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Post by Deleted on Sept 21, 2017 19:32:10 GMT -5
it's probably cause i'm not really close to anyone but idk i just feel like i have a hard time talking to you guys sometimes. ¯\_(ツ)_/¯ whenever i make a thread no one posts on it and it's kinda lame, i just wanna chat man
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Post by mickle on Sept 21, 2017 19:50:12 GMT -5
yeah the audience here is very picky with their threads...
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Post by tiger beetle on Sept 21, 2017 19:58:31 GMT -5
I never really have much to say
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Post by Deleted on Sept 21, 2017 19:58:37 GMT -5
@soli hello hi i'm glad i'm not alone then i just feel like the forums have died a bit so now people only talk about important/funny things mickle apparently haha i've deleted so many of my otd threads bc of no responses
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Post by Deleted on Sept 21, 2017 19:59:15 GMT -5
I never really have much to say i've been feeling like that too recently like i'll see a popular post and read through it but not say anything
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Post by tiger beetle on Sept 21, 2017 20:00:53 GMT -5
I never really have much to say i've been feeling like that too recently like i'll see a popular post and read through it but not say anything yeah I want to contribute but I have nothing to bring to the table
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Post by Deleted on Sept 21, 2017 20:06:33 GMT -5
tiger beetle i relate to that so much tbh. sometimes i'll even start typing up a post but then i just delete it cause i'm like "nah, that doesn't make sense"
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Post by tiger beetle on Sept 21, 2017 20:09:01 GMT -5
I have this habit of typing really long posts but then realizing I'm just rambling about something only tangentially related to the topic and deleting the whole thing
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Post by Deleted on Sept 21, 2017 20:13:42 GMT -5
tiger beetle yES i'll start going off on rants or vents and i just delete. it all. bc no one probably wants to read that @soli whenever i see like more than 5 pages on a thread i probably won't even bother clicking on it because i don't want to interrupt anything LOL i wish i could bring people back, i feel like all the oldies got deleted and that's one of the main reasons why it died down (though i'm sure there was a reason for their deletion) tbh me making my chat thread but they just sink to the bottom of otd
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Post by tiger beetle on Sept 21, 2017 20:22:04 GMT -5
I also feel pretty distant from most of the community in the first place
and I also feel like a lot of the people I want to talk to just don't want to talk to me? even though they're nice people we just don't have anything in common and I can't help when they have problems so I never talk to them and then it looks like I'm avoiding them but I'm not...
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Post by Deleted on Sept 21, 2017 20:43:50 GMT -5
sorry for disappearing i had to get food @soli i think i've posted on pretzels twice and i feel like i'm butting into their convos.. oops i used to be close with a lot of people on the old forums but idk i've changed a lot and i don't really know them anymore/they're not on the forums so it just makes it weird for me i'd honestly love to make more chat threads it's just when i do they normally die, if ppl are will to talk though i'm very down tiger beetle yeah i feel distant from the community as well. i always wanted to be an open person who can listen to others here but i also feel like nobody really wants to talk to me, y'know? i think i just have a hard time getting into a conversation Rosa hello! yes talking is good, how was your day?
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Post by tiger beetle on Sept 21, 2017 20:48:36 GMT -5
I'm so bad at conversation in general 😵 the hardest part is probably trying to leave it open ended enough that it can be replied to
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Post by Deleted on Sept 21, 2017 20:55:02 GMT -5
tiger beetle that's my struggle too because i don't want to ever make it awkward but also it's hard since i don't know what to say?? so i just have a general hard time striking conversations with people. even irl i don't talk to anyone unless i need to/they talk to me first LOL
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Post by Deleted on Sept 21, 2017 20:56:58 GMT -5
@soli i think i've posted on pretzels twice and i feel like i'm butting into their convos.. oops i used to be close with a lot of people on the old forums but idk i've changed a lot and i don't really know them anymore/they're not on the forums so it just makes it weird for me i'd honestly love to make more chat threads it's just when i do they normally die, if ppl are will to talk though i'm very down same here rip oh true, most of my old forum friends are kinda distant from me now too so ig we're in the same boat there? i'm always willing to talk and down for a chat thread, guess one doesn't really compare to the majority tho rip rip pretzels and tbh it's really comforting to know that i'm not the only one struggling with this cause before i used to talk to forum friends so much and now i just?? dont?? and thank u for at least being the one who wants to chat. i guess it's true though, the majority doesn't seem to want to. ig there's more important things to talk about then how your day went
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Post by tiger beetle on Sept 21, 2017 20:57:50 GMT -5
yeah it's like
I need to keep the conversation going
but I have no conversation to add
then what!?
