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*Ravenpaw*
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Post by *Ravenpaw* on Mar 4, 2024 17:10:54 GMT -5
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Post by ☆*:.。. Rain .。.:*☆ on Mar 13, 2024 20:10:23 GMT -5
Anyone got advice? I was just broken up with by the love of my life today, with the explanation of ‘we haven’t talked in a little while, and I’m kinda just losing feelings.’ (Not a direct quote.) I’ve never been broken up with before and I’ve always dumped the other person. I thought I would be with this person forever, guess they didn’t feel the same. It feels like someone died. What do I do.
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Post by brooksie on Mar 14, 2024 2:57:07 GMT -5
Anyone got advice? I was just broken up with by the love of my life today, with the explanation of ‘we haven’t talked in a little while, and I’m kinda just losing feelings.’ (Not a direct quote.) I’ve never been broken up with before and I’ve always dumped the other person. I thought I would be with this person forever, guess they didn’t feel the same. It feels like someone died. What do I do. i was about to take a break from this site but this plight in my thread brought me back poor kid (assuming youre young?), yeah being broken up with sucks. feel the emotions, dont ignore it. its okay to be upset, sad, angry, scared, anything. i know how it feels, grieving the loss of a person whose still alive is strange, but i have been there. its a brutal pain and it seems like it wont go away, and depending on your age, how long you were together, and the nuances of the relationship it could take a while but it will get better. therell be a morning you wake up and it doesnt feel quite as bad. then youll wake up and itll be bad, but then itll be better again. healing is never linear, but it always moves forward hang out with friends, right now theyre your lifeline. without my friends i dont know that i would have made it through some harder periods of my life. talk to people, laugh, and remember there is a life outside of this other person its a new beginning. its not one you wanted or asked for, but one day youll be grateful you got it. i promise. take it from the guy who got dumped from a 5 year relationship 6 months before he wouldve proposed. if im saying it gets better, it gets better people are there for you, it will pass OH! and no contact works, if youre comfortable with it i 100% suggest it. its hard for a month then its second nature. go no contact, and dont stalk socials! not until youre 95% over it at least lmao. checking socials or contacting em is like relapsing its no good you can even get like a sober tracker app, i did that, makes you incentivised to keep the streak
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Post by ☆*:.。. Rain .。.:*☆ on Mar 14, 2024 9:05:45 GMT -5
Anyone got advice? I was just broken up with by the love of my life today, with the explanation of ‘we haven’t talked in a little while, and I’m kinda just losing feelings.’ (Not a direct quote.) I’ve never been broken up with before and I’ve always dumped the other person. I thought I would be with this person forever, guess they didn’t feel the same. It feels like someone died. What do I do. i was about to take a break from this site but this plight in my thread brought me back poor kid (assuming youre young?), yeah being broken up with sucks. feel the emotions, dont ignore it. its okay to be upset, sad, angry, scared, anything. i know how it feels, grieving the loss of a person whose still alive is strange, but i have been there. its a brutal pain and it seems like it wont go away, and depending on your age, how long you were together, and the nuances of the relationship it could take a while but it will get better. therell be a morning you wake up and it doesnt feel quite as bad. then youll wake up and itll be bad, but then itll be better again. healing is never linear, but it always moves forward hang out with friends, right now theyre your lifeline. without my friends i dont know that i would have made it through some harder periods of my life. talk to people, laugh, and remember there is a life outside of this other person its a new beginning. its not one you wanted or asked for, but one day youll be grateful you got it. i promise. take it from the guy who got dumped from a 5 year relationship 6 months before he wouldve proposed. if im saying it gets better, it gets better people are there for you, it will pass OH! and no contact works, if youre comfortable with it i 100% suggest it. its hard for a month then its second nature. go no contact, and dont stalk socials! not until youre 95% over it at least lmao. checking socials or contacting em is like relapsing its no good you can even get like a sober tracker app, i did that, makes you incentivised to keep the streak Thank you, this helps. (Yeah I guess I’m young. High school age.) they said we’d be better off as friends and I’ve never stopped talking to any of my exes (not in a romantic way because that’s immoral.) but this does help. I will try to stay away from them, and it will probably help me.
