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Post by Ginz on Oct 13, 2016 22:44:03 GMT -5
And after what happened, I dislike you. From someone who has dealt with an ordeal similar and still have conflicting thoughts, it was quite disrespectful and I hope you feel remorse for it. ^ this
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Post by Deleted on Oct 13, 2016 22:45:40 GMT -5
Also, just as an aside, its not impossible to have fancy coding while also being completely readable for mobile users. Christas layout is perfectly fine and not confusing or irritating at all. Your smear is just annoying for us and btw december wasnt the only person to complain. All we are asking is for u to have a layout that doesnt take extra effort for us to read
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Post by Salt on Oct 13, 2016 22:46:05 GMT -5
[smear:19e625]OOC~ I do feel remorse for what I did. And I get my layout is annoying and I'm just beginning to learn BBCode so it may take a bit before I can change to a different layout. [/smear:e619bd]IC~ ʀᴀɪɴʟᴇᴀғ 🍁
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Post by Deleted on Oct 13, 2016 22:48:27 GMT -5
Yeah, I was gonna say, I'm not anti-layout? Some of them look fine. @christa and sɪʟᴠᴇʀᴏᴡʟ ☾ both have formatted posts that are tasteful and look good on mobile, for example. Also, if you feel remorse, a formal apology to everyone would be nice? I don't even mean that in a shady way. I just mean that you upset people, and you need to do more than just vaguely admit remorse on an unrelated thread.
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Post by Sand 🎃 on Oct 13, 2016 22:49:10 GMT -5
It should be easy to change your layout.
I'll be keeping an eye on this to see if it explodes.
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Post by Deleted on Oct 13, 2016 22:49:49 GMT -5
If you just don't use any extra BBCode and just type words in everyone can read your posts fine.
Also what you did was obviously wrong but I think you're having a hard time right now so you have my support whenever you need it. Doesn't justify it, but holding grudges and not forgiving eventually just hurts.
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Post by Salt on Oct 13, 2016 22:56:07 GMT -5
December, I have already apologised several times and several people have gotten over it. Those who haven't just need to. I'm trying so hard not to lose control and stay calm. Holly, Batman, thank you. Holly Snow @batman @december
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Post by ʀᴀɪɴʟᴇᴀғ 🍁 on Oct 13, 2016 22:56:50 GMT -5
I find something like this fine. I tried to make the font size neat, but big enough to where people don't have to strain. You don't need to be an expert, you can ask someone to help or make a request. If more than two people complain, it's best to change it as some may feel the same. If I remember correctly, it just takes two people who have gotten food poisoning from a restaurant with the same ingredient to cause an uproar. You can apply that with coding because people are prone to headaches and migraines (like me) and sometimes small text and bright colors trigger that.
Eh, I'm not trying to be mean, but how your posts come across seem to be otherwise. You're being more defensive than I think someone should be when they know they've done wrong. I mean, if you're sensitive, okay, I am as well, but still. I can understand that you may feel like you're under attack, but showing and not just telling may be better.
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Post by Sour Candy on Oct 13, 2016 23:03:56 GMT -5
I'm here for ya salt
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Post by Deleted on Oct 13, 2016 23:04:50 GMT -5
Did you stop playing the roommates card, finally? Or are we still on that?
I'm really trying not to be mean, because I know you have a lot of mental health problems, and, having been there, I feel for you. I just don't think that means you get to do things with zero consequences, and your complex about how hard the whole thing's been on you is kind of frustrating. You lied; people are angry, and they have a right to be.
I do hope you get the help you need, though - and not in a condescending way, but in a genuine one. I certainly wouldn't wish struggles with mental illness on anyone.
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Post by Auransky on Oct 13, 2016 23:06:39 GMT -5
Hey! So, despite recent events I'm going to just let you know that things are going to be a little rough. This was something that was taken deeper then intended to the community. However; keep yourself going Salt, press on and look forward towards tomorrow rather then dragging yourself down. Focus on new things you can do, and how you as an individual can make your day better or other people's days better. It will be tough; it will trust me, and you are seeing it first hand. These things take time; and if you stay true to your word you will gain that trust which you had, again. But you need to be patient, calm, and await for that moment to grow again. Until then do what you do best; converse with people. If people want to converse with you engage with them. If people don't, then continue until you find a group. It'll be a small group, but over time I'm certain that things will grow big again, and that broken trust can and will mend itself. You just need to look forward, not back and remind yourself that the actions yesterday; can and will be averted should a situation repeat itself.
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Post by Deleted on Oct 13, 2016 23:07:15 GMT -5
Wait really? 'Get over it'? Are u kidding
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Post by Sour Candy on Oct 13, 2016 23:09:21 GMT -5
Wait really? 'Get over it'? Are u kidding Drop it -_-
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Post by ʀᴀɪɴʟᴇᴀғ 🍁 on Oct 13, 2016 23:10:05 GMT -5
I can understand being stressed andeverything, but I don't think anyone is trying to beat you down. This will probably sound mean to you, but there's no need to get so defensive about a post thing.
