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Post by Sour Candy on Oct 11, 2016 20:51:59 GMT -5
So I mentioned a while back I was having problems with my gender identity, and I was talking to my cousin about it earlier. I was explaining how some days I felt like a guy while on other days I'd feel like a girl for some reason, and he said that it sounds like I'm genderfluid. So I looked into it and I guess it seems to feel right??? Idk I might have to think on it more
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Post by ssquiffy on Oct 11, 2016 20:57:32 GMT -5
its good to hear youre figuring things out! your cousin sounds like a cool and supportive dude from the 2 times ive seen you mention him. kudos to him too.
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Post by Bramblestar on Oct 11, 2016 20:58:53 GMT -5
You might feel like a girl because you're visiting these forums.
I have been called gay for liking warriors
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Post by Deleted on Oct 11, 2016 21:02:10 GMT -5
You might feel like a girl because you're visiting these forums. I have been called gay for liking warriors
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#add8e6
Name Colour
*Ravenpaw*
Warrior Fanatic
*reads books in a corner*
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Post by *Ravenpaw* on Oct 11, 2016 21:04:07 GMT -5
You might feel like a girl because you're visiting these forums. I have been called gay for liking warriors
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Post by Sour Candy on Oct 11, 2016 21:07:19 GMT -5
You might feel like a girl because you're visiting these forums. I have been called gay for liking warriorsWell I've felt like this even before the forums :/
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Post by Bramblestar on Oct 11, 2016 21:07:25 GMT -5
You might feel like a girl because you're visiting these forums. I have been called gay for liking warriorsYou don't know why? lol
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Post by 🍁Searipple101🍁 on Oct 11, 2016 21:09:57 GMT -5
I'm glad you're figuring things out, but I have a legit question. Nothing against anyone, but I'm really curious how you can feel like a guy some days and a girl the others? I honestly don't understand, like what makes someone feel like a guy and what makes someone feel like a girl? Honestly not trying to offend my one, just curious.
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Post by Sour Candy on Oct 11, 2016 21:10:34 GMT -5
I'm glad you're figuring things out, but I have a legit question. Nothing against anyone, but I'm really curious how you can feel like a guy some days and a girl the others? I honestly don't understand, like what makes someone feel like a guy and what makes someone feel like a girl? Honestly not trying to offend my one, just curious. I'd explain but I honestly have no idea how >.>
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Post by Deleted on Oct 11, 2016 21:11:02 GMT -5
You might feel like a girl because you're visiting these forums. I have been called gay for liking warriorsThat's fun. I've been called gay for actually being gay, and I've gotten actual crap for it, but I'm sure it's very difficult for you to be incorrectly compared to a gay person. How offensive, right? Unlike this nasty little comment, which is the picture of angelic kindness and understanding. Anyway, Sour Candy, I know we don't get along, but I actually am glad you're figuring yourself out. I hope it all works out for you.
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Post by Bramblestar on Oct 11, 2016 21:19:30 GMT -5
You might feel like a girl because you're visiting these forums. I have been called gay for liking warriorsThat's fun. I've been called gay for actually being gay, and I've gotten actual crap for it, but I'm sure it's very difficult for you to be incorrectly compared to a gay person. How offensive, right? Unlike this nasty little comment, which is the picture of angelic kindness and understanding. Anyway, Sour Candy, I know we don't get along, but I actually am glad you're figuring yourself out. I hope it all works out for you. Sarcastic saltiness is confusing.
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Post by Ginz on Oct 11, 2016 21:21:51 GMT -5
You might feel like a girl because you're visiting these forums. I have been called gay for liking warriorsAh, yes, because gender is related to things you enjoy. I forgot about that. I'll be cis now (:
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Post by Sour Candy on Oct 11, 2016 21:23:27 GMT -5
That's fun. I've been called gay for actually being gay, and I've gotten actual crap for it, but I'm sure it's very difficult for you to be incorrectly compared to a gay person. How offensive, right? Unlike this nasty little comment, which is the picture of angelic kindness and understanding. Anyway, Sour Candy, I know we don't get along, but I actually am glad you're figuring yourself out. I hope it all works out for you. Sarcastic saltiness is confusing. Now might be a good time to leave the thread before you make things get out of hand...
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Post by Deleted on Oct 11, 2016 21:24:09 GMT -5
That's fun. I've been called gay for actually being gay, and I've gotten actual crap for it, but I'm sure it's very difficult for you to be incorrectly compared to a gay person. How offensive, right? Unlike this nasty little comment, which is the picture of angelic kindness and understanding. Anyway, Sour Candy, I know we don't get along, but I actually am glad you're figuring yourself out. I hope it all works out for you. Sarcastic saltiness is confusing. You want a translation? I think you're being obnoxious and ignorant as hell right now, and you need to stop.
