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Post by Lórien on Sept 5, 2016 17:58:51 GMT -5
@bleak Ah, it sounds like you're in a bit of a tough situation. I haven't experienced any of that yet... so I'm not sure if I can give much help. Even if I tried, it would come out as a rambling mess. I wish you luck, and sorry that I cant help!
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RN does not stand for Refreshments and Narcotics
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Post by Bleak on Sept 5, 2016 18:04:25 GMT -5
@bleak Ah, it sounds like you're in a bit of a tough situation. I haven't experienced any of that yet... so I'm not sure if I can give much help. Even if I tried, it would come out as a rambling mess. I wish you luck, and sorry that I cant help! Ah, it's fine. Just making it clear I don't like my siblings...or niece...I like my brother in law, though
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Post by Lórien on Sept 5, 2016 18:10:49 GMT -5
@bleak Ah, it sounds like you're in a bit of a tough situation. I haven't experienced any of that yet... so I'm not sure if I can give much help. Even if I tried, it would come out as a rambling mess. I wish you luck, and sorry that I cant help! Ah, it's fine. Just making it clear I don't like my siblings...or niece...I like my brother in law, though (I'm at one of those points where I have zero clue what to say, oops.) Considering what you said about them, I wouldn't like them also.
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Bleak
RN does not stand for Refreshments and Narcotics
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Post by Bleak on Sept 5, 2016 19:20:14 GMT -5
Ah, it's fine. Just making it clear I don't like my siblings...or niece...I like my brother in law, though (I'm at one of those points where I have zero clue what to say, oops.) Considering what you said about them, I wouldn't like them also. Haha, yeah, my family's a hoot. plz adopt me
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Post by Lórien on Sept 5, 2016 19:26:59 GMT -5
(I'm at one of those points where I have zero clue what to say, oops.) Considering what you said about them, I wouldn't like them also. Haha, yeah, my family's a hoot. plz adopt meI'll gladly adopt you. Just pack up your bags and you can come right over, my parent won't mind. You can the claim the basement, or we could share my room. But seriously though, I hope things get better with your siblings. Right now it doesn't sound to likely, but maybe they'll get some sense knocked into them.
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Bleak
RN does not stand for Refreshments and Narcotics
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Post by Bleak on Sept 5, 2016 19:59:18 GMT -5
Haha, yeah, my family's a hoot. plz adopt meI'll gladly adopt you. Just pack up your bags and you can come right over, my parent won't mind. You can the claim the basement, or we could share my room. But seriously though, I hope things get better with your siblings. Right now it doesn't sound to likely, but maybe they'll get some sense knocked into them. Bleaky likes basements, and darknessYeah, I don't think it's likely. My sister has mental issues and my brother a thick, manly skull (Sorry to all the men I just offended)
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Post by Lórien on Sept 5, 2016 20:04:10 GMT -5
I'll gladly adopt you. Just pack up your bags and you can come right over, my parent won't mind. You can the claim the basement, or we could share my room. But seriously though, I hope things get better with your siblings. Right now it doesn't sound to likely, but maybe they'll get some sense knocked into them. Bleaky likes basements, and darknessYeah, I don't think it's likely. My sister has mental issues and my brother a thick, manly skull (Sorry to all the men I just offended) Okay, it might be a little loud at times. We got a set of drums. Ah, so maybe not. ( What you say is true though. Just not for all men. )
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RN does not stand for Refreshments and Narcotics
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Post by Bleak on Sept 5, 2016 21:24:17 GMT -5
Bleaky likes basements, and darknessYeah, I don't think it's likely. My sister has mental issues and my brother a thick, manly skull (Sorry to all the men I just offended) Okay, it might be a little loud at times. We got a set of drums. Ah, so maybe not. ( What you say is true though. Just not for all men. ) DRUMS!?! BLEAKY WANNA PLAYahem, yeah, issues everywhere
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I am emo and I write emo poetry but I am also a hipster and wow I feel too much
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Post by spottedlegswarrior on Sept 5, 2016 23:36:53 GMT -5
Hi! I'd like to say that this is an amazing thread and I love this idea! I do have things I'd like to say though (this'll be long, probably).
