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Post by Skypaw13 on Oct 13, 2021 2:21:44 GMT -5
I get really hecking nervous around you and start eyelash batting, talking in a higher pitch, and touching your arm.
Crushes for me range from "I think you're adorable and I like being around you, but that's literally the extent of my thoughts about you" at a 1 all the way to "I'm deeply in love with you and I will actually die if you ignore me for any reason" at a 10.
Right now there's a guy who's like... an 8 on the scale, but it's weird because I have no romantic attraction to him at all. Like the thought of being his girlfriend makes me want to gag. But sexual attraction and a desire for emotional closeness are both there, and quite strong. I don't call it a crush because for me "crush" is a word used to communicate to friends that you have a romantic desire for the person, but I'm not gonna lie, it's an eerily similar feeling to a typical crush, so it's really just a semantic difference.
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Post by Papillon on Oct 13, 2021 3:50:49 GMT -5
if you have to ask you probably do. and there's nothing wrong with thinking of yourself one way and then learning otherwise. part of growing up as a person in general/getting older.
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Post by Gold on Oct 13, 2021 9:58:31 GMT -5
I take an intense interest in someone who displays certain qualities that I find interesting, attractive, or admirable. I want to get to know them better, try to find common interests, basically start vetting them to see if I actually like them and can be my friend at all in the first place.
It doesn’t work always, haha. Sometimes my emotional fulfillment gets hinged on how much they pay attention to me, which can cause me to get downright neurotic and clingy if don’t notice me at all, or worse do notice and start ghosting me.
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Post by Chicken on Oct 19, 2021 11:51:08 GMT -5
Personally, I know I have a crush on someone, if I feel intense anger towards them and they haven't done anything to annoy me. I don't know why, that's just how it is
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Post by Snowfire on Oct 22, 2021 14:13:24 GMT -5
I don't usually have crushes but when I have a crush I would deny it for a while and if I'm still crushing on someone I would look for the reasons why then whether I actually want to be with them, if they don't have a crush back I would wait it out to see what happens. Majority of the time it fades off or if they’re actually the One. Usually when I have a crush I would be very obvious with it, my bf acted the same way when I first starting having feelings for him, I've considered it when he asked me out for a few days and we've been together for over three months now. ^^
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