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Post by Ginz on Oct 11, 2016 21:24:11 GMT -5
anyway, it's good you're figuring yourself out
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Post by Bramblestar on Oct 11, 2016 21:26:35 GMT -5
You might feel like a girl because you're visiting these forums. I have been called gay for liking warriorsWell I've felt like this even before the forums :/ There are tomboys and people don't think they're off but, if you're a guy and you show the slightest sign of being effeminate some people will call you gay (this is just from my own experience, for all I know, girls might get the same treatment). Is it an attraction thing or just an interest thing? That's usually the determiner.
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Post by Bramblestar on Oct 11, 2016 21:30:33 GMT -5
Sarcastic saltiness is confusing. You want a translation? I think you're being obnoxious and ignorant as hell right now, and you need to stop. Translation, please
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Post by Deleted on Oct 11, 2016 21:31:57 GMT -5
im the king of gender, and if you're in any need of assistance in that field, feel free to ask me!
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Post by Deleted on Oct 11, 2016 21:33:11 GMT -5
Fun fact: did you know you don't have to psychoanalyze people when they come out? Like. You don't actually have to do that. Wild.
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Post by Aku on Oct 11, 2016 21:34:02 GMT -5
Congratulations! I wish you the best of luck in figuring things out a bit more and hope your friends and family will be supportive in every way for you!
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Post by Deleted on Oct 11, 2016 21:34:24 GMT -5
I'm glad you're figuring things out, but I have a legit question. Nothing against anyone, but I'm really curious how you can feel like a guy some days and a girl the others? I honestly don't understand, like what makes someone feel like a guy and what makes someone feel like a girl? Honestly not trying to offend my one, just curious. im not even sure if its possible for gender to be put into words. its just something you feel, and ts indescribable. you can be a feminine boy or a masculine girl. gender doesnt have to do with what you like or what your parts are, its just who you are. im sorry if i made you more confused, haha
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Post by Bramblestar on Oct 11, 2016 21:35:26 GMT -5
Fun fact: did you know you don't have to psychoanalyze people when they come out? Like. You don't actually have to do that. Wild. Fun fact: Threads are posted so people can comment on the topic. I thought everyone knew that by now.
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Post by Deleted on Oct 11, 2016 21:35:58 GMT -5
Fun fact: did you know you don't have to psychoanalyze people when they come out? Like. You don't actually have to do that. Wild. Fun fact: Threads are posted so people can comment on the topic. I thought everyone knew that by now. Me, commenting on this thread: no, I've never heard of that before.
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Post by Deleted on Oct 11, 2016 21:37:22 GMT -5
yo, i'm glad you're figuring things out my dude. remember that there's no rush to figure out who u are. take as much time as u need
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Rainbow
kiddo
furry and fabulous
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Post by kiddo on Oct 11, 2016 21:37:57 GMT -5
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Bramblestar- they feel one or the other the same way i feel both, and the same way you feel one. if you have questions, you can always message a person who is okay with talking about their gender. my inbox is open as well.
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Post by Sour Candy on Oct 11, 2016 21:38:46 GMT -5
Thanks to most people on this thread for supporting me ^_^
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Post by Bramblestar on Oct 11, 2016 21:38:51 GMT -5
Fun fact: Threads are posted so people can comment on the topic. I thought everyone knew that by now. Me, commenting on this thread: no, I've never heard of that before. You decided to call me offensive, obnoxious, and ignorant all because I said someone called me gay? What's going through your mind?
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Post by Deleted on Oct 11, 2016 21:43:49 GMT -5
Me, commenting on this thread: no, I've never heard of that before. You decided to call me offensive, obnoxious, and ignorant all because I said someone called me gay? What's going through your mind? I called you that for implying somebody could ~become genderfluid~ through liking a dumb cat series or something, oh my God. Now that you mention it, though, that gay thing was tacky, so maybe chill on it. Edit: if you want an actual explanation, though, treating gay as an insult is pretty rude, because for a lot of people, gay is just their identity.
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Post by Deleted on Oct 11, 2016 21:44:16 GMT -5
Me, commenting on this thread: no, I've never heard of that before. You decided to call me offensive, obnoxious, and ignorant all because I said someone called me gay? What's going through your mind? I think the point is that your comment was unecessary and kind if came iff as ignorant saying sour felt this way because they are on the wcf, which people called you gay for, despite there being no similarity in sexuality and gender identity. The comment made it seem like you were trying to make it about you instead of Sour which is kind of rude. anyways im glad ur figuring things out m'dude
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