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Post by πβππ π£π on Oct 10, 2016 12:40:30 GMT -5
your problems are so much smaller than others and you probably don't even have a right to complain, however these problems are still big for you and you really need someone to talk to, but like...you can just see the other person rolling their eyes at your mediocre problems that you shouldn't even complain about because they really aren't that big of a deal to anyone but you?
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Post by Deleted on Oct 10, 2016 12:43:29 GMT -5
Okay I was really expecting you to say "like a plastic bag"
But, like, yes. This past year 88% of my problems have been this kind of petty thing you're explaining and it's sucky. Though, it's really wrong for someone to try to minimize your problems compared to another person's because if you're upset about it it's valid.
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Post by Deleted on Oct 10, 2016 12:44:59 GMT -5
you've got to take care of yourself. sure, others have some pretty big problems but, in the end, you're the only one living your life. live it to your best and try your damnedest to make it worth your while.
acknowledge others issues but don't feel as though you need to sweep yours under the rug. it's going to get you nowhere.
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Post by πβππ π£π on Oct 10, 2016 12:45:06 GMT -5
Okay I was really expecting you to say "like a plastic bag" But, like, yes. This past year 88% of my problems have been this kind of petty thing you're explaining and it's sucky. Though, it's really wrong for someone to try to minimize your problems compared to another person's because if you're upset about it it's valid. Drifting in the wind.I don't really know if I would consider my problems petty, though I guess they could be, I just don't feel like my problems really matter I guess, because they seem small compared to others. You feel?
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Post by πβππ π£π on Oct 10, 2016 12:46:40 GMT -5
you've got to take care of yourself. sure, others have some pretty big problems but, in the end, you're the only one living your life. live it to your best and try your damnedest to make it worth your while.
acknowledge others issues but don't feel as though you need to sweep yours under the rug. it's going to get you nowhere. That's good advice actually, I just don't really think my problems are even really considered problems and if anything solving mine might just make it worse for others and I don't really want that.
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Post by LΓ³rien on Oct 10, 2016 12:49:32 GMT -5
Honestly, this is how I feel all the time.
I mean, I get so worked up over these problems that others just push aside. I always feel guilty for feeling down in the dumps and freaking out, because tons of people have it wayyyyyyyyyyyy worse then me. But then I just feel even worse because I feel guilty, and it starts all over again.
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Post by Deleted on Oct 10, 2016 12:50:32 GMT -5
you've got to take care of yourself. sure, others have some pretty big problems but, in the end, you're the only one living your life. live it to your best and try your damnedest to make it worth your while.
acknowledge others issues but don't feel as though you need to sweep yours under the rug. it's going to get you nowhere. That's good advice actually, I just don't really think my problems are even really considered problems and if anything solving mine might just make it worse for others and I don't really want that. is there any middle ground you can reach where everyone benefits? it's a hard decision when you've got both your own happiness and another's on the line. i'm sorry you feel this way.
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Post by πβππ π£π on Oct 10, 2016 13:05:06 GMT -5
Honestly, this is how I feel all the time. I mean, I get so worked up over these problems that others just push aside. I always feel guilty for feeling down in the dumps and freaking out, because tons of people have it wayyyyyyyyyyyy worse then me. But then I just feel even worse because I feel guilty, and it starts all over again. Yeah that's basically me too.
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Post by πβππ π£π on Oct 10, 2016 13:05:42 GMT -5
That's good advice actually, I just don't really think my problems are even really considered problems and if anything solving mine might just make it worse for others and I don't really want that. is there any middle ground you can reach where everyone benefits? it's a hard decision when you've got both your own happiness and another's on the line. i'm sorry you feel this way.I've actually found a middle ground however I just don't really think anyone else would be up for it.
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Post by ssquiffy on Oct 10, 2016 13:15:33 GMT -5
honestly? all the time. i have all these things i feel bad about and want to talk about and then i look at my friends and realize my life is great. no one in my family is dead. i'm not being abused. i live in a nice neighborhood. my friends tell me "oh, you're so lucky" or "oh, you're parents are so nice" and i feel selfish for wanting to complain at all. but, you know what? there's nothing wrong with feeling bad about something. sure, maybe someone else has it worse, but that doesn't mean your problems don't exist. sometimes, you have to focus on yourself rather than the bigger picture. if someone rolls their eyes at your "mediocre" problem then you should probably find someone else to tell.
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Post by The Noble Dragon on Oct 10, 2016 13:24:44 GMT -5
Everyone experiences the same thing in different ways. Just because someone "might have it worse" doesn't mean that your problems aren't valid. If you need to talk about your problems then talk about them. Just because somebody doesn't think they are that bad doesn't mean they aren't. Your feelings and problems are valid just as their are. It isn't a contest.
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Post by πππ'π'ππππ on Oct 10, 2016 13:40:00 GMT -5
i Feel this emotionally
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