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Post by Sour Candy on Oct 13, 2016 23:16:49 GMT -5
Why are the people on this forum such a trainwreck :/
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Post by Deleted on Oct 13, 2016 23:17:25 GMT -5
no, and u need to stop. im not being aggressive. I'm not saying you're aggressive I'm saying you need to drop it u think thats gonna solve anything? i get it, theyre ur friend, but ur friend needs to understand that 'get over it' is not the way to respond to a situation like that. theyre way too defensive. and you dont speak for them, so stop
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Post by ʀᴀɪɴʟᴇᴀғ 🍁 on Oct 13, 2016 23:18:36 GMT -5
no, and u need to stop. im not being aggressive. I'm not saying you're aggressive I'm saying you need to drop it Sour, I'm saying this in a respectful manner. Many, including myself, have a reason to still be angry over it. People who do attempt suicide and show obvious signs of a possible attmept are ignored because of people doing things like Bracken did. People automatically assume it's for attention and the entire story is shady and doesn't add up. I have personally been bullied for my attempt because people thought I was doing it for attention. What Bracken did just makes things worse for those who need help and end up being successful in their attempts because they're just assumed to be doing it for attention. I have a right to be angry. People who are still angry have a right to and do not need to drop it.
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Post by Sand 🎃 on Oct 13, 2016 23:19:33 GMT -5
Why are the people on this forum such a trainwreck :/ If you don't want to get involved with the trainwreck, simply don't post. Like I said, it's best for us to leave this alone now even though it is seemingly unforgettable.
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Post by Sour Candy on Oct 13, 2016 23:19:49 GMT -5
I'm not saying you're aggressive I'm saying you need to drop it Sour, I'm saying this in a respectful manner. Many, including myself, have a reason to still be angry over it. People who do attempt suicide and show obvious signs of a possible attmept are ignored because of people doing things like Bracken did. People automatically assume it's for attention and the entire story is shady and doesn't add up. I have personally been bullied for my attempt because people thought I was doing it for attention. What Bracken did just makes things worse for those who need help and end up being successful in their attempts because they're just assumed to be doing it for attention. I have a right to be angry. People who are still angry have a right to and do not need to drop it. Didn't Salt say it was their roommates?
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Post by Deleted on Oct 13, 2016 23:22:04 GMT -5
The roommates are the cause. I left my phone on when I left to take a walk amd they did that. I get it. But I posted a post wishing everyone a good day the other day and everyone's like, "Tell the truth"! I've tried therapy and everything. Nothing is helping. Hey, next time you lie to people, write down your cover story, okay? Last time you told it, they got on your computer while you were at therapy. Sour Candy - I don't like you at all, but understand that when I'm calling Salt out for lying to her friends, I'm talking about you. I'm literally sticking up for you. I get that we're all a little blind about the people we care about, but come on. Is this not suspicious to you? Anyway, this is my last post on the matter. Salt, you're being blatantly transparent in your lies, and you better own up to it before you alienate this entire website. Everyone else, enjoy the rest of your night.
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Post by poppy. on Oct 13, 2016 23:22:57 GMT -5
It is a touchy subject. Salt, you did make this thread in hopes to hear opinions, and people did give their honest opinion, which ended up being about the hurt caused by the troubles the other day. However, this new disagreement is now coming from becoming defensive, causing the other parties to also do the same thing. It is a spiral of back-and-forth defense mechanisms of how we want to protect ourselves and our feelings. Sadly this topic being created did indeed invite others to bring up what happened, but it does need to be let go of (not just by them, but also yourself).
It will take time, as trust is difficult to build up and maintain. However, if we all take three steps back from the situation, breathe, and not discuss anything controversial or relative to the current subject matter, things will get better and eventually it will dissipate and we will not have problems like this again over the tension will hopefully subside.
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Post by Deleted on Oct 13, 2016 23:23:14 GMT -5
People will get over it, eventually. It's not the kind of wound that heals over night, specially since I, and many others don't believe your roommate story. This isn't going to get better overnight. Or in a week, or two. This will take time. The reason people are so upset is because it's a violation of trust and respect and you hurt some of them. And just faking suicide is just really rude and awful. One of your friends changed their screen name and changed their signature over it. Some more closer to the subject of suicide won't forgive you and they're not going to "get over it" because they found it incredibly insulting and disrespectful, and there's nothing you can do about.
