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Post by Deleted on Sept 3, 2016 0:18:15 GMT -5
so my parents are abusive emotionally, occasionally physically, definitely mentally, and so on, but my adopted sister is extremely disrespectful, lies about every action she enacts, refuses to acknowledge fault on herself, and abuses others as well
is it proper to not turn her in to the parents so she isn't abused by them for things she does, especially since she was taken from her biological parents for being abused, or is it proper to turn her in to them to face their wrath for the awful actions she repeatedly does, despite the times she's been talked about it previously - with multiple therapists, the parents, social services, her biological family members, and so on?
no, there isn't a secret third option. pick one of those.
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Post by Northstar3213 on Sept 3, 2016 0:20:22 GMT -5
Well she's gotta be disciplined sometime...preferably when there isn't any legal consequence...but man...this is just a lose lose situation for everyone :/
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Post by Deleted on Sept 3, 2016 0:28:47 GMT -5
i kind of ? took a parental role but i'm not granted any authority to punish undesirable behavior. and the sister refuses to respect me because she doesn't "have to".
i tried implementing a positive reinforcement only system, which is the system i believe in the most and will use in any area of my life that i can, but it was shot down quickly by the parents because they would be the ones to fund the meager rewards that were offered. and they believe that all work we do pays off the clothing they buy us - which is one outfit a year unless special circumstances - and the food we eat.
the parents also wouldn't provide a platform to keep track of accomplishments, to the point where they threw away the white board we used to write the chore list and the "groceries we literally need to survive" list on.
idk what to do ):
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