Okay, so I just started school at a new school (which my assimilation into their ranks has gone well) but I do have a class that I absolutely hate and I just want to vent a little bit about it (or maybe a lot. Who knows?). This class is basically teachers and counselors coming into the class and shoving college down our throats and it's seriously making me insane! I get that they are trying to prepare us for "the real world" but I'm not ready for "the real world". I don't know what I want to do for a career. I don't know who I am as a person and I think that it's important to know that before you make big decisions like what you're going to do for the rest of your life until they finally bury you in your grave plot that you bought with the money from your career that you chose as a teenager when you weren't ready and/or mature enough to make a life changing decision like that. I have wanted to be probably every dang job on this earth but now I have no clue! Maybe graphic design? But I'm only mediocre at drawing. Librarian? A good chance though I don't know. Accountant? I like math but I know nothing about accounting except for the fact that my sister sucked at that class. None of this is going to even mean anything when we're dead and 100 years pass. People won't care. It's the monetary system that has destroyed humanity. It's all because of money. That's why I'm so stressed out about the future. If there wasn't money, there would be probably three problems worldwide. I just want to say that creative writing is my favorite class and it's everything to me and it makes me happy because it allows the expression of your own original thoughts with no judgment because everything that you write is considered art. Even if it sucks, it's the way to better art. I feel like all of the things that I worry myself with mean nothing. Well, this is Something but the things in my head are fictional and they actually mean nothing. They are just things to fill the void of nothingness that we feel on a day to day basis. I feel like everything in my life is wrong at the moment and I don't want to do the things that I, by definition, should do. Today while finishing my homework, I wanted to just not do it. I wanted to see what would happen if I just turned in my assignments with big blank spaces and watch my grades drop lower than a B. I've always been a good student but I want to see myself fail at something that people find to be important just to prove that it isn't important. I want to destroy their views of the world and life. I want them to see that students that are supposedly perfect can fail. It's not impossible to fail. I might go back to homeschooling for my last year of high school since I'm only a junior. I homeschooled last year (which was agonizing and I hated it). I don't know what I'll do. I don't know what I can and should do. I have no idea what I am capable of as a human being but yet I do know that I can do anything if I tried. I just don't know what I should try. I don't know what I want to try. The point of all of this is that I know nothing about my future since the future is unknowable but I'm expected know it anyway. I need to go to sleep since it's 11:30 and I have wake up again at 6:30, but yeah. Don't feel obligated to respond to this but if you want to, do it.
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The Ancient One
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pumpkin pie
what if i fall? but my dear, what if you fly?
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Post by pumpkin pie on Sept 6, 2016 7:42:31 GMT -5
spottedlegswarrior; Oh gosh! First off about that class, I honestly would hate that myself and I totally see why that would stress you out. Honestly, when I was a junior, I did not want to even remotely think about college. I like you, had no idea what I wanted, where I was going to go and honestly, even though I am in college now, my future is still unclear and thinking about it makes me go crazy. The future is a terrible thing to think about because it is so unknowing but the future is sadly inevitable and whether we like it or not, it will move along and we must too move along with it. I have to say though, you honestly sound exactly like myself and it is a bit hard trying to console something that you also feel- or rather you may be able to console it, but giving the advice is always easier than following it. I'd say, just try not to stress out (I know that is easier said than done) and remember that you are not alone. There are tons of other people in this world who feel exactly like you do, who don't know what they want to do with their lives, where they are going- but you know what the great thing is? Even once you get to college, you can make mistakes, you can change your major around, see where you fit in best and you will find where you will be going. And even if you graduate with a major you think you want to persue, you may end up even going into something completely different, or switching careers along the line and that is 100% alright and ok. Even if now, it seems like we won't ever figure out the craziness of our lives, it will all fall in place as we move along in our own little journeys, and if we make mistakes, the wonderful thing is we can go back, fix them and learn from them. Take it bird by bird and you'll get where you are goin even if now the path does not seem clear (:
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The Ancient One
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pumpkin pie
what if i fall? but my dear, what if you fly?
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Post by pumpkin pie on Sept 7, 2016 6:54:45 GMT -5
Good Morning!
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Post by qυeeɴ oғ ɢнoѕтlιɴɢѕ on Sept 7, 2016 7:46:20 GMT -5
morning picia
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Post by mymerlincat on Sept 7, 2016 20:58:44 GMT -5
ugh some people are so ignorant (not naming anyone but let's just say someone with the username of Death the Kid's favorite number has triggered me out of sheer ignorance and impertinence) essentially claiming that autism doesn't have a negative impact on the siblings and that we should just sit contentedly by and just be happy happy happy and shower our autistic siblings with endless love and kindness AND NEVER PUNISH THEM! Well you know what I DO get frustrated with my brothers! I'm NOT going to praise them when they threaten to beat up my mother! I'll be angry as heck!! And then they go on and claim that ALL AUTISTIC PEOPLE ARE THE SAME! THAT'S A LOAD OF HORSE CRUD!!! *grumbles* It's one thing living with ONE sibling with ASPERGER'S which is HIGH FUNCTIONING AUTISM It's another living with TWO siblings that are SEVERELY AUTISTIC that are EXTREMELY LOW FUNCTIONING and act essentially LIKE BABIES!!! And babies that will not hesitate to throw a massive tantrum that will result in HARM TO YOUR PROPERTY OR PERSON!! I've had my door broken down, my mother has been tackled to the ground, my neurotypical brother has had an ipad bashed over his head, my dad's gotten black eyes and a bloodied lip, and we've all had a KNIFE pulled on us at least once!! Not to mention all the discrimination we get in public places! We get tossed out of places because people complain, I've been bullied because people have thought that I was autistic, and it has been heck trying to get the services my brothers need because everyone is too flipping lazy to do anything!! Agree wholeheartedly.
