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Post by lazzylake on Feb 19, 2024 0:31:54 GMT -5
Okay guys prepare yourselves this is going to be a RANT.
I absolutely despise people who create album reviews with the sole purpose of trashing on the projects. I just watched a critique video where someone did a blind reaction and after every second of each song they would criticize the creative choices like, "this vocal technique sucks" or "the melody here is garbage". And then shoving the album into genres that didn't even fit. It's not even constructive. You don't need to be a cynical asshole to get your point across.
I was so pissed I didn't make it halfway though the video. This is why I'm insecure about my music taste. Btw if any of you want details on what specific video I'm talking about I'd be happy to pop off. I have SO MUCH more to talk about than just this.
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Post by ✖ Ꮮꭼꭺꮲꮶꮖꭲ ✖ on Feb 19, 2024 2:27:49 GMT -5
when ppl scrape their feet as they walk.... this is just attacking autistic people. /hj
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Post by Tealraven on Feb 19, 2024 14:07:23 GMT -5
makeup. skincare. “kawaii” things. tea. pink and purple. my penpals keep sending me facial masks and teabags and sparkly sanrio stickers and pink/purple stationery and I don’t have the heart to tell them to stop 🥲 question, how do you get into pen palling? there's a very big and very active penpal community on instagram; that's where i find most of mine. you could try the tags #penpalswanted and #penpalsearch, those are pretty popular. there's also a handful of accounts that post penpal ads, though some are more reliable than others. you can send in a dm with your info and they post it for you, and anyone interested in being your penpal can comment on the post or dm you. (i have not done this myself; i just respond to others.) my personal favorite is @penpalfinders, an account managed by two adults. in the 3 years that i've been following them they've been pretty good at vetting ads. creeps and scammers are few and far between; i think they may have accidentally posted one or two sus ads in the past, but once they realized the mistake they apologized, immediately removed the ad, and publicly warned their followers not to interact with the creep/scammer. they're very committed to their followers' safety. i've also found a few penpals in the facebook group Worldwide Snail Mail Pen Pals, but my success rate there is much lower. if you want more details i'll pm you so i don't clutter up the Haters Thread :]
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Post by dal on Feb 19, 2024 19:16:37 GMT -5
when ppl scrape their feet as they walk.... this is just attacking autistic people. /hj no i'm autistic i don't do that, it's a tinnitus thing
edit: shit not tinnitus the other one. misophonia
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Post by dal on Feb 19, 2024 19:18:16 GMT -5
question, how do you get into pen palling? there's a very big and very active penpal community on instagram; that's where i find most of mine. you could try the tags #penpalswanted and #penpalsearch, those are pretty popular. there's also a handful of accounts that post penpal ads, though some are more reliable than others. you can send in a dm with your info and they post it for you, and anyone interested in being your penpal can comment on the post or dm you. (i have not done this myself; i just respond to others.) my personal favorite is @penpalfinders, an account managed by two adults. in the 3 years that i've been following them they've been pretty good at vetting ads. creeps and scammers are few and far between; i think they may have accidentally posted one or two sus ads in the past, but once they realized the mistake they apologized, immediately removed the ad, and publicly warned their followers not to interact with the creep/scammer. they're very committed to their followers' safety. i've also found a few penpals in the facebook group Worldwide Snail Mail Pen Pals, but my success rate there is much lower. if you want more details i'll pm you so i don't clutter up the Haters Thread :] sure! feel free to dm me
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Post by ✖ Ꮮꭼꭺꮲꮶꮖꭲ ✖ on Feb 19, 2024 20:10:02 GMT -5
this is just attacking autistic people. /hj no i'm autistic i don't do that, it's a tinnitus thing
edit: shit not tinnitus the other one. misophonia
it is an autistic trait to drag feet, or tip toe, just because you dont doesnt mean no one does.
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Post by {Azure} on Feb 19, 2024 21:36:31 GMT -5
i'm autistic and drag my feet slightly, it drives my mom crazy but i also have autistic friends who don't so... ¯\_(ツ)_/¯
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Post by Saint Ambrosef on Feb 19, 2024 21:52:03 GMT -5
no i'm autistic i don't do that, it's a tinnitus thing edit: shit not tinnitus the other one. misophonia
it is an autistic trait to drag feet, or tip toe, just because you dont doesnt mean no one does. I think they meant they dont attack autistics because they are one lol
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Post by Dark Sun on Feb 20, 2024 5:41:51 GMT -5
Sort of a tiny pet peeve / tiny rant, but the classic belief that "game developer" is a jack of all trades job. So when, say, some new environment concept art is posted for a game, people complain why that dev isn't working on coding new AI, writing lore, coding weather systems, so on and so forth. I'm not a simp for game devs (most are indeed very lazy, especially nowadays), but even then I know that (drawing an analogy here) a janitor or a cashier is also not the CEO of a company.
