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Post by Deleted on Jul 29, 2017 20:01:51 GMT -5
Which of the categories do you classify yourself under? Also, which of the three groups do you feel best represents who you spend your time with most?
For example I consider myself to be an ambivert, there are some days where I really just want to relax in my alone time and refresh myself as a whole. But if I do this for too long, I do genuinely start to feel sad and isolated, so then I actively seek out social stimulation (and by social I mean actually getting of my butt and making a plan IRL, because usually chatting with my online friends doesn't quite do it for me in that case).
Currently I'd classify most of my friends though as introverts. They're usually much more up for spending a night solo or in a small group playing a game or having a stay-in movie night versus going out in big crowds. Because of this, even though I'm an ambivert sometimes I'm really the "designated extrovert" in a lot of social situations, like talking to new people or trying out a new thing by getting shoved to the front of the line xD
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Post by Deleted on Jul 29, 2017 20:03:37 GMT -5
idk if i'd straight-up call myself an introvert bc it really does depend, but if i'm an ambivert i tend to lean p introverted ya know?? most of my friends are probably the same: ambiverts who tend to lean a bit more towards introversion unless the conditions (which tend to be specific) are good
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Post by Sησω on Jul 29, 2017 20:04:50 GMT -5
I consider myself an ambivert.
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Post by Deleted on Jul 29, 2017 20:05:41 GMT -5
Introvert
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Post by Deleted on Jul 29, 2017 20:05:56 GMT -5
I'm really introverted to the point of it being a disorder according to my doctor.
I'm not sure how true that is, but I've only got 3 friends and I hardly ever talk to anyone besides those friends and my family.
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Post by Deleted on Jul 29, 2017 20:07:10 GMT -5
idk if i'd straight-up call myself an introvert bc it really does depend, but if i'm an ambivert i tend to lean p introverted ya know?? most of my friends are probably the same: ambiverts who tend to lean a bit more towards introversion unless the conditions (which tend to be specific) are good Yeah, I totally get what you mean, I know lots of people like that too! I think since I also hang out with people more on the introverted side I'm definitely becoming more of one also. I do tend to be a bit more shy in social situations than I used to be (depending on what it is). |
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Post by Deleted on Jul 29, 2017 20:08:43 GMT -5
I'm really introverted to the point of it being a disorder according to my doctor. I'm not sure how true that is, but I've only got 3 friends and I hardly ever talk to anyone besides those friends and my family. Oh wow, I'd never heard of it as a condition before! TBH as long as your 3 friends are good people, that's really all you need imo. I'm very choosy when it comes to friends, so I tend to have a lot of "acquaintances" but then only like a handful of actual close friends. |
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Post by Pantherstar on Jul 29, 2017 20:21:34 GMT -5
Extrovert with severe social anxiety. It's a wonderful combination. :'^)
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Post by Deleted on Jul 29, 2017 20:54:15 GMT -5
Extrovert with severe social anxiety. It's a wonderful combination. :'^) Oh heck that does sound rough, I'm sorry to hear that |
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Post by Deleted on Jul 29, 2017 21:13:18 GMT -5
Ambivert, leaning slightly more towards extroverted. Meeting new people doesn't drain me, in fact it does the opposite, though I will admit I am a homebody and when it comes to going out I probably won't show up if there's going to be more than 6 or 7 people, unless it's some public setting like a concert or something. Most of my friends are the same way. Nobody in our friend group is really the wild partier?
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Post by Deleted on Jul 29, 2017 21:17:50 GMT -5
I think I'm an introvert, but sometimes I really can't tell
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Post by indecisive on Jul 29, 2017 21:32:35 GMT -5
I don't even know anymore, haha. It seems to switch every couple of months. I'll go through periods of time where I'm super introverted and all I want to do is stay at home on my laptop or read books or draw or something and avoid human interaction as much as possible. Then bam I'll get all excited to go to a social event, be busy, talk to people and go places, etc. My social anxiety and depression just makes it even more confusing. Mostly it depends on the situation, which I know sounds really vague, but I'm not sure how else to describe it.