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The Ancient One
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pumpkin pie
what if i fall? but my dear, what if you fly?
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Post by pumpkin pie on Sept 8, 2016 6:47:20 GMT -5
qυeeɴ oғ ɢнoѕтlιɴɢѕ; Hello! Northstar3213; oh gosh! That sounds absolutely terrible! I can't say I have experience around autistic people, so I don't see what it is like being around them. That's the problem I think- people who don't live around it, don't see what it is like behind the scenes and for that reason? Your two experiences around such will be completely different. And it is messed that people fail to recognize the other side and then basically call others out, claiming your opinion is wrong when it isn't, whereas you live with others who are autisutc so you experience it first hand. I agree with you wholly as well.
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Post by Northstar3213 on Sept 8, 2016 7:02:04 GMT -5
Look I'm going to delete my comment because people are still gonna be really pissed at me. Again, further perpetuating how people make siblings feel like their feelings aren't valid. And quite frankly I don't want to waste my energy anymore. I made a public apology and I dont want to perpetuate this. I wrote that post to vent before calming down and apologizing.
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#a8d1ff
The Ancient One
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pumpkin pie
what if i fall? but my dear, what if you fly?
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Post by pumpkin pie on Sept 8, 2016 7:42:18 GMT -5
Northstar3213 Hey, it's alright honestly. I'm glad you were at least able to let that out because this better than keeping it in- and if you ever want to pm us too so you can vent at all without having it open to everyone, we will gladly listen!
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Post by Northstar3213 on Sept 8, 2016 10:16:09 GMT -5
well i appreciate that
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#a8d1ff
The Ancient One
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pumpkin pie
what if i fall? but my dear, what if you fly?
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Post by pumpkin pie on Sept 8, 2016 12:48:58 GMT -5
^^ (:
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Post by The Noble Dragon on Sept 8, 2016 13:33:50 GMT -5
North I understand what you were talking about, My younger brother is on the autism scale... as well as he has XYY syndrome and ADD and he's going through puberty and what not. He has really bad tempertantrums and has put a lot of holes in the walls at the house. The police even had to come one time and handcuff him just so he would take his medicine. It really sucks but I'm glad my parents don't baby him, they just do different things to punish him and they did me and my sister because it doesn't work well for him. Unfortunately, my younger sister hates my brother because she thinks my arents baby him since they punish him differently. She thinks he's out to get her when he usually isn't and she tends to egg him on and make his temper worse, but she won't listen to us when we tell her that she's causing the problems because it has to be my brother's fault. But he does get in trouble and I'm sorry your siblings don't, it isn't okay that they hurt you and your family and I wish I knew a way to help.
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#a8d1ff
The Ancient One
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pumpkin pie
what if i fall? but my dear, what if you fly?
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Post by pumpkin pie on Sept 9, 2016 5:57:23 GMT -5
Hey! Good Morning! (:
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Post by The Noble Dragon on Sept 9, 2016 14:01:16 GMT -5
Good afternoon everybody!)
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#a8d1ff
The Ancient One
Name Colour
pumpkin pie
what if i fall? but my dear, what if you fly?
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Post by pumpkin pie on Sept 10, 2016 9:26:57 GMT -5
Hey Deamon!
Good Morning!
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Post by Deleted on Sept 10, 2016 10:36:30 GMT -5
i know my moms going to force me to drive today but i have panic attacks every single time but she doesnt care that i start shaking and crying i odnt know what to do
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Post by Deleted on Sept 10, 2016 10:37:25 GMT -5
also, thank you so much for creating this thread. i have a realy hard time talking to people in real life, but on the internet its a breeze.
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Post by The Noble Dragon on Sept 10, 2016 11:06:20 GMT -5
Hi Onewordtyler (NIce reference btw love it). Is there a reason why you get panic attacks when you drive? i know it can be intimidating to drive.
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Post by Deleted on Sept 10, 2016 11:31:25 GMT -5
thanks lol)) i dont know, its just absolutely terrifying and i hate every second of it
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Post by The Noble Dragon on Sept 10, 2016 11:34:02 GMT -5
Okay, I understand how terrifying driving a car can be. Unfortunately the rest of the world doesn't seem to care and makes us rely on them to go basically everywhere. Are you still learning how to drive?
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Post by Невыносимая коммунизм on Sept 10, 2016 11:40:00 GMT -5
Oh gosh, A thread for me???
Just checking around for inappropriate posts
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Post by The Noble Dragon on Sept 10, 2016 11:41:46 GMT -5
(Hi Kevin! Thanks for checking! Don't worry if there are any inappropriate posts me or Picia will report them! )
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Post by Невыносимая коммунизм on Sept 10, 2016 11:43:34 GMT -5
thanks lol)) i dont know, its just absolutely terrifying and i hate every second of it I used to be really scared when I learned, but then I realized that there are thousands of other students on the road like me, that are probably feeling the same thing. And millions of adults, who used to be scared but are now master drivers.
What I recommend is a TON of parking lot driving
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