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Post by Sanders on Aug 26, 2016 23:09:50 GMT -5
hit me up with that dysphoria.
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Post by The Noble Dragon on Aug 26, 2016 23:28:32 GMT -5
I get dysphoria all the time :/ I'm sorry you have to go through it too.
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Post by Sanders on Aug 26, 2016 23:30:46 GMT -5
I get dysphoria all the time :/ I'm sorry you have to go through it too. i see you're gender fluid. i can imagine that can get a bad sometimes because your gender isn't always constant.
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Post by The Noble Dragon on Aug 26, 2016 23:33:30 GMT -5
Yeah. Going into public bathrooms/getting dressed in the morning/and figuring out which name I want to be called is when it's the worst.
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Post by Sanders on Aug 26, 2016 23:39:26 GMT -5
Yeah. Going into public bathrooms/getting dressed in the morning/and figuring out which name I want to be called is when it's the worst. yeah i know the feeling of public bathrooms man. those are the worst. luckily i only go by one other name but it's starting to not feel right. i just can't think of anything else id like to be called. also i feel like i can't change it now.
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Post by Sanders on Aug 26, 2016 23:39:45 GMT -5
also there are named that are just too rough sounding for me.
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Post by The Noble Dragon on Aug 26, 2016 23:44:41 GMT -5
yeah For me it's my birth name which I am still attached to. And then my "gender neutral" name which I really love but.... Idk I feel like I have no right to use it since I still use my birth name and it isn't my name. But sometimes my birth name doesn't feel right and Idk I just feel sick over it sometimes.
I can't go into public bathrooms anymore because of one time a little kid told me I was in the wrong bathroom.... and everyone gives me looks so I have to go in with my friends so I feel safe and ugh. I use the gender neutral bathrooms at school or wait till i get home.
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Post by The Noble Dragon on Aug 26, 2016 23:44:52 GMT -5
names are hard
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Post by Sanders on Aug 26, 2016 23:57:18 GMT -5
yeah i feel weird about using the name i picked because it isn't my legal name and idk. i am not the person i want that name to be for yet. and it's so different from my birth name that im just like. it feels a little clunky.
yeah i try not to. i dread if like old ladies come in while im there because they think they have the wrong bathroom and im like. no. you don't. i just. and i feel really gross.
sorry i was looking at colored pens.
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Post by The Noble Dragon on Aug 27, 2016 0:08:51 GMT -5
Yeah same and same.
I just hate the looks. It's the worst part the judgmental "You don't look like a sterotype of this gender so you don't belong in here" look...
it's okay. I'm gonna poof to go pic my gf up from work but I'll be back soon
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Post by Sanders on Aug 27, 2016 0:10:41 GMT -5
i know exactly the one.
ah i might end up going to bed here soon. i feel a little bit better and i have work in the morning so i need to not be up all night x3 so see you around if i don't see you soon
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Post by The Noble Dragon on Aug 27, 2016 1:30:36 GMT -5
back.
Sweet dreams if I didn't catch you in time! I dont work till 6pm tomorrow so i can stay up as as late as I want xD
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