Edit: Speaking of which, the commonly held belief that game developers are the CEO of a (typically large) company, the CFO, the publishers, the investors, etc.
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Post by Tealraven on Feb 20, 2024 11:52:24 GMT -5
Cozy games. I’m sorry but games like animal crossing and stardew valley and the sims bore me to tears. I just do not see the appeal at all.
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Post by dal on Feb 20, 2024 13:12:20 GMT -5
it is an autistic trait to drag feet, or tip toe, just because you dont doesnt mean no one does. I think they meant they dont attack autistics because they are one lol this, and i also meant that disliking the sound is a misophonia thing
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Post by ᦓρ꠸ᥴꫀᠻꪖꪀᧁ on Feb 20, 2024 17:57:04 GMT -5
People who don’t like one I say my old writing or really my old anything is bad and they are all like “no that’s so amazing why do you hate it?? your being so harsh on yourself!” etc. etc. when in reality I’m just saying that because I’ve improved. Then when I tell them that they just keep yabbling— like stfu I said what I said.
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Post by Dark Sun on Feb 21, 2024 4:49:29 GMT -5
People who don’t like one I say my old writing or really my old anything is bad and they are all like “no that’s so amazing why do you hate it?? your being so harsh on yourself!” etc. etc. when in reality I’m just saying that because I’ve improved. Then when I tell them that they just keep yabbling— like stfu I said what I said. I think this partially stems from people being too comfortable with giving people positive words in light of negative experiences nowadays ("it'll get better!", "you're not alone", etc.) instead of just giving them your ears. In other words, instead of just listening, they feel an urge to cheer you up. Sometimes it's better to just nod.
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Post by *Ɗαɾƙρσσℓ* on Feb 21, 2024 12:42:07 GMT -5
clip-on earrings
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Post by Saint Ambrosef on Feb 21, 2024 12:46:49 GMT -5
when a couple is suffering infertility issues, and someone (esp people who don't want children themselves) casually responds with "just adopt"
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Post by Dark Sun on Feb 21, 2024 12:50:08 GMT -5
when a couple is suffering infertility issues, and someone (esp people who don't want children themselves) casually responds with "just adopt" To add onto this, when people assume that adoption is as easy as "A, B, C, 1, 2, 3."
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Post by *Ɗαɾƙρσσℓ* on Feb 21, 2024 17:46:41 GMT -5
when a couple is suffering infertility issues, and someone (esp people who don't want children themselves) casually responds with "just adopt" further point of annoyance w this mentality, adoptive children are not a consolation prize people settle for bc they cant have their preferred option of biological children, and they arent there to heal people's infertility trauma. Saying stuff like this isnt just unhelpful and trivializing to people processing infertility, its also hurtful towards adoptive/foster kids and potentially puts them at risk for bad family placements when ppl adopt for the wrong reasons :/
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Post by rabbit on Feb 21, 2024 17:49:59 GMT -5
Extremely manipulative people. They suck the joy out of my life.
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Post by Saint Ambrosef on Feb 21, 2024 18:06:13 GMT -5
when a couple is suffering infertility issues, and someone (esp people who don't want children themselves) casually responds with "just adopt" further point of annoyance w this mentality, adoptive children are not a consolation prize people settle for bc they cant have their preferred option of biological children, and they arent there to heal people's infertility trauma. Saying stuff like this isnt just unhelpful and trivializing to people processing infertility, its also hurtful towards adoptive/foster kids and potentially puts them at risk for bad family placements when ppl adopt for the wrong reasons :/^^^ adoption is an independent journey with its own particular hurdles and problems to consider, and while ofc adopted children are every bit as "real" family as biological children, they are not interchangeable nor are the parenting experiences the same. and as you said, adoptive kids aren't "back-ups".
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Post by ᦓρ꠸ᥴꫀᠻꪖꪀᧁ on Feb 21, 2024 21:22:41 GMT -5
Pretty sure I’ve said this already but I’m gonna say it again.
PEOPLE WHO DONT PICK UP THEIR DOG POOP LIKE SERIOUSLY ITS NOT THAT HARD IF I CAN DO IT THEN SO CAN YOU
I walk my dog twice a day for 30-45 minutes and people not picking up after their dog on my neighborhood and really anywhere is highly annoying. It’s unsanitary and can be distracting to other dogs on their own walks, not to mention the nuisance it causes for other people who live nearby.