What you need to do is lay low in till the issue is over with, things will get better, but it's not going to happen in a span of a couple hours. This kinda of backlash was inevitable. You just need to build peoples trust and respect again and it's going to take time, but you'll get through it
And no, everyone who has pulled the fake suicide has been met with harsher backlash than you, I guarantee it.
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Post by ʀᴀɪɴʟᴇᴀғ 🍁 on Oct 13, 2016 23:24:19 GMT -5
Sour, I'm saying this in a respectful manner. Many, including myself, have a reason to still be angry over it. People who do attempt suicide and show obvious signs of a possible attmept are ignored because of people doing things like Bracken did. People automatically assume it's for attention and the entire story is shady and doesn't add up. I have personally been bullied for my attempt because people thought I was doing it for attention. What Bracken did just makes things worse for those who need help and end up being successful in their attempts because they're just assumed to be doing it for attention. I have a right to be angry. People who are still angry have a right to and do not need to drop it. Didn't Salt say it was their roommates? How many times must we tell you that we all know that's a lie? If she feels some kind of guilt for it, that just shows she had a part to play in it. How dare you.
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Post by Sour Candy on Oct 13, 2016 23:25:44 GMT -5
Sour Candy - I don't like you at all, but understand that when I'm calling Salt out for lying to her friends, I'm talking about you. I'm literally sticking up for you. I get that we're all a little blind about the people we care about, but come on. Is this not suspicious to you? Anyway, this is my last post on the matter. Salt, you're being blatantly transparent in your lies, and you better own up to it before you alienate this entire website. Everyone else, enjoy the rest of your night. "Sticking up for you" my rear end. No, I don't find it suspicious. Now drop the damn subject
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Post by Basement Cat on Oct 13, 2016 23:26:09 GMT -5
@ fredbear. It was sarcasm. Basement. I get it. I know I did. There are some people who've done the same thing and been forgiven easily, though. I'm trying to get this to heal but people can't drop then topic! I am aware of this issue. It honestly might he best to message the moderators about this. It is unfair, but your topics are going to be controversial for a while. That is just the nature of what has happened. Try communicating with the moderators to try and cut back the discourse. Because it is going to be brought up. As I stated, it just is going to take time. Just keep being positive, and learn from this. That way you don't have to experience this backlash again. Take from me, a person who overnight had to start back from square one. It sucks, and it is unfair, but it is COMPLETELY possible to get back to where you once were.
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Post by Sour Candy on Oct 13, 2016 23:26:17 GMT -5
Didn't Salt say it was their roommates? How many times must we tell you that we all know that's a lie? If she feels some kind of guilt for it, that just shows she had a part to play in it. How dare you. What's so hard to believe about it, hmm?
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Post by Deleted on Oct 13, 2016 23:26:55 GMT -5
How many times must we tell you that we all know that's a lie? If she feels some kind of guilt for it, that just shows she had a part to play in it. How dare you. What's so hard to believe about it, hmm? lmao yikes bro
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Post by Deleted on Oct 13, 2016 23:27:30 GMT -5
Sour Candy - I don't like you at all, but understand that when I'm calling Salt out for lying to her friends, I'm talking about you. I'm literally sticking up for you. I get that we're all a little blind about the people we care about, but come on. Is this not suspicious to you? Anyway, this is my last post on the matter. Salt, you're being blatantly transparent in your lies, and you better own up to it before you alienate this entire website. Everyone else, enjoy the rest of your night. "Sticking up for you" my rear end. No, I don't find it suspicious. Now drop the damn subject I actually do feel bad for you? I know what's it's like to have someone use suicide to guilt and manipulate me, lmao. I'm not going to pretend to like you, but I don't want to see anyone blindly padding after someone who uses their mental health situation to lie to and manipulate people.
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Post by ʀᴀɪɴʟᴇᴀғ 🍁 on Oct 13, 2016 23:27:45 GMT -5
How many times must we tell you that we all know that's a lie? If she feels some kind of guilt for it, that just shows she had a part to play in it. How dare you. What's so hard to believe about it, hmm? are you freaking deaf?
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Post by Deleted on Oct 13, 2016 23:29:28 GMT -5
I'm locking this thread for obvious reasons
People are still sour and sore and making an opinion thread reopened fresh wounds. If I were you, I'd lay low and let things simmer down.
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