LUNA
'I collect myself that's shattered beneath the moonlight'
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Post by LUNA on Oct 3, 2016 19:03:26 GMT -5
I really need to vent and all my friends have gone to bed, R.I.P me.
The thing is, my sister has one of those relationships where they break up every month or so because of him cheating or doing other illegal {Rather strong} recreational things. Somehow my sister thought it would be a good idea to have children with him. Anyway, a couple of years ago, his mother sent him to rehab and he wasn't allowed to talk to my sister. Around five months ago though, they've gotten back together {And broken up a few times.} Then three days ago, he left her because he got a new girlfriend so my sister decided to upload certain photos and statuses to 'advertise' herself {I don't know how else to word it without being crude.} Tonight my sister called my mum in tears, saying she wanted to give the children up because she 'can't do it alone' {Even though she has done for nearly two years now.} She was also angry due to him refusing to have a goodnight phone call with my niece because he was too busy having a night out with his new girlfriend. Thirty minutes after she called my mum, my sister shared some music video thing on YouTube with photos on him and her with a song he made in the background and they're back together?
Ugh, I honestly don't even know how we're related. Their relationship is so toxic.
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Post by Deleted on Oct 3, 2016 19:07:55 GMT -5
Oh man, that's a sticky situation. I'm really sorry you have to be around that. :\ I hope they get their lives together soon, if not for themselves/each other, then for their children at the very least. ;-;
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LUNA
'I collect myself that's shattered beneath the moonlight'
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Post by LUNA on Oct 3, 2016 19:15:30 GMT -5
Mm, I hate seeing my sister hurt but at the same time, she's terrible too. Whilst she hasn't cheated or done the other stuff, she constantly threatens to get rid of my niece and nephew and things, like blackmail when they break up, it's disgusting. They both need to grow up and act like adults, they're older than me AND have two children. My nephew is a bit younger so it doesn't affect him as much but my niece is two and a half and she gets so upset when one minute she gets to have a phone call with him every night and then suddenly he doesn't want to any more and then suddenly he'll start calling her again, it messes with her poor little head ;-;
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Post by Deleted on Oct 3, 2016 19:17:23 GMT -5
Yeah... that's so sad I hate when kids have to get dragged into stuff that's their parents' responsibility...
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LUNA
'I collect myself that's shattered beneath the moonlight'
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Post by LUNA on Oct 3, 2016 19:20:04 GMT -5
Mhm, it's awful and I can't stand seeing it affect them. It won't be long before it starts affecting my nephew too and the doctors think he might have learning difficulties to some degree so it could affect him even worse.
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Post by Deleted on Oct 3, 2016 19:24:27 GMT -5
Aww :c I really hope they're able to create a more stable environment. I wish I could help in some way.
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LUNA
'I collect myself that's shattered beneath the moonlight'
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Post by LUNA on Oct 3, 2016 19:27:51 GMT -5
Me too, I would have thought they'd both have learned from their childhoods but seemingly not :/ I don't think anybody can say or do anything that will change the situation, they both just need to grow up. I can't say that to my sister though or I'll get abusive statuses written about me haha. She does need to face the truth though.
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LUNA
'I collect myself that's shattered beneath the moonlight'
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Post by LUNA on Oct 3, 2016 20:07:55 GMT -5
Mm, it's ridiculous, isn't it? So many people have relationships like that nowadays and it's making me doubt relationships so much. I'll just end up as a crazy cat lady, might save me some trouble, haha!
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