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Post by twilightfire on Jul 11, 2020 21:38:06 GMT -5
I got trust issues with people, cause a girl can only get stabbed in the back so many times before she decides to piss on the world But now I'm an adult and I only have like 4 friends, one of them being my boyfriend, the other being a girl I'm considering cutting off because she refuses to hang out with me unless I pay her (mind you shes still working and I lost my job due to COVID), and another is so mentally unstable it really wears me down to be around him (which sounds horrible, but I also have a lot of mental illness I can't always bare the weight of other people but I force myself to try cause I feel like an ass otherwise) But my few friends are always busy, and they rarely text me back, so I wish I had more friends, but I don't know how to acquire them.
Not looking for any solid advice unless you want to give it but damn I needed to get that out cause I quite literally have no one
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Post by Deleted on Jul 12, 2020 13:29:13 GMT -5
Jeez, I'm sorry you have to be around such terrible people, especially the one who makes you pay her to hang out with her? That isn't a friend, that's a leech, I'd drop her faster than a r/niceguy will drop his pants for any girl who gives him the slightest amount of attention. As for the mentally unstable person, that's a bit of a tricky situation. I dealt with someone like that, I tried to stick by his side, and he continued to put me down, and blame me for stuff I didn't even do, and I kept hoping that the old him would could back, but he never did, he just continued to get worse. Finally, I just decided to walk away from him, and he seems fine, and I'm fine. However, your situation could be different, maybe there's still hope for your friend, but if it gets too much, you need to do what is best for you, you can't keep putting yourself on the back burner, to appease these other people who don't even appreciate it. I hope things get better for you, and good luck on finding decent friends.
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The Ancient One
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what if i fall? but my dear, what if you fly?
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Post by pumpkin pie on Jul 12, 2020 19:00:50 GMT -5
I'm sorry :/
i feel ya o: it is not easy to make friends when you get older and when so many people just leave you...its hard to be able to get close and trust people anymore?? like i have such a hard time trying to even get close to people and i haven't made any friends since hs when well, everyone left...and i haven't had a single friend since then. now 23 and i aint got a soul but me, myself and i.
heres to hoping it gets better though...i mean, ya...it just..isnt easy
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Post by twilightfire on Jul 12, 2020 21:26:34 GMT -5
Aw thanks for the support guys!! Also nice use of that subreddit
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Post by Deleted on Jul 12, 2020 21:29:11 GMT -5
Aw thanks for the support guys!! Also nice use of that subreddit You're welcome Haha, thanks XD
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