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Post by Deleted on Dec 5, 2019 19:40:58 GMT -5
You start talking closely to someone online, but the person you were talking with, was actually your SO catfishing you?
I'm asking, because I'm watching this video on youtube called 6 Catfish No One Suspected, and one of the catfish turned out to be the girlfriend of the girl being catfished.
And like, she got all mad at her girlfriend for cheating on her, but it was actually her the whole time!
I mean, I get that the idea of cheating was there, but idk this just confuses me.
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Post by Deleted on Dec 5, 2019 19:54:41 GMT -5
I feel like it would 100% count as cheating unless they knew it was their SO though that's still a.. very creepy and clingy thing to do
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Post by 🎃❅❖.Şp໐໐kฯຟiຖ໓.❖❅🎃 on Dec 5, 2019 20:00:43 GMT -5
Gross thing to do but it is still cheating. Doesn't matter if it's the same person, the cheating person in question wasn't aware of that and acted on their feelings anyway.
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Post by Skypaw13 on Dec 5, 2019 20:49:22 GMT -5
The question of whether something is cheating or not is up to the couple in question. Whether or not something is "technically" cheating is irrelevant; if one person feels cheated by the other person's actions, then that's cause for concern, discussion, and possibly a separation.
Like, in the case you're describing, I would say that's not technically cheating, but obviously they would have cheated had the circumstance been slightly different, so it's still reason for the exact same amount of concern as more obvious cheating.
(This is assuming that by "talking closely", you mean intent to cheat either romantically or sexually. If my SO found an online best friend they were talking to 24/7, I'd be a little annoyed, but I wouldn't consider it cheating unless I found evidence of romantic or sexual intent.)
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Post by Deleted on Dec 5, 2019 21:03:58 GMT -5
Thanks, I think you all made really good points
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Post by The Noble Dragon on Dec 12, 2019 15:46:06 GMT -5
if you have to ask if it's cheating then its probably cheating
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