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Post by Tealraven on Feb 22, 2024 15:53:32 GMT -5
people using "asexuality is a spectrum! (:" as an excuse to sexualize and/or ship canon aroace characters makes my blood boil.
yes, it's a spectrum, and those people deserve representation too, but it's a fairly complicated spectrum at that and most people either have no idea the aroace orientation even exists or they don't believe it's real so can we take it one step at a time please??? we have practically zero representation compared to other orientations, please don't take away what little is out there. not interested in debating this.
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Post by Dark Sun on Feb 22, 2024 16:24:13 GMT -5
people using "asexuality is a spectrum! (:" as an excuse to sexualize and/or ship canon aroace characters makes my blood boil. yes, it's a spectrum, and those people deserve representation too, but it's a fairly complicated spectrum at that and most people either have no idea the aroace orientation even exists or they don't believe it's real so can we take it one step at a time please??? we have practically zero representation compared to other orientations, please don't take away what little is out there. not interested in debating this. I wonder if it's a twisted attempt to "normalize" aro/ace people.
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Post by ✖ Ꮮꭼꭺꮲꮶꮖꭲ ✖ on Feb 22, 2024 17:01:10 GMT -5
people using "asexuality is a spectrum! (:" as an excuse to sexualize and/or ship canon aroace characters makes my blood boil. yes, it's a spectrum, and those people deserve representation too, but it's a fairly complicated spectrum at that and most people either have no idea the aroace orientation even exists or they don't believe it's real so can we take it one step at a time please??? we have practically zero representation compared to other orientations, please don't take away what little is out there. not interested in debating this. I have a planned aroace main character and i keep getting annoyed because when i talk about her and the *UNRECIPROCATED CRUSH* who follows her around they get shipped and i am like. i dont know what part of aroace and unreciprocated you arent understanding but if you say it again i will throw a folding chair.
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Post by dahliadove - #1 nightpelt fan on Feb 22, 2024 17:06:09 GMT -5
every time a new jjk chapter comes out. gege. when I catch you gege akutami 🤗🤗🤗
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Post by Dark Sun on Feb 22, 2024 17:07:21 GMT -5
YouTube Shorts, especially the ones showing disturbing content.
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Post by Dark Sun on Feb 22, 2024 17:12:14 GMT -5
Waking up multiple times a day for no reason. Like, brain, you were up for 22 hours, you don't need to wake up after only 4.
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Post by Viperstrike on Feb 22, 2024 17:39:33 GMT -5
I hate how everything needs a disclaimer now days. If you’re making a video about pancakes, you don’t need to give a five minute disclaimer at the beginning about how you have nothing against waffles, and that you don’t hate people who love waffles over pancakes, and so on and so on. I’m sick of every video having a long out disclaimer for every single person and situation that could possibly exist. Disclaimers should only be reserved for serious topics that are actually deserving of them.
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Post by ! (Ġray) ! on Feb 22, 2024 18:11:02 GMT -5
kind of related to what viperstrike said, warnings at the start of videos should only be for stuff that you wouldn't expect in the video/wasn't obvious. Like a flashing lights warning is good obv, but if you click "Dead children: a fnaf animatic" with a thumbnail of a child with a menacing shadow standing over it i think the gore warning is implied
idk I'm just sick of skipping warnings that go for like a minute that are kind of obvious
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Post by Dark Sun on Feb 22, 2024 18:22:14 GMT -5
kind of related to what viperstrike said, warnings at the start of videos should only be for stuff that you wouldn't expect in the video/wasn't obvious. Like a flashing lights warning is good obv, but if you click "Dead children: a fnaf animatic" with a thumbnail of a child with a menacing shadow standing over it i think the gore warning is implied idk I'm just sick of skipping warnings that go for like a minute that are kind of obvious Maybe I'm being insensitive (I don't think I am?), but it also slightly... not grates me, but it makes me raise an eyebrow for sure, when someone complains about triggering content in a video when there was a content/trigger warning at the very beginning of the video going over that exact content that could be triggering. Like, either you skipped past it, or you don't care and want to harass the creator over it.
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Post by Dark Sun on Feb 22, 2024 18:25:42 GMT -5
As for the alleged minute-long content warnings, those would just tank a video's performance (watch length). For performance reasons, such things should be as quick as possible, and the viewer can always pause if they need to. Ignore this nerdy point though.
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