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Oct 10, 2016 23:43:19 GMT -5
Post by ehela on Oct 10, 2016 23:43:19 GMT -5
friend frend/Submit noun 1. a person whom one knows and with whom one has a bond of mutual affection
Perhaps the ppl you talk to are your friends, I mean you guys do talk to eachother willingly, right? As for real friendship, idek man still trying to figure that out myself lol whats that
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Oct 10, 2016 23:48:01 GMT -5
Post by Deleted on Oct 10, 2016 23:48:01 GMT -5
your avvie is on point. i love it, ehela.
how does one friendship? we need a 'friendship for dummies' thing.
and, yes, but it's more in passing.
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Oct 11, 2016 0:04:59 GMT -5
Post by ehela on Oct 11, 2016 0:04:59 GMT -5
@blackbird thanks i went to great lengths to find that avvie
that would be a best sellers holy moly i can picture it now id probably have like 5 of those books
whats in passing? im lost lol
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Post by Deleted on Oct 11, 2016 0:14:56 GMT -5
haha. is it from something or did you just remember seeing it somewhere?
i know!! all these kids would be all 'yes, please.' all these ADULTS would be all 'yes, please.'
it was in reply to your question about us talking willingly to each other. we do but it's in passing. as in, we just do it to pass time. it doesn't really mean anything. it's smalltalk.
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Oct 11, 2016 0:22:58 GMT -5
Post by ehela on Oct 11, 2016 0:22:58 GMT -5
nah i googled spooky
all of humanity in unison "yes please"
ahh ok tbh i cant stand smalltalk like its ok occasionally but like you said it doesnt really mean anything and youre not really learning about who they are idk i like knowing about ppl more deeply though someones fave color can be very insightful
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Post by Deleted on Oct 11, 2016 0:34:36 GMT -5
haha. i thought about getting into the halloween spirit and all. cryptic clown was going to be my SN but after all this craze. . maybe not.
yeah. i get that it serves as a warmup but, when it becomes so constant, it's just droning. if i can forget our conversation almost immediately afterward or go the whole day without it, it's smalltalk and i hate it. i'm not telling you to tell me your most darkest inner secrets but, damn, let's talk about something other than the weather for once. haha. some explanation makes all the difference.
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Oct 11, 2016 0:53:13 GMT -5
Post by ehela on Oct 11, 2016 0:53:13 GMT -5
its halloween you have to youre gonna have to wait another 12 months before its acceptible to be creepy cryptic clown sounds so cool actually
yo i feel bad for actual clowns tho, like there went the whole business lmao
inner darkest secrets sound pretty interesting the moment the weather comes up thats it rip im in college so usually ill be like whats your major and why and then ppl go into their life stories score theres a life hack for ya
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Post by Deleted on Oct 11, 2016 0:59:24 GMT -5
haha. maybe. . probably. . imma do it. and, totally. this would have been fun as a harmless prank but threatening and attacking people is where i draw the line.
i feel like "what's your major" is the standard greeting in college. like, forget hello. i just need to know your major. people don't usually go into their life stories for me, though. they're more like "yeah, it's this" and i'm just like "okay." that's the general gist of my social skills. xp
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Oct 11, 2016 1:17:25 GMT -5
Post by ehela on Oct 11, 2016 1:17:25 GMT -5
you did it yay das legit i dont think these clowns realize at this point that theyre probably gonna get attacked, whether by police or bystanders
thats so true xD, i hate getting that question cause im like i dont know *claw my eyes out* you have to press them about it lol, but it can get uncomfortable idk im not very outgoing so usually the other person initiates the convo, and i just go along with it
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Oct 11, 2016 1:20:58 GMT -5
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Post by sweetclover1 on Oct 11, 2016 1:20:58 GMT -5
@blackbird Oh I don't mind! Right now I'm majoring in Theatre Arts Education, but lately I've... I don't know, it just doesn't feel right? I don't have the ambition to be super successful in theatre, so I have no idea. I know I'm getting my masters in Library Sciences (hopefully) so I can be a Youth Services Librarian, but I don't know what I want to major in. Bleh I hate adulting. Thats good, that you felt good about your midterm!!! (Mine wasn't too bad, but I tripped infront of my professor rip) Tests can be hecka stressful, so its good you have good vibes!! // facepalm // i've been waiting all this time for a reply. i didn't see this till right now. xp sorry!
i know! it wasn't till recently that i decided on mine. criminal justice did NOT suit me so i went with secondary education. it's, honestly, the best. you'll figure it out sooner or later and, when you do, you'll know it was the right fit.
oh, no! all of the embarrassment. they're so hoight-toighty sometimes that it just hurts when you flub. i wish you well, though, on your exam. awkward things like that are my life though. i was talking to this boy which NEVER happens and, my hair being so big and poofy, traps things. mid-sentence this ladybug comes crawling down over my brow. i could have died there and then.Lol that's okay Cryptic!! XD XD What do you want to teach? And right!! They get so uppity but then give you the study guide last minute and your like thanks fam :/ but that's okay lol I think I passed mine? I just can't wait to end the semester and switch my major lols And omg that is so awkward ;-; at least you didn't die, though! That is crazy that that happened!! But I feel you on awkward, I'm like the queen of awkward.