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Post by Deleted on Sept 21, 2017 20:58:25 GMT -5
@toomanywcfaccounts it was interesting ... I teach special ed so I had to clean up some kids. ...and our bathroom. Blech. How are you? funny you said that, my mom called me today (she works at an elementary school) and apparently there was a "code brown" and a kindergartner had been let loose while needing to use the washroom. yikes and i'm okay, could be better. i'm getting a really bad cold so that sucks a lot but i'm really happy that tomorrow's friday
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Post by Deleted on Sept 21, 2017 20:59:14 GMT -5
what's poppin I'm trying to figure out How To Deliberately Become Friends With A Person it's a very puzzling situation
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Post by Deleted on Sept 21, 2017 20:59:27 GMT -5
tiger beetle EXACTLY haha. when the conversation was supposed to be ending and you don't know if you should say anything more
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Post by Deleted on Sept 21, 2017 21:00:21 GMT -5
what's poppin I'm trying to figure out How To Deliberately Become Friends With A Person it's a very puzzling situation my bones. my shoulders are very stiff and i wish you luck my man, making friends is hard- i would know from the year i've been here haha ha h a how are ye
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Rosa
Call me Rosa: 21, music lover, teacher, Irish American, sassy but all about spreading love♡
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Post by Rosa on Sept 21, 2017 21:02:39 GMT -5
@toomanywcfaccounts it was interesting ... I teach special ed so I had to clean up some kids. ...and our bathroom. Blech. How are you? funny you said that, my mom called me today (she works at an elementary school) and apparently there was a "code brown" and a kindergartner had been let loose while needing to use the washroom. yikes and i'm okay, could be better. i'm getting a really bad cold so that sucks a lot but i'm really happy that tomorrow's friday Yes. Literally every hour I have a code brown. And usually a code upchuck. I'm living the dream yall 😅 I'm sorry I hope you feel better! YAY FRIDAY
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Post by Deleted on Sept 21, 2017 21:07:36 GMT -5
Rosa oh jeez, that'd be pretty harsh. i honestly couldn't deal with that LOL yes i'm sorry too, i'll stick to drinking ginger lemon tea every morning! maybe it'll soothe my throat yes!! very yay. i get off early tomorrow so that's really nice, i'll hopefully be able to see some friends do you have any upcoming plans for the weekend?
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Post by Deleted on Sept 21, 2017 21:13:52 GMT -5
Rosa aw that sounds nice! and like a lot of fun. i love festivals but honestly i haven't gone to many. i hope you have a good time (:
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Post by Deleted on Sept 21, 2017 21:20:57 GMT -5
If you wanna try to get to know each other I'm down :0!!
Tho if you have it, I prefer talking on Discord cause it's just faster
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Post by Deleted on Sept 21, 2017 21:21:05 GMT -5
Rosa i'm actually not too sure yet. i'm the kind of person who makes their plans the day of, normally. i'll probably hang out with my boyfriend and do any work that i have to do (this includes studying) other than that though i plan on sleeping ig
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Post by Deleted on Sept 21, 2017 21:21:56 GMT -5
Nochi hello !! yes i'd be happy to chat my friend (: sadly i don't have discord /; sorry man how are you? whatcha been up to?
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Post by Deleted on Sept 21, 2017 21:28:11 GMT -5
rip discord :,( I'm pretty good! Feel like I wasted today cause I didn't have any homework to do and now I'm a day behind on next week's homework. Not a bad day besides that, though! You?
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