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Post by Lightningdawn on Apr 19, 2017 20:02:02 GMT -5
I've felt so tired and empty lately because of school
I'm so tired of being used by my so called 'friends'.
Like, there's a girl who I thought was my best friend. But it's so on again, off again, I hate it!
It used to be she'd be with the popular girls, then drag herself back to me when they treated her badly. I'd always be there. Then she'd be gone again.
At camp last summer, she bailed on me over and over again for three other girls.
And this year...she's finally stopped hanging out with those girls. She was fully my friend, and I was loving it. Then came along her newest object of desire - the same boy who dumped me.
They're dating now and I might as well not exist.
And recently, she told me that if it came down to me or him, she'd kill me in a heartbeat and take him anyday.
This is toxic.
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Post by KittyClearsight on Apr 19, 2017 20:05:51 GMT -5
Ditch her. If she's like that, you don't need her. You deserve better.
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Post by Lightningdawn on Apr 19, 2017 20:11:33 GMT -5
I don't understand why this is happening...
One day she comes to me sobbing about how she's a horrible person, the next laughing with her boyfriend and forgetting I exist. We used to be such good friends. I want to talk to her about it, but I can never catch her alone! And she acts like a little child so much of the time! She's been so self-centered and bratty...
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Post by KittyClearsight on Apr 19, 2017 20:23:24 GMT -5
I can relate, my ex best friend of nine years betrayed me for a guy she didn't even know a year at the time. They're still together, and even though their relationship is toxic to each other she was perfectly willing to stab me in the back a second time when I gave her a second chance. I learned that some people don't deserve a second chance, and I advise you do cut her off if this is how she treats you. Friendship is a two way street, she comes to you when she needs something but ignores you otherwise? That isn't friendship. That's her using you. I'm saying this from my own personal experiences, she doesn't deserve any chances. I may not know the whole situation, but just from what you're saying, this is my view on this. You deserve friends who really appreciate you <3
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Post by ssquiffy on Apr 19, 2017 20:26:05 GMT -5
seems like shes only using you to fall back on when she doesn't have any other options.
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