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Post by rose on Oct 1, 2016 22:50:04 GMT -5
I think I will. I mean, when I'm elderly then I'll need someone to look after me, right?
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Post by Deleted on Oct 1, 2016 22:52:17 GMT -5
Nope. Definitely not.
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Post by Deleted on Oct 1, 2016 22:53:58 GMT -5
i can barely take care of myself
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Post by Pantherstar on Oct 1, 2016 23:30:48 GMT -5
Nope. I'm repulsed by the idea of having children biologically, I'd make a terrible mother, and I wouldn't be willing to spend so much money.
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Post by Fire the Watcher of the vale on Oct 2, 2016 9:55:44 GMT -5
THIS IS THE REASON WHY THE WORLD'S POPULATION IS GOING TO BE DECREASING SOON!
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Post by Deleted on Oct 2, 2016 10:00:48 GMT -5
Fire: Perhaps that's for the best. We're an overpopulated species.
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Post by Fire the Watcher of the vale on Oct 2, 2016 10:05:55 GMT -5
I know that but we should keep the population where it is. we have the food and water that we need. the reason places in africa don't have food is because there's no transportation to get it there.
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Post by Deleted on Oct 2, 2016 10:06:03 GMT -5
yes.
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Post by ~TopmødeFlyinglark~ on Oct 2, 2016 10:08:55 GMT -5
Maybe, after I've got a stable job.
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Post by ๖ۣۜCrossroads on Oct 2, 2016 10:12:26 GMT -5
No, unless my future partner wants one.
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Post by Sanders on Oct 2, 2016 10:17:10 GMT -5
No. I have a bad relationship with my parents and I am bad at forming relationships. I can't relate to children and I often go nonverbal if I get stressed out enough to the point of not being able to handle it. So basically I don't want to put a child into a place of not being properly taken care of because I can't. Also if their relationship with me is anything like my relationship with my parents I would not want to put them in such an untrusting environment. So no. Also I'm trans so I can't have biological children anyway because I'm gonna stop having periods.
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Post by sheik on Oct 2, 2016 10:20:59 GMT -5
Maybe. The thought of giving birth terrifies me, but I think it might be worth it.
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Post by ~𝐿𝒶𝓊𝓇𝓇𝑒𝑜𝓌~ on Oct 2, 2016 12:08:51 GMT -5
Most definitely not, I really don't like kids and I would suck at parenting
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Post by tiger beetle on Oct 2, 2016 12:11:54 GMT -5
no
a kid would be gross, require time/resources, potentially end up in danger (what if I'm not there and my kid gets hit by a car!!! I can't let that happen!)...
I would not go through that
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Post by Deleted on Oct 2, 2016 12:16:02 GMT -5
I can't physically have children either. I have an autoimmune disorder, and that alone greatly increases my chance of miscarriage or death during child birth should I get pregnant. I was also on chemo drugs for a few months, rendering me permanently infertile. There's probably a 0-1% chance of me getting pregnant at all, and I wouldn't be able to carry it to term.
I wasn't planning on having kids anyways, as I can't see myself as a mother. And I'm a lot like my mom and I know from her that she is not a good parent.
I might adopt some day, but immblt planning on it.
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Post by Cheyenne on Oct 2, 2016 12:24:11 GMT -5
Do cats count?
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Post by Deleted on Oct 2, 2016 14:05:30 GMT -5
Yes
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Post by Deleted on Oct 2, 2016 14:55:42 GMT -5
no no no n o no no no no i have never liked children ever i am still technically a child and i hate myself i would much rather just live with one or two of my friends, split the house payments and bills, and have a few pets
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Post by Deleted on Oct 2, 2016 15:27:41 GMT -5
No thanks
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Post by Sand 🎃 on Oct 2, 2016 15:36:05 GMT -5
nope, I'm not willing to have them because the medical condition I have is basically biological at this point in my life. I don't really care too much for children either, so it works out in a way. I also don't see myself ever getting married or having a long term relationship.
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Post by Deleted on Oct 2, 2016 15:39:10 GMT -5
Mmhmm I mean giving birth is obviously a painful experience but millions--billions?--of people have gone through it, multiple times, so I'd imagine it would work out okay. There's the issue of overpopulating, too, but honestly I'm adopted so I really want someone I know is related to me someday.
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sɪʟᴠᴇʀᴏᴡʟ ☾
rood yelling meanie
be cunning and full of tricks
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Post by sɪʟᴠᴇʀᴏᴡʟ ☾ on Oct 2, 2016 16:40:03 GMT -5
•♕• no i want to have money. i eventually i want one, then i will probably adopt. •♔•
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Post by Cheyenne on Oct 2, 2016 17:38:52 GMT -5
I'm not pretty enough to get a boyfriend so...
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Post by Aku on Oct 2, 2016 18:47:01 GMT -5
I'm not sure yet, if I never have kids of my own then maybe I'll adopt but it just depends on the future.
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Post by Deleted on Oct 2, 2016 18:51:08 GMT -5
Dang, if cats count then I already have seven children.
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Post by Deleted on Oct 2, 2016 19:22:12 GMT -5
i'm adopting, no biological kids for me probably!!
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Post by Deleted on Oct 2, 2016 19:23:48 GMT -5
I think I will. I mean, when I'm elderly then I'll need someone to look after me, right? wrong reason to have kids. they don't owe you anything and there's absolutely no guarantees they'd do that
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Post by Fiddle on Oct 2, 2016 19:55:51 GMT -5
Not particularly. I honestly find children just to be a hassle. They make unnecessary messes, are loud, and frankly are just annoying in general. And most of the children I've met, are just flat out spoiled. There are this women who have 4, 5, or 6 children in my neighborhood and I just ??? Why? How can you afford that? Other than that, both my boyfriend and I (we hope one day we can get married) agree that having children would just take away time for each other anyway. My boyfriend also has marfan syndrome, so if we are to get married one day, I'm not quite sure if ethical to children (there's a good 50% chance they would have it). So, no, no children for me.
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Post by Deleted on Oct 2, 2016 20:03:01 GMT -5
I think I will. I mean, when I'm elderly then I'll need someone to look after me, right? Just because you have kids doesn't mean they will end up taking care of you in your old age. There are many elderly people who are abandoned in nursing homes by their kids who never visit. Also your kids might not even be around to take care of you. They could be dead, in prison, living halfway across the country/world, or they just don't want to visit. Just because someone has kids doesn't mean they will automatically care for you when you get old.
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Post by The Green Writer on Oct 2, 2016 20:31:44 GMT -5
I would totally have kids, if I can't physically have them, I will adopt a dozen
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