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Post by brooksie on Mar 14, 2024 17:22:05 GMT -5
i was about to take a break from this site but this plight in my thread brought me back poor kid (assuming youre young?), yeah being broken up with sucks. feel the emotions, dont ignore it. its okay to be upset, sad, angry, scared, anything. i know how it feels, grieving the loss of a person whose still alive is strange, but i have been there. its a brutal pain and it seems like it wont go away, and depending on your age, how long you were together, and the nuances of the relationship it could take a while but it will get better. therell be a morning you wake up and it doesnt feel quite as bad. then youll wake up and itll be bad, but then itll be better again. healing is never linear, but it always moves forward hang out with friends, right now theyre your lifeline. without my friends i dont know that i would have made it through some harder periods of my life. talk to people, laugh, and remember there is a life outside of this other person its a new beginning. its not one you wanted or asked for, but one day youll be grateful you got it. i promise. take it from the guy who got dumped from a 5 year relationship 6 months before he wouldve proposed. if im saying it gets better, it gets better people are there for you, it will pass OH! and no contact works, if youre comfortable with it i 100% suggest it. its hard for a month then its second nature. go no contact, and dont stalk socials! not until youre 95% over it at least lmao. checking socials or contacting em is like relapsing its no good you can even get like a sober tracker app, i did that, makes you incentivised to keep the streak Thank you, this helps. (Yeah I guess I’m young. High school age.) they said we’d be better off as friends and I’ve never stopped talking to any of my exes (not in a romantic way because that’s immoral.) but this does help. I will try to stay away from them, and it will probably help me. you're a sweet kid and seem like you have a good head on your shoulders, i promise you you're gonna be just fine. i say screw em! they always wanna hit you w the "better as friends" like whatever makes you feel better bud but if that works for you hell yeah, do what makes you happiest. but if this person makes you unhappy don't hesitate to cut em off, you owe nothing to anybody, especially someone that doesn't want to be with you even though that hurts. its okay to be selfish - that was a hard lesson for me to learn best of luck, and again i'm really sorry you're going through it. heartbreak ain't fun but if nothing else it builds character
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Post by ☆*:.。. Rain .。.:*☆ on Mar 26, 2024 20:40:53 GMT -5
Update: your advice has helped, I’ve been feeling a bit better and seem to be able to understand my feelings to some degree! I also did some tarot readings and they all want me to get over this person.
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Post by brooksie on Mar 26, 2024 20:43:59 GMT -5
Update: your advice has helped, I’ve been feeling a bit better and seem to be able to understand my feelings to some degree! I also did some tarot readings and they all want me to get over this person. aw im really happy to hear !!! time heals all wounds as they say tarot readings are so fun!! i love pulling out my cards every now and then. im happy for you, keep up the good work thats really great honestly. one day at a time and you're gonna be just fine, listen to the cards
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Post by ☆*:.。. Rain .。.:*☆ on Mar 26, 2024 20:46:00 GMT -5
Update: your advice has helped, I’ve been feeling a bit better and seem to be able to understand my feelings to some degree! I also did some tarot readings and they all want me to get over this person. aw im really happy to hear !!! time heals all wounds as they say tarot readings are so fun!! i love pulling out my cards every now and then. im happy for you, keep up the good work thats really great honestly. one day at a time and you're gonna be just fine, listen to the cards :] the cards also said there will be someone who is perfect for me, but to watch out for the one who seems nice on the outside, and is completely different on the inside.
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Post by brooksie on Mar 26, 2024 20:53:17 GMT -5
aw im really happy to hear !!! time heals all wounds as they say tarot readings are so fun!! i love pulling out my cards every now and then. im happy for you, keep up the good work thats really great honestly. one day at a time and you're gonna be just fine, listen to the cards :] the cards also said there will be someone who is perfect for me, but to watch out for the one who seems nice on the outside, and is completely different on the inside. pretty face aint always a pretty soul your cards are wise indeed. but exactly! all this means is the One is getting closer and closer, so you got something to look forward to
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Post by ☆*:.。. Rain .。.:*☆ on Mar 26, 2024 21:26:53 GMT -5
:] the cards also said there will be someone who is perfect for me, but to watch out for the one who seems nice on the outside, and is completely different on the inside. pretty face aint always a pretty soul your cards are wise indeed. but exactly! all this means is the One is getting closer and closer, so you got something to look forward to :] I guess I do.
