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Post by Card against Humanity on Aug 31, 2016 21:23:10 GMT -5
1. its hard enough looking after a kitten, looking after a kid would be even worse 2. do I need another reason
seriously tho ever since I got my new kitten two weeks ago Im slowly beginning to realise how awful kittens can be sometimes
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Post by cal ✩ on Aug 31, 2016 21:24:12 GMT -5
- ouch (unless you adopt) - crying ?! i have more problems than the baby ... I'M the one who should be crying
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Post by Card against Humanity on Aug 31, 2016 21:25:45 GMT -5
also pregnancy and childbirth sound awful and no amount of "its not that bad!!! childbirth is BeautifulTM and a MiracleTM and All Women Should Experience ItTM" is gonna change my mind
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Post by John 3:16 on Aug 31, 2016 21:30:41 GMT -5
this is why I will adopt a slightly older child instead of having one like no thanks pete I've dealt with enough pain and there are too many humans on this here planet
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be cunning and full of tricks
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Post by sɪʟᴠᴇʀᴏᴡʟ ☾ on Aug 31, 2016 21:36:34 GMT -5
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Post by sphagnosidum on Aug 31, 2016 21:38:32 GMT -5
My family adopted an feral, abandoned kitten a long time (she was hiding under our house). She's grown now, into a feisty sweetheart. Kittens are definitely a lot easier to deal with than little kids, I can say with confidence.
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Post by Basement Cat on Aug 31, 2016 21:43:03 GMT -5
I don't want kids because that means the process leading up to kids. I also just do not want to be responsible for a child. In this day and age, they are an economic liability. I need to just focus on myself and my goals.
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Post by Deleted on Aug 31, 2016 21:45:25 GMT -5
i can barely take care of myself, how would anyone expect me to take care of a child.
my seven cats are my children. they're annoying, they fight, they cost money, but i love them.
still would never have a kid though.
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Post by sphagnosidum on Aug 31, 2016 21:47:01 GMT -5
I wouldn't feel comfortable bringing a child into this world for their own sake. tbh.
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Post by Kenshin on Aug 31, 2016 23:03:47 GMT -5
- they exist
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Post by Deleted on Aug 31, 2016 23:11:58 GMT -5
autism and kids dont mix
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Post by thunderstorm12 on Aug 31, 2016 23:33:59 GMT -5
I want kids in the distant future but adoption is such a good option for everyone involved, and I plan on going with that.
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Post by Salted Squid on Aug 31, 2016 23:50:12 GMT -5
Tbh part of me wants kids and part of me doesn't. The part of me who watched my neices grow up and helped take care of them wants to have kids. But the part of me that's afraid that I'll turn out like my biological mother, who was autistic and abandoned her child with her father, doesn't
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Post by Deleted on Sept 1, 2016 2:14:46 GMT -5
This right here is a Good Idea
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Post by Deleted on Sept 1, 2016 2:46:24 GMT -5
no i'd be a terrible father i can barely take care of a baby on The Sims
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Post by Deleted on Sept 1, 2016 2:49:20 GMT -5
no i'd be a terrible father i can barely take care of a baby on The Sims I can barely take care of a virtual dog why on earth would I have a baby when I could do writing and art and projects instead that would be a Waste Of Time
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Post by Iriswish on Sept 1, 2016 6:50:31 GMT -5
It looks painful af and little kids are so noisy ugh
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Post by ʀᴀɪɴʟᴇᴀғ 🍁 on Sept 1, 2016 7:51:16 GMT -5
Eh, I've lived around family who desperately wanted kids, but wasn't able to. It's sad to see them be unhappy about not being able to even adopt one. As far as I know, I'm able to and I want to at least have one of my own.
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Post by Deleted on Sept 1, 2016 7:54:31 GMT -5
tbh the only way id consider having kids is through adoption. but tbh im the oldest of 5 siblings ive helped raise enough children in my lifetime.
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Post by Saint Ambrosef on Sept 1, 2016 7:59:03 GMT -5
well keep in mind usually kids are raised with their other parent so you wouldn't be alone
but seriously sometimes i feel like the only person on this site who actively wants kids
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Post by Deleted on Sept 1, 2016 9:09:19 GMT -5
No way in heck am I having a child! Childbirth is painful, I don't even want to adopt! (Also I'm irresponsible and with my luck I'd end up with the child in a foster home by the time they're one.)
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Post by Deleted on Sept 1, 2016 9:29:38 GMT -5
I want kids, but I don't want kids. I'm worried I'll become my mother, and that's one of my biggest fears b/c no one deserves that. I don't have the patience or the determination to raise a child.
- birthing sounds painful, plus if it was me vs the baby, I'd be selfish and choose me - they cry a lot - they're annoying - diapers - i'll be sleep deprived with no energy - wouldn't be able to go anywhere - taking them to school - teaching them to be responsible when I'm barely responsible - cleaning after them - listen to school complain when they get in trouble - break things - pretends to not know the definition no - money && time consuming and requires effort - the "i hate you" years - teenage years
vs
- all the countless moments of happiness and pride while they grow up - their first words - their first steps - the countless drawings they give you - all the presents they give you - being their hero for the first couple of years - their first graduation - all of their birthdays - reading them bedtime stories
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Post by Deleted on Sept 1, 2016 10:47:05 GMT -5
I'd be more up for adoption, and if I end up with a cis wife that might be the only option, unless she was cool with artificial insemination and wanted to actually undergo child birth.
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Post by sablestar on Sept 1, 2016 16:51:11 GMT -5
anyway, my ferrets don't like loud noises. and i'm tokophobic.
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Post by *Ravenpaw* on Sept 1, 2016 16:59:25 GMT -5
After being around my nieces, I don't want to deal with a child.
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