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Post by Cheyenne on Oct 13, 2016 14:07:40 GMT -5
I told one person as a joke that he was gay, just to get the ships to stop, but then on the bus I heard people talking about it. I told her to stop spreading rumors but she insisted that he was gay and called him a terrible name. I also told one of the nicer girls to stop and she said that she doesn't really talk about it. I have a question. Do rumors like these spread out to everyone? The girls weren't the "populars" but their group is pretty big. I feel like he's going to hate me, and I'm seriously going to cry right now because I don't want everyone to talk about him behind his back.
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Post by Deleted on Oct 13, 2016 14:12:03 GMT -5
I'm so confused...what???? Not Lukas again..ugh
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Post by Cheyenne on Oct 13, 2016 14:20:02 GMT -5
I'm so confused...what???? Not Lukas again..ugh It's true. And it's serious. Monique asked me if I liked him, I said no, she asked me if he liked me and I said no. Then, she asked me if he was gay, and I just said that I didn't know. She was like, "he must be gay if he hangs out with girls." And she called him really nasty names.
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Post by Deleted on Oct 13, 2016 14:23:30 GMT -5
I'm so confused...what???? Not Lukas again..ugh It's true. And it's serious. Monique asked me if I liked him, I said no, she asked me if he liked me and I said no. Then, she asked me if he was gay, and I just said that I didn't know. She was like, "he must be gay if he hangs out with girls." And she called him really nasty names. Silver, that's why you don't hang around Monique! She tied me up with my own scarf! And is a nasty bully herself. You've gotta report this to the teacher, tell your mom.
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Post by Cheyenne on Oct 13, 2016 14:27:35 GMT -5
It's true. And it's serious. Monique asked me if I liked him, I said no, she asked me if he liked me and I said no. Then, she asked me if he was gay, and I just said that I didn't know. She was like, "he must be gay if he hangs out with girls." And she called him really nasty names. Silver, that's why you don't hang around Monique! She tied me up with my own scarf! And is a nasty bully herself. You've gotta report this to the teacher, tell your mom. You don't understand. I can't. That's one of the things I shouldn't do in middle school. I just really hope this blows over. Most of the rumors at school only last for a week or so anyway. I don't know though, this one could be different. Maybe I should just stay away from him since I'm such a screw up.
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Post by Deleted on Oct 13, 2016 14:30:28 GMT -5
Silver, that's why you don't hang around Monique! She tied me up with my own scarf! And is a nasty bully herself. You've gotta report this to the teacher, tell your mom. You don't understand. I can't. That's one of the things I shouldn't do in middle school. I just really hope this blows over. Most of the rumors at school only last for a week or so anyway. I don't know though, this one could be different. Maybe I should just stay away from him since I'm such a screw up. *narrows eyes and shakes head* If you're worried you'll get called a tattletale, than thats silly. Remember courage, things we may feel afraid of doing, but it's the right choice. And you are not a screw-up. He's the screw-up
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Post by Cheyenne on Oct 13, 2016 14:33:01 GMT -5
You don't understand. I can't. That's one of the things I shouldn't do in middle school. I just really hope this blows over. Most of the rumors at school only last for a week or so anyway. I don't know though, this one could be different. Maybe I should just stay away from him since I'm such a screw up. *narrows eyes and shakes head* If you're worried you'll get called a tattletale, than thats silly. Remember courage, things we may feel afraid of doing, but it's the right choice. And you are not a screw-up. He's the screw-upEveryone is afraid of her though. Should I tell him the truth? After I joked about it in front of him? please give me advice that won't get me killed
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Post by Deleted on Oct 13, 2016 14:36:51 GMT -5
*narrows eyes and shakes head* If you're worried you'll get called a tattletale, than thats silly. Remember courage, things we may feel afraid of doing, but it's the right choice. And you are not a screw-up. He's the screw-upEveryone is afraid of her though. Should I tell him the truth? After I joked about it in front of him? please give me advice that won't get me killed Friendships are based around trust. If you can't bring yourself to be honest with him, then you're relationship won't last. He'll respect you for confronting him and admitting your mistake. It's better than feeling bad around him for lying/keeping secrets. And tell him to truth, your intent, and apologize.
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Post by Deleted on Oct 13, 2016 14:42:50 GMT -5
it seems like you're contradicting yourself tbh. I'm not sure why you would even joke about that.
but yeah, you should probably tell him you started the rumor.
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Post by Cheyenne on Oct 13, 2016 14:43:27 GMT -5
Everyone is afraid of her though. Should I tell him the truth? After I joked about it in front of him? please give me advice that won't get me killed Friendships are based around trust. If you can't bring yourself to be honest with him, then you're relationship won't last. He'll respect you for confronting him and admitting your mistake. It's better than feeling bad around him for lying/keeping secrets. And tell him to truth, your intent, and apologize. It's gonna be hard, but if this gets out of hand, then I have to. If no one cares, then I guess it's fine.
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Post by Cheyenne on Oct 13, 2016 14:45:50 GMT -5
it seems like you're contradicting yourself tbh. I'm not sure why you would even joke about that.
but yeah, you should probably tell him you started the rumor.
By contradicting you mean...? :/
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Post by Deleted on Oct 13, 2016 14:49:47 GMT -5
Friendships are based around trust. If you can't bring yourself to be honest with him, then you're relationship won't last. He'll respect you for confronting him and admitting your mistake. It's better than feeling bad around him for lying/keeping secrets. And tell him to truth, your intent, and apologize. It's gonna be hard, but if this gets out of hand, then I have to. If no one cares, then I guess it's fine. No, you've gotta tell him. From what I see, you're not entirely honest with Lukas. About your feelings mainly, but this goes into it to. If you really and I mean really want this boy as your boyfriend, you've gotta be honest. Admit it to him, whether it's out of hand of not.
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Post by Cheyenne on Oct 13, 2016 14:52:32 GMT -5
It's gonna be hard, but if this gets out of hand, then I have to. If no one cares, then I guess it's fine. No, you've gotta tell him. From what I see, you're not entirely honest with Lukas. About your feelings mainly, but this goes into it to. If you really and I mean really want this boy as your boyfriend, you've gotta be honest. Admit it to him, whether it's out of hand of not. Maybe, but as for the boyfriend part, I think I'm over him.
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Post by Deleted on Oct 13, 2016 14:52:43 GMT -5
it seems like you're contradicting yourself tbh. I'm not sure why you would even joke about that.
but yeah, you should probably tell him you started the rumor.
By contradicting you mean...? :/ in your first post, it sounds like you straight up said that he was gay, but in your second post, you said "i don't know" in reply to the question. idk.
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Post by Deleted on Oct 13, 2016 14:57:14 GMT -5
No, you've gotta tell him. From what I see, you're not entirely honest with Lukas. About your feelings mainly, but this goes into it to. If you really and I mean really want this boy as your boyfriend, you've gotta be honest. Admit it to him, whether it's out of hand of not. Maybe, but as for the boyfriend part, I think I'm over him. Yup, and I was over Elias in one week.
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