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Post by ☆*:.。. Rain .。.:*☆ on Mar 26, 2024 21:27:05 GMT -5
Lmao the title tho
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Post by ☆*:.。. Rain .。.:*☆ on Mar 26, 2024 21:44:04 GMT -5
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Post by ☆*:.。. Rain .。.:*☆ on Apr 7, 2024 15:23:58 GMT -5
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Post by brooksie on Apr 7, 2024 16:36:26 GMT -5
indeed indeed in fact this is my old pfp from 2015. well not exactly, but it was sol back then as well
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Post by brooksie on Apr 7, 2024 16:36:53 GMT -5
the creation of this thread feels like a lifetime ago ive lived like three lives since i swear
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Post by ☆*:.。. Rain .。.:*☆ on Apr 7, 2024 16:38:17 GMT -5
It certainly has come a long way! It’s kinda silly tho lol. (To the pfp thing: oh interesting! I need to get around to making/finding a new pfp lol)
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Post by ☆*:.。. Rain .。.:*☆ on Apr 7, 2024 16:54:57 GMT -5
Woo I finally got around to it!
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Non-binary
dal
and even all the smiles on kid's faces bring you pain, when you think of what they'll face
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Post by dal on Apr 7, 2024 22:11:13 GMT -5
the creation of this thread feels like a lifetime ago ive lived like three lives since i swear same here man
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Post by brooksie on Apr 7, 2024 22:17:08 GMT -5
the creation of this thread feels like a lifetime ago ive lived like three lives since i swear same here man so weird how time works i can be existing in the same like groove for months at a time then suddenly multiple rapid changes life is wild
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Post by {Azure} on Apr 7, 2024 22:36:50 GMT -5
ever want to liven't?
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Post by {Azure} on Apr 7, 2024 22:37:37 GMT -5
like, not dying but not living either, just... not existing
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Post by brooksie on Apr 7, 2024 22:47:43 GMT -5
what is this thread
i get the feeling i wish i could go to sleep for like three hundred years and wake up with no time having passed or somethin. or like. i need like a year to float around without time passing i think thatd be nice. stay safe out there though and definitely talk to somebody if you need to
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Post by Saint Ambrosef on Apr 7, 2024 22:51:56 GMT -5
like, not dying but not living either, just... not existing fyi this is considered a form of suicidal ideation
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Post by lazzylake on Apr 7, 2024 23:21:58 GMT -5
Been lurking in this thread (as I do) and want to say something. Life's been going by pretty fast for me too. This year in school I've been less motivated to get work turned in on time and every assignment I pour every ounce of my energy to. I feel like I need to be the best to make people remember me. To make an impact on my high school years. If I blink I'll be heading to college. Where did the time go? And more importantly, how long will the calmness last when I finally catch a break?
This is going to be such a huge year for me I know it. I'm in an existential mood can you tell. this may be too much of a vent for this thread?? Idk thought it just went with the passage of time theme
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Post by brooksie on Apr 7, 2024 23:50:45 GMT -5
this is purely anecdotal, and may not mean much and may be avoidant of a deeper problem which wouldnt be uncommon for me, but i do have some tactics to slow life down a little. when i notice time passing too quickly i always start to try to fill my days with unique or full things. go the gym, go get a coffee, do something productive/creative. if you give each and every day meaning, it starts to slow them down. it's so easy to get caught in routines, especially the older you get, then you blink and your life is over. stay active, keep your mind sharp and such.
i say this as someone who panics about my mortality when i turned 21 only a few months ago so i am not a great person to ask. life is wild. days are long and years are short as they say this only gets more true as years pass
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Post by ☆*:.。. Rain .。.:*☆ on Apr 8, 2024 10:29:04 GMT -5
Wow that got dark fast. Just cuz we’re on the theme of it, I too wouldn’t mind dying and it might even be better than what goes on in life. Do you ever have a crisis over not wanting to do anything and then wrack your brain trying to think of something that may be slightly enjoyable and then find something but it sends you back into a spiraling depression because you’re bad at it and then you question whether or not your depression meds do anything other than give you crippling insomnia?
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Post by ☆*:.。. Rain .。.:*☆ on Apr 8, 2024 10:29:18 GMT -5
Might just be me… :3
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Post by Saint Ambrosef on Apr 8, 2024 10:49:39 GMT -5
y'all making me real concerned for y'all. i hope you guys are able to access assistance with your mental health.
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Post by ☆*:.。. Rain .。.:*☆ on Apr 8, 2024 10:52:25 GMT -5
Saint Ambrosef dw I’ve got 2 therapists lol
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