As for the fake suicide thing, you will get crap for it for a while. I still get crap for things I've done ages ago. (Nothing like that, though.) If you really feel that way, you need to get help. Sitting around and just trying to sort it out won't do a thing and if people are willing to help you, you have more power to get better. Some people can't ask for help out of fear or financial reasons. Suicidal thoughts aren't something to be faked or something to be ignored, either.
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Post by Deleted on Oct 13, 2016 23:11:16 GMT -5
Wait really? 'Get over it'? Are u kidding Drop it -_- no, and u need to stop. im not being aggressive.
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Post by Ginz on Oct 13, 2016 23:11:18 GMT -5
The roommates are the cause. I left my phone on when I left to take a walk amd they did that. I get it. But I posted a post wishing everyone a good day the other day and everyone's like, "Tell the truth"! I've tried therapy and everything. Nothing is helping. We just want the truth. Why would roommates care about a stupid coding? IPs can't be broken, too.
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Post by poppy. on Oct 13, 2016 23:11:39 GMT -5
Everyone please cool off. If this topic is aggravating you I would suggest that you perhaps remove yourself from the situation. Regardless of the events that happened, we should not be bringing it up again. If there are issues you perhaps have with Salt, you might want to message privately in a civil manner to address things. However, we should not argue about it here and exacerbate the situation into a large fight. Please do remain polite.
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Post by ʀᴀɪɴʟᴇᴀғ 🍁 on Oct 13, 2016 23:12:40 GMT -5
The roommates are the cause. I left my phone on when I left to take a walk amd they did that. I get it. But I posted a post wishing everyone a good day the other day and everyone's like, "Tell the truth"! I've tried therapy and everything. Nothing is helping. This is why a lot think you aren't remorseful. The roommates thing is an obvious lie. If you can't be honest with yourself, then you can't be honest to those you have hurt.
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Post by Sour Candy on Oct 13, 2016 23:13:13 GMT -5
no, and u need to stop. im not being aggressive. I'm not saying you're aggressive I'm saying you need to drop it
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Post by ʀᴀɪɴʟᴇᴀғ 🍁 on Oct 13, 2016 23:14:01 GMT -5
Here's the catch, Rain. I wasn't lying. I really did feel suicidal. I actually have a post on the drafts that's based around my depression. A "Would the forums be better off without me?" thread. I didn't say you were lying about the thoughts, however lying about the suicide attempt is another thing.
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Post by Salt on Oct 13, 2016 23:14:18 GMT -5
The roommates are the cause. I left my phone on when I left to take a walk amd they did that. I get it. But I posted a post wishing everyone a good day the other day and everyone's like, "Tell the truth"! I've tried therapy and everything. Nothing is helping. We just want the truth. Why would roommates care about a stupid coding? IPs can't be broken, too. We like to mess with eachothers stuff. I know IPs can't be broken, they're stupid. My roommates are stupid life ruiners.
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Post by Ginz on Oct 13, 2016 23:15:31 GMT -5
We just want the truth. Why would roommates care about a stupid coding? IPs can't be broken, too. We like to mess with eachothers stuff. I know IPs can't be broken, they're stupid. My roommates are stupid life ruiners. You blamed the broken IP??????
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Post by Sand 🎃 on Oct 13, 2016 23:15:43 GMT -5
Let's not bring it up again, please. We've gone over it, we don't know the truth or not and asking for it is clearly not going to work here.
I know we're still upset (as I am a bit myself), but pressuring Salt for actions won't work.
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Post by Basement Cat on Oct 13, 2016 23:16:04 GMT -5
Here is the truth. The ugly, unapologetic truth.
You screwed up. Bad. And there isn't much we can do to fix it. You can't rely on other people to defend you, or make excuses. YOU have to dig yourself out of this.
You lied. You played with emotions, and hit a very sensitive topic. People are not going to forgive you easily. People are not going to trust you easily. And yes, this sucks, a lot. But there isn't much to be done about it. You are going to have to make a conscious choice to fix this yourself. And I am aware you can't fix everything yourself. The situation just sucks. Your best bet is time and patience. This problem is going to take time for things to heal.
To those egging this issue on. Stop being fools. That isn't helping, at all. You have every right to be distrustful and upset. But do you honestly think continuing on about it is going to help? It isn't. Be mature, and control what you say. Because you could very easily make everything, all the progress, spiral backwards.
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Post by ✲ριкαƒυєу✲ on Oct 13, 2016 23:16:48 GMT -5
What happened was indeed an awful thing, and a lot of people were hurt/upset about it. People make mistakes, including yourself. We all do things we regret doing at some point. I don't condone your actions, but I also understand that you may have had your reasons--even if they weren't the best decisions. Needless to say, I don't think you're an awful person. I think you struggle from your own issues, and I can relate to that much at least.
It will take time for people to trust you again. That is a given when it is broken, and people are hurt. But it won't last forever, people will move on eventually. Consider this a learning experience, and try to gain understanding of what this has effects on others.
While it may not have been your intention, it is very harmful/offensive to many people--especially those who truly care for you. I wish you the best, and truly hope you get the help you need.
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