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Post by Deleted on Oct 11, 2016 1:23:56 GMT -5
haha. woo. yeah. seriously, i won't be surprised if they try and pull something this halloween and a bunch of people get hurt. i just hope everyone tries their best to stay safe. stay smart!
bah. are you undecided? that's the usual for me. sometimes i can be really great and confident but, mostly, i just try and stick to my little corner. no one's much of a chatter where i live. unless, of course, you're one of my roommates. i love them but, damn, i've got things to do.
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Post by Ginz on Oct 11, 2016 1:26:54 GMT -5
i went onto a chat about 4 or 5 years ago i'm here doing voice calls with these ppl now
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Oct 11, 2016 1:36:54 GMT -5
Post by ehela on Oct 11, 2016 1:36:54 GMT -5
omg they have this haunted trails type thing in my city and im going to go and im so scared theres going to be a clown there that isnt supposed to be there
yeah, im leaning towards sociology or neuroscience but im scared that im not going to like it and ill want to change my mind and start over that sounds like a blast xD the ppl around me either talk too much or too little, its hard to find a balance.
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Oct 11, 2016 1:37:34 GMT -5
Post by Deleted on Oct 11, 2016 1:37:34 GMT -5
// facepalm // i've been waiting all this time for a reply. i didn't see this till right now. xp sorry!
i know! it wasn't till recently that i decided on mine. criminal justice did NOT suit me so i went with secondary education. it's, honestly, the best. you'll figure it out sooner or later and, when you do, you'll know it was the right fit.
oh, no! all of the embarrassment. they're so hoight-toighty sometimes that it just hurts when you flub. i wish you well, though, on your exam. awkward things like that are my life though. i was talking to this boy which NEVER happens and, my hair being so big and poofy, traps things. mid-sentence this ladybug comes crawling down over my brow. i could have died there and then. Lol that's okay Cryptic!! XD XD What do you want to teach? And right!! They get so uppity but then give you the study guide last minute and your like thanks fam :/ but that's okay lol I think I passed mine? I just can't wait to end the semester and switch my major lols And omg that is so awkward ;-; at least you didn't die, though! That is crazy that that happened!! But I feel you on awkward, I'm like the queen of awkward. my internet's all wonky. xp
i really want to teach socio. for secondary or higher. my longterm goals include a PhD for the meantime, i'll be teaching socio, history(world), and government. those are my concentrations.
i, legit, have no study guides for these coming midterms. i'm freaking out. yeah. it's hard studying for something that doesn't benefit your major. i wish you well on your exams!
haha. you reign supreme over all those long, uncomfortable silences and ill-footed steps.
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Post by Deleted on Oct 11, 2016 1:44:47 GMT -5
i went onto a chat about 4 or 5 years ago i'm here doing voice calls with these ppl now that's awesome!omg they have this haunted trails type thing in my city and im going to go and im so scared theres going to be a clown there that isnt supposed to be there yeah, im leaning towards sociology or neuroscience but im scared that im not going to like it and ill want to change my mind and start over that sounds like a blast xD the ppl around me either talk too much or too little, its hard to find a balance. ehhhh. that's no fun. terrifying but i hope, if they do, they're just joking around. we've a pretty big haunted theme park where i'm at with a few spooky attractions. those are always fun. they've a haunted hayride, a mansion, magic shows. it's neat.
sociology is really awesome. i feel like, with the right direction, it's the potential to make quite the difference. do you know what you want to do? maybe finding a bit of a focus in job careers concerning your majors and its ideas would help. they've also got tests and such online that might give you a few ideas on what you'd like to do.
same! i've one person i really feel comfortable talking around and that's it.
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Oct 11, 2016 1:50:47 GMT -5
Post by Deleted on Oct 11, 2016 1:50:47 GMT -5
like, how does one go about acquiring a few. i've got people i talk to but no real friends. both rl and here, i feel.
i can relate !! oh god
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Oct 11, 2016 1:54:35 GMT -5
Post by ehela on Oct 11, 2016 1:54:35 GMT -5
thats so cool, are you gonna go o:
i want to go into the medical field, but i dont rlly like bio lol, which confuses ppl, even though you dont need a science degree to apply but i want to major in something that im interested in, not just get a degree and go, you know? thats two years of your life spent in one area d you know what youre majoring in?
not just comfortable talking around, being comfortably silent with them, thats just as important
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Oct 12, 2016 10:36:45 GMT -5
Post by Deleted on Oct 12, 2016 10:36:45 GMT -5
totally!! or, at least, i hope so. they do a few deals so we're trying to catch it at the right time.
understandable. perhaps you could look into a degree which sets you up for your goal. it doesn't have to be bio but something close to it? i'm majoring in secondary education with concentrations in history, sociology, and political science. i'm so excited to teach. i've heard the horror stories but i seriously need this. i want to help, to shape someone's future in a positive manner.
that's a really good point. i'll definitely keep that in mind.
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