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Post by Haleigh on Oct 5, 2016 20:56:30 GMT -5
Okaaay... So, my friends have been giving me mixed ideas... Some of them day I should confess, because being friends, getting together (which probably won't even happen, btw), and then if something happens, breaking up, is the most awkward thing ever. But I don't know him all that well? So I think I should wait? I don't want him to be creeped out? Also I'm like the most shy person? Help.
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Post by Deleted on Oct 5, 2016 21:01:55 GMT -5
be nonchalant and ask him on a lowkey date. like invite him to see a movie with you or something. it'd give you a chance to talk to him more.
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Post by Haleigh on Oct 5, 2016 21:11:58 GMT -5
be nonchalant and ask him on a lowkey date. like invite him to see a movie with you or something. it'd give you a chance to talk to him more. I caAn't I have never done the date thing. I can't drive, I don't know exactly where he lives, I am scare
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Post by Cheyenne on Oct 5, 2016 21:17:26 GMT -5
Okaaay... So, my friends have been giving me mixed ideas... Some of them day I should confess, because being friends, getting together (which probably won't even happen, btw), and then if something happens, breaking up, is the most awkward thing ever. But I don't know him all that well? So I think I should wait? I don't want him to be creeped out? Also I'm like the most shy person? Help. Take it from me, don't confess unless your 100% sure they like you back...I was rejected today so I'd know....
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Post by Haleigh on Oct 5, 2016 21:25:38 GMT -5
Okaaay... So, my friends have been giving me mixed ideas... Some of them day I should confess, because being friends, getting together (which probably won't even happen, btw), and then if something happens, breaking up, is the most awkward thing ever. But I don't know him all that well? So I think I should wait? I don't want him to be creeped out? Also I'm like the most shy person? Help. Take it from me, don't confess unless your 100% sure they like you back...I was rejected today so I'd know.... Ah yes I read your post...hope you feel better soon friend. I remember after I posted this, thinking, well that seems a bit inappropriate now
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Post by Deleted on Oct 5, 2016 21:36:54 GMT -5
Make sure you really know someone before you try to ask them out. I had a HUGE crush on this girl I know and I'm so glad I decided to never tell her what I felt because now that she's comfortable with me she's hardly the same person at all. Even being friends with her is very hard. You don't want to creep him out and you don't want to get stuck in something you will regret later. Just,,,, hold off for a good six months.
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Post by Deleted on Oct 5, 2016 21:40:21 GMT -5
i don't think it should be serious until you know each other. you can mention you're interested in him/getting to know him, but don't like Seriously Date until you're closer. casual stuff only
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Post by Cheyenne on Oct 6, 2016 13:36:55 GMT -5
Take it from me, don't confess unless your 100% sure they like you back...I was rejected today so I'd know.... Ah yes I read your post...hope you feel better soon friend. I remember after I posted this, thinking, well that seems a bit inappropriate now I didn't mean to discourage you...
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Post by neb on Oct 6, 2016 19:33:43 GMT -5
what i would do (and have done)
is ask them out, (if your comfortable with them) and if they say no, pretend it was a dare from some friends!
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Post by Deleted on Oct 6, 2016 19:47:14 GMT -5
dont tell him if you hardly know him
trust me there's nothing more awkward than being asked out by someone you've only talked to, like, twice.
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