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Post by Aqua on Oct 13, 2021 12:40:28 GMT -5
So have you ever had an incident when you had a friendship torn apart because you didn't listen to your friend's side of the story, or they didn't listen to yours and it dropped completely? Lack of communication is so damaging when it comes to friendships. It's frustrating when people think they know what we want, or why we did this, without even bothering hearing our side of the story, if that makes any sense.
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Post by ✲ριкαƒυєу✲ on Oct 13, 2021 17:58:28 GMT -5
Yep. Unfortunately it happens :/
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Post by Snowfire on Oct 13, 2021 21:28:56 GMT -5
Yep, it happened with my old group while they never heard my side of a story about someone’s actions. Gotta live with it oof.
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Post by Aqua on Oct 14, 2021 9:01:01 GMT -5
Yep, it happened with my old group while they never heard my side of a story about someone’s actions. Gotta live with it oof. Yeah it's a huge bummer. Someone at work thought I talked crap about him behind his back and I told him I didn't and he didn't bother listening to me and yelled at me for it. I spent a while crying in the bathroom after this happened and everyone at work noticed how I felt. :/ Like even if I did treat him like that, yelling at me for it was wrong and he knows that's what he did because my other coworker told me "hey so and so told me he yelled at you want did you do?" it's just really messed up. He's yelled at other people recently so I guess he's going through stress in his life, but now he thinks I'm a bit fat liar with my friends and him. Really haven't been a fan of him since and I feel like I have a good reason to dislike him. My coworkers told me he took things too far. Keep this shit up and he's seriously going to hurt one of his coworkers one day, unintentionally or out of stress or not. He doesn't even feel bad for it. This same person also mentioned my mistakes behind my back once too, recently mind you, so he's just a huge jerk really. I've already made my apology and he hasn't bothered replying and doesn't seem to care, so I'm just not gonna talk to him ever again after this.
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Post by Snowfire on Oct 14, 2021 10:01:32 GMT -5
Yep, it happened with my old group while they never heard my side of a story about someone’s actions. Gotta live with it oof. Yeah it's a huge bummer. Someone at work thought I talked crap about him behind his back and I told him I didn't and he didn't bother listening to me and yelled at me for it. I spent a while crying in the bathroom after this happened and everyone at work noticed how I felt. :/ Like even if I did treat him like that, yelling at me for it was wrong and he knows that's what he did because my other coworker told me "hey so and so told me he yelled at you want did you do?" it's just really messed up. He's yelled at other people recently so I guess he's going through stress in his life, but now he thinks I'm a bit fat liar with my friends and him. Really haven't been a fan of him since and I feel like I have a good reason to dislike him. My coworkers told me he took things too far. Keep this shit up and he's seriously going to hurt one of his coworkers one day, unintentionally or out of stress or not. He doesn't even feel bad for it. This same person also mentioned my mistakes behind my back once too, recently mind you, so he's just a huge jerk really. I've already made my apology and he hasn't bothered replying and doesn't seem to care, so I'm just not gonna talk to him ever again after this. Man I'm sorry to hear that, it's a good idea cutting him off though because by the sounds of it, it sounds like he's putting all this negative energy on you just to put you down, I hope you're doing better now.
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Post by Chicken on Oct 14, 2021 12:37:44 GMT -5
Something similar has happened, I thought someone was mad at me/disliked me, so I confronted them, and they got angry at me for thinking they were angry at me, and we haven't really talked since then.
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Aromantic
rypebird
The silence is numbing
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Post by rypebird on Oct 17, 2021 21:02:11 GMT -5
Yeah sadly. I lost a close friend because of this. My (ex) close friend who i saw as a brother as we have been close from 6th grade-a few months after graduation in 2019. The complete lack of communication from his side about a issue in that group made it hard for me and a couple people in the group to work it out. it went down in flames, and never was able to be restored. its quite a terrible feeling from all of those years of friendship to be gone. i wish for him and his boyfriend the best though, and still miss hanging out. i guess what happened happened.
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Post by mrcarlpeterson on Oct 18, 2021 10:15:17 GMT -5
Yes, I think it's a good judgement, when you don't understand some difficult or horrible situation, without understanding the other person simply refuses to even listen to any explanations.
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