell that's a relief.
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Post by tiger beetle on Oct 15, 2016 8:42:33 GMT -5
that...is not a friend
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Post by Lórien on Oct 15, 2016 12:33:53 GMT -5
This girl will experience a visit from me in the middle of the night. I won't do anything, just stare...and smile...creepily. Okay! She leaves down the street from me in that little circle! Go ahead and do that!
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Post by Lórien on Oct 15, 2016 12:34:42 GMT -5
The thing is, that was the first thing that ever happened with her like that. Its confusing me.
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Bleak
RN does not stand for Refreshments and Narcotics
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Post by Bleak on Oct 15, 2016 13:14:46 GMT -5
This girl will experience a visit from me in the middle of the night. I won't do anything, just stare...and smile...creepily. Okay! She leaves down the street from me in that little circle! Go ahead and do that! That's what she will see tonight ...maybe I should put some toothpaste in my mouth for a rabis effect...
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Post by Lórien on Oct 15, 2016 13:17:57 GMT -5
Okay! She leaves down the street from me in that little circle! Go ahead and do that! That's what she will see tonight ...maybe I should put some toothpaste in my mouth for a rabis effect... *Hands over toothpaste.* Use this!
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