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Post by Deleted on Oct 7, 2016 12:40:11 GMT -5
pickles. and {relationship} advice. hello i am a seventeen year old asexual high school senior! i have a crush on a seventeen year old high school senior, male. i kind of ? want to see if we could be together, but notice asexual. i feel like that makes the chances of rejection skyrocket. do you agree? disagree? is it even worth pursuing since we're probably going to be separated next year for college? if it is worth pursuing, how do i go about that? we aren't friends and have no mutual friends, we have two classes together where we sit one chair away in each {i sit in front of him in English and behind him in Anatomy}. we also have band together, but little to no interaction possibilities there. we've spoken three times this year, and it's been about 4-5 weeks of school. i initiated the conversation once, he initiated the conversation once, and the last time was literally just "bless you", "thanks". while i go get pickles, please offer advice!
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Post by Deleted on Oct 7, 2016 12:51:04 GMT -5
pickles are better than boys so that's okay
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Post by Deleted on Oct 7, 2016 12:54:20 GMT -5
TCH. BAKA. A-As if
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Post by Deleted on Oct 7, 2016 12:57:49 GMT -5
if i report you for bullying how seriously will the other staff take it
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Post by Northstar3213 on Oct 7, 2016 14:15:41 GMT -5
Well getting into relationships as a high school senior isn't really a good idea, as everyone quickly disperses after graduation. (Speaking from experience here)
But tbh being asexual shouldn't really matter. All it really translates to is a relationship built on getting to know a person rather than how they are in bed. I can't really speak on behalf of your crush though. But I certainly think it's worth networking with him and at least getting to the friend zone. That's what I did with my high school crush and it turned out okay.
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Post by Deleted on Oct 7, 2016 17:21:48 GMT -5
yeah i'm wary about the senior thing.
and like the ace thing probably wouldn't be a problem if we actually knew each other, but idk how he feels about that stuff. maybe he wouldn't care because of the senior thing, or maybe he'd care more. i don't know ):
any advice on how to talk to him?
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Post by Northstar3213 on Oct 7, 2016 18:28:49 GMT -5
Well that might be something you bring up when you get to know him a little better.
Well in terms of talking to him. You need to just do it. Say hi. Smile. Ask him how his day's going. What he did over the weekend. It doesn't really have to be anything special. ^^
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Post by carbonated water on Oct 7, 2016 19:28:38 GMT -5
THIS is how you call off our engagement, PatiencE???? i've already booked the venue for the reception!!!! i can't get that money back
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Post by Deleted on Oct 7, 2016 23:16:55 GMT -5
U send me snaps of ur boy toy weedpaw don't start w me
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Post by Deleted on Oct 7, 2016 23:19:47 GMT -5
Well that might be something you bring up when you get to know him a little better. Well in terms of talking to him. You need to just do it. Say hi. Smile. Ask him how his day's going. What he did over the weekend. It doesn't really have to be anything special. ^^ idk how really. He gets into class like ten seconds before the bell rings lol and before school he's surrounded by other dudes, so not much of an opening there. He's also by dudes, cheering, at volleyball games and he's in football so no chance there. Idk what I can do );
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Post by carbonated water on Oct 7, 2016 23:21:31 GMT -5
U send me snaps of ur boy toy weedpaw don't start w me oh yeaaaaa..............
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Post by tiger beetle on Oct 7, 2016 23:23:31 GMT -5
the advice I should offer is probably somewhere along the lines of go ahead and ask him out; worst case scenario is rejection, which hurts but at least can be a turning point to help you get over him; however, if he says yes, then bring it up after some time but before it ever, like, comes up?
however I am such an incredible hypocrite for saying that! so you might want to take everything I say with a couple grains of salt! because I would never be able to go through with that so uh maybe it's not the most realistic plan…?
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Post by Deleted on Oct 7, 2016 23:28:41 GMT -5
I'm not TOO much of a shy type so I totally would ask him but my biggest concern besides the ace thing is the rejection factor. We've spoken literally twice. I'm considering talking to my English teacher in private and seeing if, when she changes seating charts, she can put him next to me instead of behind me and maybe "random" group projects could "randomly" have us together. I'm going to wait to be sure the crush lasts longer than like 2 weeks tho
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