So I guess... neither?? I mean, if I were to fall under just one category it'd probably be ambivert, but I swing back and forth too much. A lot of people think of me as introverted,
but there's also a crowd that thinks I'm extroverted. Have I confused you yet? This is really badly worded aha but you get the idea. Who knows which one I am really 'cause I sure don't
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Post by literalynxxo on Jul 29, 2017 22:20:05 GMT -5
I don't actually know/want to take the time to know ¯\_(ツ)_/¯ Ambivert I suppose? |
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Post by Deleted on Jul 29, 2017 22:39:35 GMT -5
introvert, tho my colleagues wouldn't know bc i'm pretty lively around the people i know
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Post by sand dollar on Jul 29, 2017 23:16:08 GMT -5
i'm 100% introverted
my close friends are also primarily introverts, though some can be more outgoing than others
the guy im dating is super extroverted so im lowkey worried our relationship is doomed bc he spends So Much time with friends hopping around from event to event and if he ends up wanting me to hang out in groups often im going to suffer big time
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Post by Deleted on Jul 29, 2017 23:21:17 GMT -5
intro
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Post by nem on Jul 30, 2017 0:40:28 GMT -5
extrovert but extremely shy and awkward
technically an ambivert, but the gray area is too large to use that.
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Post by 𝓣𝓲𝓷𝓾𝓿𝓲𝓮𝓵 on Jul 30, 2017 7:17:17 GMT -5
I'm very introverted.
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Post by 𝕡𝕖𝕡𝕡𝕖𝕣𝕞𝕚𝕟𝕥 on Jul 30, 2017 7:26:19 GMT -5
I'm definitely an introvert. I do have a decent social life irl, but it can be pretty exhausting to maintain on bad days.
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Post by Deleted on Jul 30, 2017 7:33:25 GMT -5
everyone's an ambivert, but we have preferences as to when and how often we are introverted/extroverted
but I guess I'm extroverted most of the time?
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Post by Deleted on Jul 30, 2017 7:48:29 GMT -5
Ambivert, leaning slightly more towards extroverted. Meeting new people doesn't drain me, in fact it does the opposite, though I will admit I am a homebody and when it comes to going out I probably won't show up if there's going to be more than 6 or 7 people, unless it's some public setting like a concert or something. Most of my friends are the same way. Nobody in our friend group is really the wild partier? Yeah, meeting new people is cool. TBH the way I've always seen it you actually get to KNOW new people when it's in a small group setting, whereas in really crowded situations it's more scenarios where you usually can't have genuine conversations with new people because it's too congested/loud/there's usually some other event going on like a concert or dance, so everyone has the attention span of a goldfish anyway. I think that's why I enjoy small groups more for when you're meeting someone(s) |
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Post by Deleted on Jul 30, 2017 7:49:36 GMT -5
introvert, tho my colleagues wouldn't know bc i'm pretty lively around the people i know Thats a lot of my introverted friends tbh Super shy and unassuming when you first meet them and then once you get to know them they're actually wild lol |
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Post by Deleted on Jul 30, 2017 8:06:14 GMT -5
i'm 100% introverted my close friends are also primarily introverts, though some can be more outgoing than others the guy im dating is super extroverted so im lowkey worried our relationship is doomed bc he spends So Much time with friends hopping around from event to event and if he ends up wanting me to hang out in groups often im going to suffer big time I feel this. The first "real" relationship I had, the guy I was with was extremely introverted, whereas at the time I was a lot more outgoing/got involved in a lot of events/activities at our university. Fast forward a year and some and the next guy I dated was extroverted to the extreme. He wasn't even going to classes at the time I dated him and still managed to be busier than me thanks to his social agenda. So I found trying to balance that stuff out quite exhausting/most of the time I'd get stuck behind and he'd only see me in the evening |
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Post by pumpkin pie on Jul 30, 2017 9:03:08 GMT -5
Introvert
i don't really have any friends ha but the people who im more acquainted with I guess are extroverts
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Post by 𝘨𝘰𝘭𝘥𝘦𝘯 𝘴𝘶𝘯 on Jul 30, 2017 9:09:14 GMT -5
introvert for sure. I'm really loud and social irl though so most people wouldn't know that I need hours to recharge after any social event |
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Post by lozi on Jul 30, 2017 9:19:16 GMT -5
ambivert, there are days that I want to do things, but some days I am just done with people. I have really bad anxiety though, especially social anxiety so that's fun. |
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Post by The Kat's KitKat on Jul 30, 2017 12:04:43 GMT -5
I'm an extrovert, I love to go and hang out with people and go places, but I have a hard time introducing myself to new people. However, I do enjoy my alone time (;
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Post by vakarian on Jul 30, 2017 12:08:59 GMT -5
i'm an introvert. a lot of days i just like to chill by myself. i prefer to call people on skype/discord (though a lot of my friends are over the internet anyway), but i do get excited when i make plans with buddies, like goin to the movies or just hanging out <3
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Post by ƤαƖƖαѕ ✧ on Jul 30, 2017 12:25:23 GMT -5
Ambivert I suppose. But I'm definitely more of an introvert with new people, after which point I turn quite extroverted so...Idek. Most of my friends are introverts tho)
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